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I’ve noticed a few of you complained about not being able to finger escorts. A lot of my peers don’t allow it for valid reasons. Let me help you out. Most common reasons are: hygiene, sensitivity and comfort

Never and I mean it never:
• Stick a finger in someone without consent
• Stick your fingers in someone if your hands are dirty
• Go from ass to vag

Quick reminders:
• Always wash your hands before
• Keep your nails short and make sure they’re not broken
• Ask for consent
• Ask if it’s ok to add a finger
• Use lube especially for anal play

These can seem very obvious to some and I’m happy if it is but sadly, far too many men don’t know the basics. Vaginas are very sensitive and a small detail like forgetting to wash your hands before you play with it can disrupt its pH. You know what that means? Bacterial vaginosis or yeast infection. Those aren’t pretty or sexy words, I know. That also means that the provider won’t be able to see clients while she’s treating herself. Don’t be rude, wash your hands.

You aren’t a DJ and the clit isn’t a mixing table so there’s no need to rub it in all directions super rapidly. Ask your partner how she likes it, not only is it super sexy but on top of it you’ll know exactly what she likes.

We are not hiding gold in our cervix so there’s no need to go that deep. The g spot isn’t even there.

It’s not a race either so you don’t need to speed up as soon as you slide your fingers in. Start slowly and ask your partner if she’d like you to go faster or better yet, maybe she’ll tell you herself.

TLDR: Providers refuse DIGITS(fingering) because they’re afraid you’ll hurt them or that you’ll disrupt their pH. Don’t shove your fingers rapidly like you’re in some kind of competition. Don’t go from ass to vag.

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I had a reg back in Oz who said she got thrush from digits so she stopped allowing them. After a year, she would allow if the finger had a condom on it.
 
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I’ve noticed a few of you complained about not being able to finger escorts. A lot of my peers don’t allow it for valid reasons. Let me help you out. Most common reasons are: hygiene, sensitivity and comfort

Never and I mean it never:
• Stick a finger in someone without consent
• Stick your fingers in someone if your hands are dirty
• Go from ass to vag

Quick reminders:
• Always wash your hands before
• Keep your nails short and make sure they’re not broken
• Ask for consent
• Ask if it’s ok to add a finger
• Use lube especially for anal play

These can seem very obvious to some and I’m happy if it is but sadly, far too many men don’t know the basics. Vaginas are very sensitive and a small detail like forgetting to wash your hands before you play with it can disrupt its pH. You know what that means? Bacterial vaginosis or yeast infection. Those aren’t pretty or sexy words, I know. That also means that the provider won’t be able to see clients while she’s treating herself. Don’t be rude, wash your hands.

You aren’t a DJ and the clit isn’t a mixing table so there’s no need to rub it in all directions super rapidly. Ask your partner how she likes it, not only is it super sexy but on top of it you’ll know exactly what she likes.

We are not hiding gold in our cervix so there’s no need to go that deep. The g spot isn’t even there.

It’s not a race either so you don’t need to speed up as soon as you slide your fingers in. Start slowly and ask your partner if she’d like you to go faster or better yet, maybe she’ll tell you herself.

TLDR: Providers refuse DIGITS(fingering) because they’re afraid you’ll hurt them or that you’ll disrupt their pH. Don’t shove your fingers rapidly like you’re in some kind of competition. Don’t go from ass to vag.

Need more advice:
How to book an indy
How to introduce yourself like a pro

Love it!

I can't quite put my finger on it... but for some reason you are soooo funny!! ! (y) :LOL:

 
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I’ve noticed a few of you complained about not being able to finger escorts. A lot of my peers don’t allow it for valid reasons. Let me help you out. Most common reasons are: hygiene, sensitivity and comfort

Never and I mean it never:
• Stick a finger in someone without consent
• Stick your fingers in someone if your hands are dirty
• Go from ass to vag

Quick reminders:
• Always wash your hands before
• Keep your nails short and make sure they’re not broken
• Ask for consent
• Ask if it’s ok to add a finger
• Use lube especially for anal play

These can seem very obvious to some and I’m happy if it is but sadly, far too many men don’t know the basics. Vaginas are very sensitive and a small detail like forgetting to wash your hands before you play with it can disrupt its pH. You know what that means? Bacterial vaginosis or yeast infection. Those aren’t pretty or sexy words, I know. That also means that the provider won’t be able to see clients while she’s treating herself. Don’t be rude, wash your hands.

