Have we met? I think I love you. Why do you have to be in Ottawa?This is true! I recently realized this within the past couple of years!
When I was 17-25 I was attracted to older guys like in their 30s and 40s.
Now that I'm older I'm attracted to younger guys. Theirs young guys coming after me wanting to date me and I have but I had to ask myself what the heck is going on with me?! And I told him hey u do know I'm older than u right?! And he's like yeah I know but I find women your age are more attractive and smarter than girls my age, girls my age are dumb and ditzy ect(28yr old guy said this). I thought holy shit times haven't changed and now everything is in reverse! I never dated guys my own age bc I thought the guys were immature and would cheat and they did lol so I went for older, thinking they were more distinguished lol and now that I'm that age I realize I just made that shit up in my own head lol they weren't distinguished they were just nice looking and more mature then the guys my age and could carry a conversation better lol
Don't get me wrong I like any guy any age so as long as they're straight, has manners, can carry a conversation, has a nice body(doesn't have to be fit, I like thick/stocky), is a good lover, likes the outdoors, bbq ing, camping, outdoorsy things, and can satisfy in bed and not just themselves.
Sometimes I wonder if that's why wives stop being physical bc the wives aren't telling their husbands their not getting enough pleasure from them bc their afraid of offending them.
Sex is a two way street, if one person is giving way more than receiving, the other party will basically withdraw and start making excuses as to why they're not in the mood.
Being a good lover is more important than we realize. And that involves giving just as much as we like receiving. The more u please the more the wife is going to want to please you. The less u please the less the wife will want to participate.
Obviously there's more to a marriage than just sex but it is actually important and it does does dwindle after some time and I think that's bc the foreplay stops. Lick n suck that pussy, lick that ass, Lick suck, lick, suck, stick that sausage and stick it in deep.
The deeper the better, then pull out and tease, make her crave it. Make her want that cock.
If u lick and suck that muffin so much she won't be able to contain herself she's gonna wanna return the favor and try and one up you. Then after the foreplay and teasing, fuck each other's brains out!!
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Totally agree. From my seat in the guys aisle I can remember being frustrated when I was younger that girls my age preferred older guys. In my later 20s I joined Ashley Madison soon after it started and it was like a whole new world opened up. If you could just write well and not be a dick, women of all ages were hungry for that and I often found myself bedding attractive, horny older women and getting a lot of useful experience and knowledge that made me a better lover and then by the time I was in my 30s I had those younger women coming after me looking for that combination of maturity, experience and safety. I had a long affair with one young stunner who would occasionally date guys her own age alongside what we were doing but she would give them up because the sex was so bad whereas I knew exactly how to give her what she didn't even know she wanted until she tried it. I consoled her after one such breakup with her in latex and us in a 69 while I drove a dildo in her ass. Better than a tub of ice cream. I remember when I first had sex with one other woman, in her humvee of all places (yes a hummer in a hummer) she gave me the greatest compliment when she said "Your wife doesn't want more of this?!?!").
When I first started seeing escorts in my early thirties I specifically sought out an older woman after my cougar experiences and not wanting to get burned with a hot but immature girl running a scam or something. Ended up seeing Erica Fox in her fifties and had an incredible year or so seeing her and enjoying not only a fantastic body but a whole sensual experience that usually included a bottle of wine, roleplay, massage, many hot lingerie options, and of course expert sex, all in a comfortable condo by the lake downtown. I get hard just remembering those experiences decades later and anytime I walk past that building.
All that to say, a little patience and willingness to learn will pay off big time. It gets better kids, hang in there. And I will second there is no better blowjob than from a woman you just made climax. Twice is even better if you can manage to hold her down after the first one. Ties or handcuffs are useful at such times.