Anyone have experience with Sugar Baby relationships?

[SashaRose]

Well a SD/SB relationship can be tricky and it really depends on the individuals on both sides. I once had a 4 month SD/SB relationship and he was very nice, intimate and generous. When I went looking for a new one about a year later I gave up after a guy said that $300 to see him 3 times a week was way out if his budget. Too many of those guys either play games or care more about what they're getting rather than how they can make the arrangement mutually beneficial by making sure he's keeping up his end if the deal. Other SD's will try to trick a girl into having sex with him before gives her anything to see if there's "chemistry" when really it's just a scheme to get sex for doing absolutely nothing. Even if there was chemistry, he would tell the girl that he isn't feeling it and just ditch her.

All in all the whole sugar arrangement thing has it's pros and cons just like escorting.

 

[ExoticCharmer]

I've noticed the girls that message me first end up being more fruitful than the ones that I reach out to first. So I've just stopped messaging girls now.. all I do now is view their profile or favorite them and let them come to me...

 

[Titalian]

Well a SD/SB relationship can be tricky and it really depends on the individuals on both sides. I once had a 4 month SD/SB relationship and he was very nice, intimate and generous. When I went looking for a new one about a year later I gave up after a guy said that $300 to see him 3 times a week was way out if his budget. Too many of those guys either play games or care more about what they're getting rather than how they can make the arrangement mutually beneficial by making sure he's keeping up his end if the deal. Other SD's will try to trick a girl into having sex with him before gives her anything to see if there's "chemistry" when really it's just a scheme to get sex for doing absolutely nothing. Even if there was chemistry, he would tell the girl that he isn't feeling it and just ditch her.

All in all the whole sugar arrangement thing has it's pros and cons just like escorting.

By same token Sasha, There are many female scam artists !!!! with their provocative pics, on sites such as this. Be careful to all, it is a double edged sword.

 

[LickingGravity]

I've noticed the girls that message me first end up being more fruitful than the ones that I reach out to first. So I've just stopped messaging girls now.. all I do now is view their profile or favorite them and let them come to me...

Depends on what you looking for. I have found that 80% of the girls that message you first are the "pro's" so I guess proves your point. The amateurs are a little less sure of themselves. I guess I'm looking for somebody that isn't "hardened" by the sex industry and still have fun with it. There is a certain charm to it sometimes.

If there is sex on the "interview" I always insist on paying her but I also find the easiest way to see if there is chemistry with an amateur is to kiss her.

 

[ExoticCharmer]

Depends on what you looking for. I have found that 80% of the girls that message you first are the "pro's" so I guess proves your point. The amateurs are a little less sure of themselves. I guess I'm looking for somebody that isn't "hardened" by the sex industry and still have fun with it. There is a certain charm to it sometimes.

If there is sex on the "interview" I always insist on paying her but I also find the easiest way to see if there is chemistry with an amateur is to kiss her.

I will admit, some of them are seasoned but most are green in my opinion. All in all though, most of the ones who approach me are open to sex. I don't however, have sex on the interview. Coffee dates are strictly chemistry and mutual attraction, if it ends up well, I usually end it with a kiss. Occasionally, if we really hit it off on the coffee date and then we'll start our first date (with sex) immediately afterwards (paid).

SPs might be 'hardened' by the sex industry but I don't think that happens to SBs?.. I can see the appeal though, it's why I like to book SPs new to the industry on their first day/week. You get their innocent side..

One way to avoid girls who are hardened, is to aim really young (18-22) or old (35+).. The 38 yr old MILF I was with last week, was recently separated. So coming out of a long term marriage, she was just as green as younger ladies.

 

[SashaRose]

By same token Sasha, There are many female scam artists !!!! with their provocative pics, on sites such as this. Be careful to all, it is a double edged sword.

I agree! Back when I had that nice sugar daddy he told me some horror stories of some of his encounters. Women can be just as trifling but from personal experience I've come across the good, bad and the ugly.

 

[ExoticCharmer]

So just to give another update to answer a few questions brought up previously.

1. My Seeking Arrangement premium expired, it didn't auto renew and I don't plan to renew it.

2. I have 3 SBs at this point: DDG ($400/4 hours or $1,000/12 hours), GND ($400/6 hours or $1000/weekend) and MILF ($800/24 hours) but I'm meeting a 4th type tomorrow...

3. The girl I'm meeting tomorrow isn't comfortable with sex early on but is open to other activities (cuddling, making out, foreplay) at a rate of $200/6 hours.

 

[Just looking]

I tried it. I thought it would be a bit like having a lawyer on retainer. No strings.
Wrong.
Demanding, ever increasing needs. Finally when I said no more she threatened to expose what was going on.
I don't have anyone to hide from, go ahead.
More trouble than it's worth.
See an annonamous SP. See her a lot if you want.
Don't do the manipulative sugar baby that thinks she has you all wrapped up.

Agree, Rather pay and see a SP when and who I want to see. The sugar Baby stuff is a waste of time. You pay either way. LOL.

 

[ExoticCharmer]

1. My Seeking Arrangement premium expired, it didn't auto renew and I don't plan to renew it.

Could be a handful of reasons why, either they're pro's or just curious, I'm still getting messaged 2-3 times a day on SA. I can't read their messages though...

3. The girl I'm meeting tomorrow isn't comfortable with sex early on but is open to other activities (cuddling, making out, foreplay) at a rate of $200/6 hours.

Seen her twice now, still not comfortable with sex. She's fine with making out and cuddling naked though (with dry humping lol), @ $300/day, I don't mind.

 

[SchlongConery]

You will get those teaser messages to incite you to renew your membership! lol

Those companies are not above paid shills. I knew a girl who did it for them.

