What are some hobbies that women have that you find unattractive?
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Milking the 'friendship' line.
I know the problem lies with the guy. We have a family member who has seldom had any girlfriend. His problem is that his strategy for getting the girl is to help her night or day to move, buy things, be at her beck and call for errands. The idea is that the target of his affection will realize that her boyfriend who isn't at her side for every whim will lose and she will pick him for the warm heart he has. Of course it never happens. And her get out of jail card 'You are an amazing friend who I know isn't trying to get me in bed' which basically to her means 'you aren't my type but I love the attention' is a sign to him the strategy is working.
I have tried to reason with him. 'XXXX you are being played. If not - hit the reset button and tell her that you are interested in more than friendship - how about a date ?' He never does. The fact that she dates other guys doesn't phase him. I wouldn't be surprised if he shaves his legs and becomes her bridesmaid so that he is there when she realizes he is the one.
The reason it is up on the girl's hobby that I find unattractive is that many of these girls know these guys want a sexual relationship but enjoy using them to assist in their chores. Maybe it's nice to have a slave - I'm not sure what the motivation is.
There is a beautiful young graduate that started in our office. She told me she doesn't have a boyfriend and she is in no rush. She told me that there is a guy at her beck and call that will do anything for her but she would never date him. I asked her why she doesn't tell him. She said she has/ he knows but it seems to make him happy.
So if you have one of these adoring little puppies - set them free. As long as they are on the hook - they will never find a real girlfriend.
I know the problem lies with the guy. We have a family member who has seldom had any girlfriend. His problem is that his strategy for getting the girl is to help her night or day to move, buy things, be at her beck and call for errands. The idea is that the target of his affection will realize that her boyfriend who isn't at her side for every whim will lose and she will pick him for the warm heart he has. Of course it never happens. And her get out of jail card 'You are an amazing friend who I know isn't trying to get me in bed' which basically to her means 'you aren't my type but I love the attention' is a sign to him the strategy is working.
I have tried to reason with him. 'XXXX you are being played. If not - hit the reset button and tell her that you are interested in more than friendship - how about a date ?' He never does. The fact that she dates other guys doesn't phase him. I wouldn't be surprised if he shaves his legs and becomes her bridesmaid so that he is there when she realizes he is the one.
The reason it is up on the girl's hobby that I find unattractive is that many of these girls know these guys want a sexual relationship but enjoy using them to assist in their chores. Maybe it's nice to have a slave - I'm not sure what the motivation is.
There is a beautiful young graduate that started in our office. She told me she doesn't have a boyfriend and she is in no rush. She told me that there is a guy at her beck and call that will do anything for her but she would never date him. I asked her why she doesn't tell him. She said she has/ he knows but it seems to make him happy.
So if you have one of these adoring little puppies - set them free. As long as they are on the hook - they will never find a real girlfriend.
So it is his MO, his choice, doing it knowingly and while also knowing she has a boyfriend and you have turned this in a female hobby problem? Am I getting that right?????
Guys would willing take a NSA or FWB sex toy at their beck and call even if they knew she wanted marriage and was just holding out. Because the pussy is good and she cooks, which is a bonus but that wouldn’t be classified as a “hobby”. That is him being a stud or a dog depending on your view but certainly not a “hobby”
I mean I guess I get you’re entitled to your opinion but I think you are just using this thread to bitch about women. Guess that is just my opinion.
I think you didn't read the ops questionYou play with dead animals....why am I not surprised?
I love women that hunt and fish or twiddle with cars...the ultimate "tomboy" I stay away from women who do larping...
What does this have to do with people having hobbies?
For an actual answer, i find “travelling” as a hobby to be obnoxious.
Travelling is great. It can be lots of fun. But it isn’t a “hobby” and people who talk like they can’t go 2 months without flying somewhere make me suspect they’re just unhappy and trying to run away from something.
I can assure you this is not a hobby. Using people is not a hobby. Besides… if you’re only helping a friend in the hopes of getting some pussy then maybe not getting the pussy is your karma for only helping with ulterior motives?
Some guys like doing things for their lady friends knowing they will never get any. Some guys really are being used, at which point one must ask why he can’t man up and stop being a b**** and either ask for what he desires or LEAVE! It’s not the girls fault if the guy keeps agreeing. If he says YES and then does things for her then as far as she knows he genuinely just wants to help. A simple NO would put a stop to the whole thing. In fact she might respect him more for it. You can’t be a slave unless you allow yourself to be.
The way some girls see it, if you act like a b**** then you will get treated like one and you can’t complain when you do. You attract what you put out.
Reminds me of a conversation I had with a buddy back in the 70's when we had both moved from Calgary to Toronto. Not together. Anyway I wasn't all that thrilled with Toronto at the time and said I wanted to go back to Calgary. He said " Toronto's ok, you just need to have money to enjoy it." I said What would you do in Toronto if you had money?" He said, "I would get the fuck out of Toronto" lol.
Hobbies that women have that annoy me? Can't really think of any. They're all great.
Decorative fake nails is definitely a hobby
Changing hair colour monthly as a hobby!
Changing hair colour monthly as a hobby!
