Advice from married guys

[FunInToronto2023]

Seeing SPs are fun, but the worst is seeing civilians... I feel fantastic after cheating on my wife as it is real. The flirting/banter, foreplay, sexual success, getting them off and me blowing my load, is like a drug.

Fk yes this times a million. Every time if there’s a connection it feels like being 20 and going on a first date with lots of real flirting and teasing. Even just touching her skin is so exciting. Plus on some level fall for each other with complete infatuation. Just the best sex ever that I’ve experienced and also found younger girls now can be really sweet and turn into literal porn stars. Sweet, real DFK and everything is brand new while knowing she isn’t an SP is crazy in a good way.

 

[russocga]

Agreed. Might not be the correct answer, but in a sex-less marriage, I don't know what else to do. Wife and I used to be like bunnies in the early days, then it dwindled over time. Now it's all but non existant.

Hobbying keeps me sane. Doesn't have to be FS, but at least a massage with HE once in awhile to take the edge off.

Same here. I see my hobbying as therapy.