 

[maniac1911]

I had an SB for about 6 months and I got burned at the end. She was all sweet and great during the first 3 months and then things started going downhill. I've tried other girls from SA, Whatyourprice: Most were were scammers that just wanted free dinners and others I didn't get very far with.

EM has really gone down hill. I getting spammed by tons of spam from fake accounts.

 

[LickingGravity]

Could be a handful of reasons why, either they're pro's or just curious, I'm still getting messaged 2-3 times a day on SA. I can't read their messages though...



Seen her twice now, still not comfortable with sex. She's fine with making out and cuddling naked though (with dry humping lol), @ $300/day, I don't mind.

$300 for cuddling after two dates because she isn't comfortable ? I think you should move on or stop being comfortable with paying .

 

[ExoticCharmer]

$300 for cuddling after two dates because she isn't comfortable ? I think you should move on or stop being comfortable with paying .

She's DDG, so I don't mind paying $12.50/hr to cuddle and make out with her. Even if we never have sex, I'm keeping her around just incase I ever need arm candy for an event. I figure I can probably close a few business deals with her in my arms..

 

[SashaRose]

I'm currently in an SD/SB companionship (yes he knows I'm an escort which is how we met). A lot of you see this kind of arrangement like a cheaper escort service with a non pro girl next door kind of experience. Sure that may be the case at times for some but for a lot of people it really is a stress free uncommitted relationship. The difference between an SD/SB relationship and traditional relationship is that you have to invest a lot of time and effort into another person on a full time basis emotionally, mentally and physically. You have to always be available for them and give them most of your attention. However, with the sugar relationship there are special benefits and rewards agreed upon before hand. For example, gifts, money, pampering, mentorship and/or sponsorship for the sugar baby. Then there's intimacy, genuine companionship, eye/arm candy for dates, and simply being with a beautiful and engaging young woman that requires no permanent commitment or attachment for the sugar daddy. It's great for the gentleman who doesn't have time for a real relationship, isn't into the whole hobbying thing and simply wants a genuine connection with a young woman that will make him feel alive and powerful again.

My sugar daddy was such a regular client that eventually we developed a bond and he now gives me gifts and a monthly allowance to see me about 3 or 4 times a month for over night stays that last about 6 to 12 hours depending on what we felt like doing that day. With a monthly allowance it felt less like a transaction and more like two people helping each other with their desires.

Yes there is a big age gap but to be completely honest we are so focused on each other that we no longer notice the strange looks we get anymore. At the end of the day those people aren't benefiting us or changing our life in any way so who cares what they think? That's one thing being in this companionship has given me, which is the ability to be myself and be free from judgement from society. It's given me a clear and open mind for being able to converse and connect with people from all walks of life. I've learned a lot from this and I hope others can feel the same way with their SD or SB

 

[Sherpa63]

In a SB relationship with a retired SP. I went through some shit a couple years ago, so it was really nice to have her around, a smart girl who has always impressed me with an inquisitive mind. The smoking hot body did not hurt either. The relationship has been going on for about 5 years now with dinners, plays, help moving, taking a cat to the vet, helping her Mom move etc. Even did the exotic vacation thing, so things are pretty stable. Living in different cities now, so whenever I'm in town, need some eye candy and a great blow job, I get in touch.

Weird to think that this sp/sb thing has been going on for a decade.

 

[Sherpa63]

So heard about what I can only term 'a buyer's club' with this type of arrangement in the 80s. Friend of my father let it spill one night after having too much to drink.

A group of older men set up a young university student in an apartment, and basically paid for most things. My father's friend was Mr Thursday and went over on that night. Members came and went over the years and the woman is now a very distinguished professional of some sort.

Don't think the guy was bullshitting, but you never know

 

[ExoticCharmer]

Considering this thread has gone 6 pages now.. there's clearly interest. Enough so, that people have actually started PMing me asking to make introductions to my SBs.

So to anyone reading this thread, I'm not interested in playing matchmaker right now, so please stop sending me PMs. Make a profile on SA and do some research / work on your own.

I don't mind sharing insight into this world but literally, sharing my SBs is not something I'm comfortable with right now.

Good luck with your search,
EC

 

[shack]

Considering this thread has gone 6 pages now.. there's clearly interest. Enough so, that people have actually started PMing me asking to make introductions to my SBs.

So to anyone reading this thread, I'm not interested in playing matchmaker right now, so please stop sending me PMs. Make a profile on SA and do some research / work on your own.

I don't mind sharing insight into this world but literally, sharing my SBs is not something I'm comfortable with right now.

You could collect a finder's fee.

 

[SchlongConery]

Thanks to exoticcharmer and the other guys who have shared their insight and experiences.

I've done to SB thing in the past and it has been an overall positive experience.

However, recently I have been dabbling with the whatsyourprice.com girls and ...holy shit... are these girls ever flaky! And this whole text messaging thing now?!?! Nobody wants to talk on the phone it's just text, text, text.

I'm going to reactivate my Seeking Arrangement profile from a few years ago but I'm not sure how to navigate the text messaging protocols to move things to the talk on the phone and meet stage.

Any advice would be appreciated.

 

[shack]

Nobody wants to talk on the phone it's just text, text, text.

I'm going to reactivate my Seeking Arrangement profile from a few years ago but I'm not sure how to navigate the text messaging protocols to move things to the talk on the phone and meet stage.

I think moving from text to talk is more difficult than getting to the meet. It seems to be a generational thing.

I have had a couple of girls that wanted to talk before meeting just to hear the voice as a pre-meet screening. Very refreshing.