$60 harassment!

[Kracker]

I THINK you're saying that this is BEFORE you're in the room with the guy, just over text. In which case it's a simple negotiation you either accept or don't. Just business, no insults intended either way.

If it's in the room, it's a giant waste of both of your time and I'd suggest clarifying it before you're in the room.

It's one of the issues I never liked about MPAs, you never really knew how much anything was extra because they weren't really "supposed" to be doing any of it.

 

[GameBoy27]

I have to ask as I’ve had this run in way to many times in the last few months, is any one having these unwanted run in with annoying clients who think they can buy ur whole menu and offer u $60 ? I don’t mean to be disrespectful but in my opinion offering me $60 is very disrespectful too so , how are u guys handling these ppl ? I’ve recently put in my ads to respect me and my prices but honestly I’m running out of patience and kindness for these ppl. Last night some one asked and I simply told him if $60 is all he had he should find someone more accommodating for him, he asked for my menu and normal prices, we agreed on a time and length and price and I kid u not this man came and once again offered me $60. Long story short i asked him to gtfo.

Have you ever performed an act that a client would normally be charged extra for? But you gave the guy a freebee because he was so hot and you were totally into the session. Just curious.

 

[JeanGary Diablo]

As a client, I could not imagine trying to "bargain" with an SP in that manner. It shows a complete lack of class and disrespects the person they're dealing with.

I remember an SP telling me about the bargaining nonsense some guys will try to pull. She worked for an agency, so there's obviously a fixed price. Agency ladies are also dealing with somewhat strict time schedules, and she told me about guys booking 1-hour appointments and then spending 20 mins trying to "negotiate" the price.

All the while, the clock is ticking on them and they've just wasted time they're not going to get back.

Ladies, your price is stated, and any client who doesn't like it can hit the pavement.

 

[lunaluxx]

By posting this thread the OP may achieve the opposite of what she intended. She is from my perspective putting the image out she doesn't want. Something she may want to think about.

This is a juicy insight may I ask you to elaborate you’ve sparked my curiosity

 

[lunaluxx]

Have you ever performed an act that a client would normally be charged extra for? But you gave the guy a freebee because he was so hot and you were totally into the session. Just curious.

Because this line of work ( for me atleast) is more for a fun non typical type of “dating”or “interaction” I would say yes, but also because my pricing and my self doesn’t really dwell on certain things that have been proclaimed as an ( extra’s )these day. it does depend of the extent though if some one comes for a quick introduction but then asks for fetish add ons and so on yeah I’ll charge Extra but like if It’s a cof or cob I could really care less Maybe I’m just a freak

 

[fall]

This is a juicy insight may I ask you to elaborate you’ve sparked my curiosity

IMHO, because you entertained the guy with the reply and even made a booking with him after he tried to negotiate, it shows that you are willing to negotiate. A straight "ignore and forget" would be a strong signal that no negotiation is possible.

 

[I'm Me]

You can ask OP but to elaborate I'd have to charge.

 

[spraggamuffin]

 

[Tomoreno]

Would you be more offended with someone who bargains with you to pay less than your advertised rates or with someone who would pay you $300 in Canadian quarters?

It'd be 1200 quarters @4.4g each totalling 5.28kg or 11.6lbs
You could split them into 2 socks and make 5.8lb weights that you could use for workouts or even self defence.
Btw, would you count or weigh them to make sure all $300 is there?

 

[Mr Deeds]

By posting this thread the OP may achieve the opposite of what she intended. She is from my perspective putting the image out she doesn't want. Something she may want to think about.

I dont agree, this board is about education and information. Im sure this lady is speaking for most SPs who have to deal with cheep assholes who think they can take advantage by trying to bargain at the last minute, and even if the guy get a deal hes going to get lousy attitude and service.

 

[fall]

I dont agree, this board is about education and information. Im sure this lady is speaking for most SPs who have to deal with cheep assholes who think they can take advantage by trying to bargain at the last minute, and even if the guy get a deal hes going to get lousy attitude and service.

And whom exactly she educates and advertised? Or she educates by an example of how not to deal in such situation? Any rant by an SP is bad for her business (unless she specifically target a pool of clients who like when women rant)

 

[Insidious Von]

You can try the old-fashioned method, ask a civvie for a date and buy her flowers, shoes and dinner.

Ignoring is the best option, just don't be mean like Amy Santiago.

 

[Jasmina]

It was an irrelevant question, what you do in sessions with others is no ones business. The entire sex industry is YMMV. Not all clients are equal, it is your body, your choice.

Because this line of work ( for me atleast) is more for a fun non typical type of “dating”or “interaction” I would say yes, but also because my pricing and my self doesn’t really dwell on certain things that have been proclaimed as an ( extra’s )these day. it does depend of the extent though if some one comes for a quick introduction but then asks for fetish add ons and so on yeah I’ll charge Extra but like if It’s a cof or cob I could really care less Maybe I’m just a freak

 

[lunaluxx]

And whom exactly she educates and advertised? Or she educates by an example of how not to deal in such situation? Any rant by an SP is bad for her business (unless she specifically target a pool of clients who like when women rant)

It’s the lack of reading comprehension for me..
I made the post not ranting but asking how other providers deal with this, some who even replied in the threat . See the thing about humans is we all handle issues differently and that’s why hearing other peoples opinions and suggestions on situations can educate you.

 

[squeezer]

I have honestly never has this happen

You haven't rub n tug hopped enough. LOL

 

[Charlemagne]

Aren't there $60-80 micro incalls for guys that don't have enough money for the better SPs?

 

[fall]

It’s the lack of reading comprehension for me..
I made the post not ranting but asking how other providers deal with this, some who even replied in the threat . See the thing about humans is we all handle issues differently and that’s why hearing other peoples opinions and suggestions on situations can educate you.

Well, it came out as a rant when you expressed your frustration by this situation instead of just describing it and asking for advice. But we may have a different definition of what constitute a rant, so, if your wanted only to ask for advice and not to express your feelings, I may have misunderstood you.

 

[lessjamie7]

I have to ask as I’ve had this run in way to many times in the last few months, is any one having these unwanted run in with annoying clients who think they can buy ur whole menu and offer u $60 ? I don’t mean to be disrespectful but in my opinion offering me $60 is very disrespectful too so , how are u guys handling these ppl ? I’ve recently put in my ads to respect me and my prices but honestly I’m running out of patience and kindness for these ppl. Last night some one asked and I simply told him if $60 is all he had he should find someone more accommodating for him, he asked for my menu and normal prices, we agreed on a time and length and price and I kid u not this man came and once again offered me $60. Long story short i asked him to gtfo.

No different than ladies upselling at the incall, happens every day, part of the biz.

Just move on.

LJ

 

[Jenesis]

Aren't there $60-80 micro incalls for guys that don't have enough money for the better SPs?

From my understanding, there is every rate tier including the $60-80 range.

 

[ogibowt]

it was so much less complicated in the late90.s and early to mid 2000.s....contact the lady, show up, pay,spend an hour and then leave lol...or invite her in, no haggling..spend an hour. and she leaves