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art van dele

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What do mean Nothing?
Shouldn’t you get her to agree to sex first before you give her money?
Lol were you born yesterday. They can agree to whatever but if they don’t wanna do anything you can’t force them or you can’t commit forcible confinment.
 
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What do you mean by “connect with friends”? That she wants to be an SB with someone else besides you? If so, that could be a good move to a future 3some with her.
Yes, a lot of the girls on these sites are not exclusive. They'll have 1-2 other guys they see.

On the other hand, sometimes they'll introduce you to friends who are thinking of trying sugaring - and they'll introduce you becasue she has vetted you :)
 

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sometimes they'll introduce you to friends who are thinking of trying sugaring - and they'll introduce you becasue she has vetted you :)
She has vetted you but who vetted them? She cannot be trusted with that. They think all their ugly friends are cute.
Be super careful in these situations because if those friends are not fuckable, not fun, shitty in bed etc (which is at least possible and I would say quite likely) it can spoil the entire arrangement.
 
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Yes, a lot of the girls on these sites are not exclusive. They'll have 1-2 other guys they see.

On the other hand, sometimes they'll introduce you to friends who are thinking of trying sugaring - and they'll introduce you becasue she has vetted you :)
Thank you for explanation! What I also meant is if SB is dating and trusting a guy for a long time, it opens some kinky possibilities. I know as a fact that long time ago one guy brought his friend and all three of them were having fun and not in the bedroom only. Lunches and dinners together, for example. Many kinky sexual activities as well. Sounds like a dream, but real.
 
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Thank you for explanation! What I also meant is if SB is dating and trusting a guy for a long time, it opens some kinky possibilities. I know as a fact that long time ago one guy brought his friend and all three of them were having fun and not in the bedroom only. Lunches and dinners together, for example. Many kinky sexual activities as well. Sounds like a dream, but real.
Yeah, that's certainly possible, you never know. If you're closer in age to the ladies you're seeing, there's more possibility for things to evolve into FWB or other situations. There are no rules, really,y which is what makes it fun :) On the other hand, you might end up with late-night requests for money because you're the only one in their circle (including parents) with a positive credit score lol :(
 

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I'm on Seeking and SugardaddyMeet mostly. Don't trust SecretBenefits.
I haven't checked the first 2, but I've used the 3rd in the past for about 2-3 years and had decent luck. Nothing overly great, but decent enough.

What are the cost for credits for the first 2? And how many msges does it give ya? I don't care to unlock hidden pics which SB has now.
 

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She has vetted you but who vetted them? She cannot be trusted with that. They think all their ugly friends are cute.
Be super careful in these situations because if those friends are not fuckable, not fun, shitty in bed etc (which is at least possible and I would say quite likely) it can spoil the entire arrangement.
It's a good point, be careful with how personal information you share and trust your gut. And don't piss off girls for no reason.
 
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Yeah, that's certainly possible, you never know. If you're closer in age to the ladies you're seeing, there's more possibility for things to evolve into FWB or other situations. There are no rules, really,y which is what makes it fun :) On the other hand, you might end up with late-night requests for money because you're the only one in their circle (including parents) with a positive credit score lol :(
Yeah careful with that they can start sending late night msges all emo cause they still need more funds and it can get annoying unless you don't mind giving more.

Use an alias name and don't disclose what you do for work and stuff. It's not worth it.
 
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Cholla

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Yeah, that's certainly possible, you never know. If you're closer in age to the ladies you're seeing, there's more possibility for things to evolve into FWB or other situations. There are no rules, really,y which is what makes it fun :) On the other hand, you might end up with late-night requests for money because you're the only one in their circle (including parents) with a positive credit score lol :(
Last paragraph is a bad scenario! 😩 “No rules” is a right phrase! It includes some games such as … Two hours with an SB and knock on the door - second guy is coming for his turn. One of real facts…
 
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Second guy shouldn't show up unless he made arrangements and she forgot. Or if he knows where she lives and randomly shows up that's just annoying. I can't stand when even friends do that. Text or call if anyone wants to hangout.
 

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Second guy shouldn't show up unless he made arrangements and she forgot. Or if he knows where she lives and randomly shows up that's just annoying. I can't stand when even friends do that. Text or call if anyone wants to hangout.
It was prearranged among all three of them! That’s the kink!
 

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Lol were you born yesterday. They can agree to whatever but if they don’t wanna do anything you can’t force them or you can’t commit forcible confinment.
That’s why I give the money after sex
If they insist money upfront.
Then give half before sex and the rest later.
If they don’t agree to that then let them walk without your cash
The reliable SB would trust you
Gotta screen for the rinsers
 
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When I read your posts and then my posts, you are the one that seems unhappy with your results while I'm fairly satisfied. My point was that you don't need to be an Adonis or overpay to have a good time.
It's all about making them feel comfortable around you. Combine that with wit and charm and you'll be shocked at how much mileage you get. I don't have the looks or body but I do well, IMO. But if you don't have the interpersonal skill, you are at a disadvantage. Being good looking works better in bars.

As I said before, I'm into all types of women so I'm sure we overlap. I don't know your age, but if you grew up when there were video games, you spent too much time in front of a screen instead of interacting with other humans.

I have a date with another black girl on Tuesday. She's 20. Her body is smoking, she wears the shortest dresses and loves when I'm dominant with her. She is NOT free of charge, though. LOL. She's $400 but she's slept over every time. Seen he about 8 times since October.

Happy sugaring. Maybe your luck will change.
💯 this! It’s great that you’re both happy and enjoying each other.
 

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Thought I'd chime in on this topic, I've tried the whole SA thing for a while and in my opinion it's just not worth it. If you add all the costs of membership, dinners, lunches, gifts, hotels, travel and the $$$ the girl expects it's way cheaper to see multiple good SP's often from one of the agencies. The sex is just not good enough and the price to value ratio is just not there. And frankly most of the women on those sites are just not that hot to command such value.
You’re likely right that in terms of value, or money and time spent per fuck, SP’s are the way to go for the casual hobbyist. The effort it takes to wade through all the women just isn’t worth it. You can text an agency or indy and have a date set up in minutes, or visit an MP on a whim.

Think of the golf metaphor. I like to play golf and consider it a hobby. I like a nice time on the course with some friends on a summer afternoon. I’m an OK golfer but it’s a casual hobby.

On the other hand I have a buddy who’s into every aspect of the sport. He watches it on TV, he reads magazines, he’s into the tech and the mechanics of his swing, and the latest gear. He even tried to make is own custom putter for fuck sakes. He’s also an OK golfer, but for him it’s a real hobby. I terms of dollar spent per round he’s miles deeper into it, but he also gets more enjoyment out of it as a hobby than I do and it’s about more than just putting a ball in the hole. ;)

Sex with SP’s vs SB's is the same. For lots of us, seeing escorts is a fun and satisfying way to fuck girls we’d never pull otherwise. But that’s it. On the other hand some guys see finding a Sugar Baby as more than just the end result. The search, the communication, thrill of the chase, coffee dates and lunches and the pursuit of that diamond in the rough (and they are out there if you look long enough) are all part of the fun and they treat it like a true hobby.

Guy’s who’ve had success and found that hottie know it can be worth it. But you need to have the time and enjoy the process, otherwise there are way easier ways to get laid.

Different strokes for different folks, to stretch the golf metaphor to it’s breaking point. :)
 
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