I have really enjoyed this thread. As mentioned, it helps one not feel so ashamed or guilty in this life. I'm flawed to the core, have a beautiful family great marriage, and still have sex with my wife, but I’ve been a horny mofo since a young age. I'm in my fifties, but I have always eaten clean and been very active, so I look much younger (great genes also help tremendously).
I get attention from the opposite sex. Impressed to say I have never had an affair, but I have had many opportunities. Weirdly, this is where I draw the line. I have heard too many horror stories. I never want to ruin the relationship with my wife and family. This hobby is much safer, cleaner, and more respectful—the lesser of the poisons. Nobody gets hurt, but I understand it is still wrong. The ladies I visit always have a great time, and I leave feeling like a million bucks. Not sure how else to control this high sex drive while keeping other aspects of life in check (marriage, children, job, relationships, etc).