Anyone have experience with Sugar Baby relationships?

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ExoticCharmer

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on another note, are you guys not apprehensive about bait and switch with SB?
How would it be B&S? I meet everyone for coffee first to see if there's chemistry and mutual attraction. If the girl ends up not looking anything like her pictures, walk away, just like any date. Same thing happens in the SP world doesn't it?
 

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How are you guys paying for your SA membership? Your legit personal cc? I'm imagining a worst case scenario where the site makes it difficult to cancel or my cc info gets stolen.
It is a legit cc, it isnt hard to cancel, but be careful, they set your membership to auto renew unless you go into settings and change that, when you cancel your membership before its run out, there is a number to call but they seem cool to help once you get through and most of all remember, girls on here for free so tons and I mean tons of fake profiles
 

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It is a legit cc, it isnt hard to cancel, but be careful, they set your membership to auto renew unless you go into settings and change that, when you cancel your membership before its run out, there is a number to call but they seem cool to help once you get through and most of all remember, girls on here for free so tons and I mean tons of fake profiles
My premium on SA expires in 18 days, so I'll post an update when the time comes.

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ExoticCharmer

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At this point, I've got 2 SBs that I think I'll see regularly with a potential 3rd after we go on a date.

Now I just have to figure out if I want to continue meeting new girls for coffee or not.. Just as a back up plan.
 

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Just a follow up question for shack, GB, and others who have found SB's for $300/evening. Were there other costs associated with the date?.. Longer hours means... dinner, snacks, shopping?
Shopping? No. Travel? Yes. Dinners? Yes. Gifts? Yes.
 

shack

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Same as GB.
 

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Same same! I'm addicted so I keep meeting girls! One wanted a grand per visit so she's no longer in contention but I still have my regular and enough time and budget to get another.
 

ExoticCharmer

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I guess I'll post an update.

Recently, I've started reaching out to older women.. been watching a lot of MILF porn recently and I guess I'm just in that mood right now. Their expectations are lower than girls in their 20s, I don't know if this is because of my age or their age but it seems to be the norm.

It's a different strategy though, with younger SBs, I'm aim for the whole spectrum: GND to DDG. With the older women, I'm strictly aiming for DDG/MILFs though.

I've met one so far, similar body to Francesca Le. I'll spare you guys the details but long story short; it was originally $400 for 6 hours (12pm-6pm), turned into $700 for 22 hours (12pm to 10am). The extra $300 was to pay for dinner, breakfast and snacks. Needless to say, I plan to see her regularly.

I have a few more lined up to meet for coffee to see if their age checks out and whether or not, they look like their pictures. I find older women lie A LOT about their age / pictures...
 

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700 for an overnight all included :Eek: EC you are my hero :)
 

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It depends on what you want. I've seen SPs for years, but I've had two sugar babies as well. They are different arrangements.

SPs, are more about just sex. You get variety, not even a suggestion of a commitment, and essentially pay-for-play. They are also relative low-risk, no up-front money and if they don't show you're not out a dime.

With SBs there's more of a chance to hang out and develop a sense of intimacy (genuine or not, who's to say?) You make a bit of a commitment, perhaps a monthly allowance up-front, and in return you get consistency and a lesser chance that the lady will just drop off the radar because she's having a bad week or she met a cute guy. SBs require more planning and scheduling, but in general your expense per sex act is lower.

I've loved both. I'm currently in a SB relationship because I have so little time for R&R I want to make sure that what I have counts. I need to plan dates weeks in advance due to my job, and I need to be reasonably sure the woman will show up. The SB scene in Toronto is rich and varied.

KK
This is incredibly well written and gives a pretty good summary between the subtle differences.

EC, I don't think the 'cheaper' SB route is a ready option.

You must be lucky to discover such a gal but, I find that you may 'cultivate' an SB from someone in the industry (develop a rapport), where they don't watch the clock like an agency gal or indy with an active or busy schedule.
The cultivation is precisely how my 3 longest SD/SB relationships came about. People in standard relationships do not maintain their relationship as long as one of these (3+ years).

