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Balancing a crush on an SP

waltdub

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Why do you want to be the last man of the week and not the first one of the week ?
Unless they are doing 20 quickies, I doubt they can make many rounds , sexual positions with 20 men in a week ! It is insane !
Something hot about fucking a girl after knowing she’s taken 20 dicks
 

Mangoman0052

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Something hot about fucking a girl after knowing she’s taken 20 dicks
I’ve posted this in a seperate thread, but once after hearing the girl I was there to see getting her brains fucked out and then her washing up and then she saw me. Her body was still hot and you could her energy. She was ready for more and honestly, I could’ve fucked her through a wall. She was hands on the bedframe, bent over and I was railing her. All because I knew she had just been with someone else.
We are fucked animals haha I know.
 

GuySmiley

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I can’t really disagree with you but I do have friendships with people I do business with. Escorts do prefer some customers over others regardless of how much they pay. That is not about love or sex, but mutual respect and enjoying each other’s company. A lot of people take the posture that they understand how things really are and that the rest of us are fools. I think the models we make of human interaction need to be continually refined. Things are usually more complicated and nuanced than can be summarized with simple theories. But, what the fuck, let’s try a theory: if you find yourself “falling in like”, move forward. If you find yourself “falling in love”, take a back step.
When you watch a movie or read a book, you *know* those events are all carefully staged and that there's no real peril, right? You're suspending your disbelief in order to enjoy something. I view sex work the same way. You're engaging those same parts of your brain. I'm not saying you can't be friendly with a sex worker. Of course you can. But I would in no way characterize it as a friendship or being in the true spirit of friendship. Friends are there for you when you have nothing to offer them. They take time out of their lives (with no compensation) to listen, to console, to celebrate, etc. Here... you're literally paying someone to be with you. Remove the money, remove the 'friendship'.

Maybe I am cynical but I view this as a transaction. There's no real friendship to gain or at stake here. Sorry, that's just how I see it and I feel this perspective is much safer than treating a sex worker as your friend because you may experience heartache or a sense of loss when things end. And they will inevitably end.
 

GuySmiley

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I doupt that there are SPs who see 20-30 men per week . They are humans .
Don't kid yourself. Of course some do. Don't be naive. I know some MPAs had 10 appt's per day and would work 2-3 days straight. They fuck A LOT and that's fine. That's the business. I'm not judging it. That's the reality of it so accept it for what it is.
 

GuySmiley

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Something hot about fucking a girl after knowing she’s taken 20 dicks
To each their own!

I'm gonna quote Stewie from Family Guy on this one, "Tell me, is there any tread left on those tires or is it like throwing a hot dog down a hallway?"
 

superman2006

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escorts are essential paid actors. I won’t personally invest too much emotions into this hobby. Treated it like a professional sports
 
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GuySmiley

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The problem with dating an sp is their lack of sex drive. When she fucks 20-30 other men per week, it just feels like she has no interest in it with me.
Don't take this the wrong way but that can be on you. Even though you're paying for it, you can't just show up to be 'serviced' - I think that's the wrong attitude.
You should honestly go out of your way or outside your usual routines to impress her a bit. Dress well, smell great, shave, etc. Find out her likes, bring her drink/food/treat/candy.

I'm not saying it's ALL on you as yes, if she sees a bunch of guys before you, how excited can she be? 'Oh wow, my 15th dick of the day, how rare!'....yeah yeah I get all that.

But it's also on YOU to rev things up, make the encounter interesting, be a bit unpredictable, be fun.

I'd do things like bring rose petals, candy, drinks, a small gift, nothing crazy. My point is just showing up with cash in hand isn't sufficient especially if you're seeing her later in the day.
 

BlissinOT

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That actually sounds low to me. I once had someone tell me that she has ten to twelve appointments a day and works three to four days per week. She did say that she would get really sore.
As an Indy companion , my body and mental health just allow me to see 1-3 men a day .
 
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GuySmiley

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As an Indy companion , my body and mental health just allow me to see 1-3 men a day .
Everyone has their own capacities, of course. I wasn't implying that every sex worker does this or should or whatnot. Sorry if that's how it came across.
 

mike5520

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I dated an sp about 5 years ago. We lasted 6 months but it was a good 6 months. She got into the business because she needed thr money and working a min wage job doesn't pay the bills. Yes, she had her issues but no more then other civie woman. She actually asked me out before a session and we just went out for dinner which she paid for. I felt bad since she had to give the agency a cut but refused any money that night. She rarely worked when we were together, but in the end it was too much for me to take. She offered to quit, but I wasn't ready to make that big of a commitment yet. As for the sex, it was nothing Ike I experienced in a session. Of course she would do things that most ladies don't but it felt different and she acted differently. Example, she was known to be vocal but was actually quiet in real life. The vocals were a show apparently. She didn't want to fuck all the time, the romance and situation was like any other relationship. That was the real her. As for everyone that talks about Sp's having mental health issues let's not forget that I'd say 90% of the guys here have some sort of issues as well, they might manifest in a different way but it's there. It may be an unpopular opinion but guys want to be choked, drink pee, pegged, humiliated and let's not forget about the daddy /daughter role play that's very common. Let's stop judging these women for what they do to get by in life and remember we are just as fucked.
 

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When you watch a movie or read a book, you *know* those events are all carefully staged and that there's no real peril, right? You're suspending your disbelief in order to enjoy something. I view sex work the same way. You're engaging those same parts of your brain. I'm not saying you can't be friendly with a sex worker. Of course you can. But I would in no way characterize it as a friendship or being in the true spirit of friendship. Friends are there for you when you have nothing to offer them. They take time out of their lives (with no compensation) to listen, to console, to celebrate, etc. Here... you're literally paying someone to be with you. Remove the money, remove the 'friendship'.

Maybe I am cynical but I view this as a transaction. There's no real friendship to gain or at stake here. Sorry, that's just how I see it and I feel this perspective is much safer than treating a sex worker as your friend because you may experience heartache or a sense of loss when things end. And they will inevitably end.
Some of the escorts that I have seen do claim that they make long term friendships with some clients.
 

Mangoman0052

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Some of the escorts that I have seen do claim that they make long term friendships with some clients.
I’m in the same boat. And call it what you want. Friendship, preferred client - whatever. I have 3-4 girls that will actually text me and let me know a day before if they are working and sometimes even when they aren’t posting. I’m sure others have the same experience.
 
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