Anyone have experience with Sugar Baby relationships?

[SchlongConery]

I think moving from text to talk is more difficult than getting to the meet. It seems to be a generational thing.

I have had a couple of girls that wanted to talk before meeting just to hear the voice as a pre-meet screening. Very refreshing.

I wonder if it might be more of a sign of our times? I find even women my own age are texting more and talking on the phone and getting together in person less.

It seems that the basic human need for human social interaction is being superficially satisfied by text, twitter, instagram, facebook and email.

 

[SchlongConery]

 

[Scorpio Rising]

Thanks to exoticcharmer and the other guys who have shared their insight and experiences.

I've done to SB thing in the past and it has been an overall positive experience.

However, recently I have been dabbling with the whatsyourprice.com girls and ...holy shit... are these girls ever flaky! And this whole text messaging thing now?!?! Nobody wants to talk on the phone it's just text, text, text.

I'm going to reactivate my Seeking Arrangement profile from a few years ago but I'm not sure how to navigate the text messaging protocols to move things to the talk on the phone and meet stage.

Any advice would be appreciated.

Just arrange to meet them via text.

 

[SchlongConery]

Considering this thread has gone 6 pages now.. there's clearly interest. Enough so, that people have actually started PMing me asking to make introductions to my SBs.

So to anyone reading this thread, I'm not interested in playing matchmaker right now, so please stop sending me PMs. Make a profile on SA and do some research / work on your own.

I don't mind sharing insight into this world but literally, sharing my SBs is not something I'm comfortable with right now.

Good luck with your search,
EC

Hi ExoticCharmer

I noticed you are hard at it back in the Incall review section.

How did the SB adventure pan out in general?

I dabbled a bit in the lat week, but, frankly, I didn't have the patience for the texting and general flakiness of the hot ones on SA and whatsyourprice.

 

[ExoticCharmer]

Hi ExoticCharmer

I noticed you are hard at it back in the Incall review section.

How did the SB adventure pan out in general?

I dabbled a bit in the lat week, but, frankly, I didn't have the patience for the texting and general flakiness of the hot ones on SA and whatsyourprice.

I've increased my monthly budget by 50% to allow myself to indulge in both the SB and SP world. To put it into perspective, 100% of previous budget went to SPs. Currently, 60% of new budget goes to SBs and 40% goes to SPs.

Sometimes I just want a BBBJ or to fuck, so I book an SP. Other times, I want to go on a date with sex at the end of the night. I still do both, only issue with SB's is you need to plan a week or two in advance.

 

[Hurricane Hank]

I'm weeding through SA at the moment. Had some straight up P4P offers sent my way. Others there want to be wined and dined ala a real relationship. Been texting with 3 ladies, trying to set up a coffee date to start.

 

[Samantha Jones]

communication works for both of these. I treat my regulars well, the more time they get and the more they keep coming back. It's nice when everyone feels they are being treated fairly.. and SP might be more money but willing to negotiate a better deal if you choose to spend an evening with her once a week

 

[implied69]

I tried it. I thought it would be a bit like having a lawyer on retainer. No strings.
Wrong.
Demanding, ever increasing needs. Finally when I said no more she threatened to expose what was going on.
I don't have anyone to hide from, go ahead.
More trouble than it's worth.
See an annonamous SP. See her a lot if you want.
Don't do the manipulative sugar baby that thinks she has you all wrapped up.

I agree with your comments. I wanted something nsa. Then they get the emotions all into it and things get confusing. A SP is better, less headache. less $$

 

[implied69]

honestly, my schedule is so busy a quick 1/2 hr or 1hr is sufficient to address any needs. I don't like spending all evening with someone. I thought I did but i don't.....lol

 

[ExoticCharmer]

If you book multiple hours with SPs regularly (which I do), then SBs is a very viable route to get more for your money. If not, then like implied69 mentioned above, it's not worth it. Your mindset is different so it won't work.

 

[bluecolt]

Has anyone else noticed a few SP's that advertise on Seeking Arrangements? I could recognize a few that I have met previously.

I noticed that also on SA. I am presently in a long-term relationship with a former Playboy model SB many years my junior. We have a great life. I see her several times a week for dinner, movies and of course, sex. The only drawback with her is that rubberneckers eyeball her all the time and women tend to look her up and down in disdain.

I guess that we have adjusted our lives toward each other. I don't see SPs anymore although I still like to go to the local strip joint once in a while. I have to be careful because she has spies everywhere.

 

[Titalian]

I noticed that also on SA. I am presently in a long-term relationship with a former Playboy model SB many years my junior. We have a great life. I see her several times a week for dinner, movies and of course, sex. The only drawback with her is that rubberneckers eyeball her all the time and women tend to look her up and down in disdain.

I guess that we have adjusted our lives toward each other. I don't see SPs anymore although I still like to go to the local strip joint once in a while. I have to be careful because she has spies everywhere.

Your a piece of work LMFHO Good luck.

 

[bluecolt]

Thank you Titalian. I met her, or rather she met me, on Seeking Arrangement. She contacted me first and was very insistent with almost daily messages until I gave in and had dinner with her.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Lol. Looks like a very expensive way to get a blow job.

 

[NoSatisfaction]

i've been with my SB for 5 years . I got lucky shes great .
We do variety of things together aside from sex . When I had a financial strain sending my kids to college and my mortgage she stood by.
I can say I have love for her , like the sweet escape from my crazy house .

But like I said, I got lucky. I like her she likes me, I like pussy she likes money. The foundation must be friendship first.

I do have a pointer. You should have dirt on her if your married . Blackmail must go both ways .
Mine knows if she ever goes to my family she will be humiliated and terminated from her company

 

[Titalian]

i've been with my SB for 5 years . I got lucky shes great .
We do variety of things together aside from sex . When I had a financial strain sending my kids to college and my mortgage she stood by.
I can say I have love for her , like the sweet escape from my crazy house .

But like I said, I got lucky. I like her she likes me, I like pussy she likes money. The foundation must be friendship first.

I do have a pointer. You should have dirt on her if your married . Blackmail must go both ways .
Mine knows if she ever goes to my family she will be humiliated and terminated from her company

Oh !!! this is simply great !! What a relationship. Simple, if you are going to engage in this type of activity stay out of harms why period.

 

[NoSatisfaction]

Such is life. Give and take

 

[implied69]

honestly, my schedule is so busy a quick 1/2 hr or 1hr is sufficient to address any needs. I don't like spending all evening with someone. I thought I did but i don't.....lol

I completely agree. I thought I'd like to spend time, get a nice connection. I don't. To expensive versus a simple SP .
Do the math.

 

[implied69]

If you book multiple hours with SPs regularly (which I do), then SBs is a very viable route to get more for your money. If not, then like implied69 mentioned above, it's not worth it. Your mindset is different so it won't work.

Good point.... And let's be smart guys. Track how much you spend on SB's over 3 months. Do the same for SPs . Cost difference is significant.

There are other things in life to satisfy me.

 

[LLL]

I completely agree. I thought I'd like to spend time, get a nice connection. I don't. To expensive versus a simple SP .
Do the math.

Really glad you agree with yourself!