I think sb relationships end very badly for the most part.
No they don't when approached correctly. Some maintain friendship for many years afterward.

From a woman's perspective, isn't the SB/SD relationship something totally different though? You don't have to deal with multiple individuals, with people you don't know. You can get to know, like, trust your partner? You can drop your guard and be much more relaxed with your partner... Obviously if you were the kind of princess others are hinting about that's another story (and I'm NOT saying you are, I don't know you!). The SB life would just not apply to your expectations.

From my very limited experience with a SB (who was an agency SP before), I see A LOT of differences (and she tells me so). It doesn't look like the same beast at all.
It is different... You both have good days, and bad days. You see the ups and downs and in many ways as a sugar relationship progresses you embrace these... You know exactly whom you will spend your evening or afternoon with and you get excited to do so. It doesn't really matter how much of an allowance you get because at the end of the day you know your SD will ALWAYS ensure you are taken care of.


Former SB Extraordinaire,
Lily Divine


For those wondering I will share... I have run the gamut of scenarios:

Shopping Daddy - He was far more comfortable taking me shopping than he ever was handing over an allowance. It was fun, playful, and an amazing day. Always!
Average Day - $500-1000 shopping (I never once asked, but rather tried things on, and let him decide what I was getting) + lunch. I always provided the accommodations. We'd go out once every 3-8 weeks.

My Mentor - He was my sounding board, my confidant, my best friend. There through thick or thin in either of our lives and we still touch base once in a while even now.
Monthly - $300/week + shopping and incidentals. He knew what rent was, and covered it plus a little more. In addition to this we went to dinner, or lunch 1-5 times a week. I truly mean we were together often... If I wanted something expensive in a store it was not unheard of for that to happen also. I would say that between gifts and allowance I was getting an average of $2000-2500/month + incidentals such as food and entertainment which likely totaled well over $1500-2000/month. Sex was fantastic! Always!

My Traveling Eye Candy - What more can I say? Women like eye candy also and I got lucky. I saw him with regularity on his trips to my area. If he was in town... I had NO other plans!
Per-Visit/Trip - $500 for an evening, $1000 for a 24-36 hour visit on average + dinner, his hotel/accommodations, wine, flowers, toys... Dinner was room service always and eaten while entwined with one another naked. ALWAYS! Breakfast was always in bed and there wasn't a chance that I was doing anything the day after other than sleep and read romance novels in a bubble bath.


It's different when it develops to those stages... There is nothing wrong with P4P and to be honest a number of those I see now border on the fringes of this. It just has become more of a very friendly community of friends between them. They all bring something unique to the table, and we keep things in this context to limit the demands and expectations one might otherwise find post transition.
 

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I am a SB. I like it, it's like a girlfriend on call lol. Great dinners, shopping and parties. I usually spend the weekend, and it does save my sd some cash. You do need to define the lines and have clear boundaries. I'm not needy or pushy and i make my own money to, so I haven't had issues. :)

Monthly retainers!
 

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I am a SB. I like it, it's like a girlfriend on call lol. Great dinners, shopping and parties. I usually spend the weekend, and it does save my sd some cash. You do need to define the lines and have clear boundaries. I'm not needy or pushy and i make my own money to, so I haven't had issues. :)

Monthly retainers!
Does he know you SP?
 

Autumn-desilva

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Does he know you SP?
Yes lol he knows. Honesty is very important.:p some people just need a little more love and attention than an 1 or 2 hour session with a sp. Im an affectionate, drama free person and a good listener. So it works out :)
 

ExoticCharmer

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Anyone try looking for SBs in other cities?... like Montreal for example?..

The thought crossed my mind today, seeing as how we get a couple hotties visiting from Montreal from time to time.. Figured they have something special in their water, didn't do a thorough search but at a glance, WOW. Now I just have to figure out how to make this work...
 

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I have heard tinder is becoming a hotspot for sugar relationships. If you pay for your account you can look at people from specific cities (rather then just those that are nearby.
 
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