You aren’t a DJ and the clit isn’t a mixing table so there’s no need to rub it in all directions super rapidly. Ask your partner how she likes it, not only is it super sexy but on top of it you’ll know exactly what she likes.

We are not hiding gold in our cervix so there’s no need to go that deep. The g spot isn’t even there.

It’s not a race either so you don’t need to speed up as soon as you slide your fingers in. Start slowly and ask your partner if she’d like you to go faster or better yet, maybe she’ll tell you herself.

TLDR: Providers refuse DIGITS(fingering) because they’re afraid you’ll hurt them or that you’ll disrupt their pH. Don’t shove your fingers rapidly like you’re in some kind of competition. Don’t go from ass to vag.

Need more advice:
How to book an indy
How to introduce yourself like a pro
Good advice
 

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I always bring a box of gloves in my bag to a session. I ask if a provider wants digits and if she is into it, I use gloves with lube. Because there is a chance that you could have minor cuts in your hand and you dont want to get it mixed up. Its safer to use a barrier. If you dont have gloves, you can ask the provider for one or use a condom to use on your fingers.

A BOX of gloves?

How long do you typically book for?!?! 😜

If you are buying and booking at holesale rates. why not save more money and buy a case of 24 boxes of 12 condoms? Is that two gross?
 
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SchlongConery

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I usually book 2 or 3 hour dates. Usually 2. But yeah the entire box. Because I dont think its hygienic to stuff a couple in my pocket. 😂

There is this new gadget out.....


Or... you can sacrifice one glove and grab 2 more and pull your hand out, thereby rolling it inside out, et voila!! Gloved gloves!
 

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@Kautilya

I edited my message to include:

"If you are buying and booking at holesale rates. why not save more money and buy a case of 24 boxes of 12 condoms? Is that two gross?"
 
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I always bring a box of gloves in my bag to a session. I ask if a provider wants digits and if she is into it, I use gloves with lube. Because there is a chance that you could have minor cuts in your hand and you dont want to get it mixed up. Its safer to use a barrier. If you dont have gloves, you can ask the provider for one or use a condom to use on your fingers.
I have gloves at my incall in Montreal, not sure if I have some in Toronto but that could be a good idea.
 
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@Kautilya

I edited my message to include:

"If you are buying and booking at holesale rates. why not save more money and buy a case of 24 boxes of 12 condoms? Is that two gross?"
It's prudent to wear multiple condoms if you're doing a gal from 'holesale'. The money you save doesn't match the risks involved. Just sayin'.
 
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Robert Mugabe

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I’ve noticed a few of you complained about not being able to finger escorts. A lot of my peers don’t allow it for valid reasons. Let me help you out. Most common reasons are: hygiene, sensitivity and comfort

Never and I mean it never:
• Stick a finger in someone without consent
• Stick your fingers in someone if your hands are dirty
• Go from ass to vag

Quick reminders:
• Always wash your hands before
• Keep your nails short and make sure they’re not broken
• Ask for consent
• Ask if it’s ok to add a finger
• Use lube especially for anal play

These can seem very obvious to some and I’m happy if it is but sadly, far too many men don’t know the basics. Vaginas are very sensitive and a small detail like forgetting to wash your hands before you play with it can disrupt its pH. You know what that means? Bacterial vaginosis or yeast infection. Those aren’t pretty or sexy words, I know. That also means that the provider won’t be able to see clients while she’s treating herself. Don’t be rude, wash your hands.

You aren’t a DJ and the clit isn’t a mixing table so there’s no need to rub it in all directions super rapidly. Ask your partner how she likes it, not only is it super sexy but on top of it you’ll know exactly what she likes.

We are not hiding gold in our cervix so there’s no need to go that deep. The g spot isn’t even there.

It’s not a race either so you don’t need to speed up as soon as you slide your fingers in. Start slowly and ask your partner if she’d like you to go faster or better yet, maybe she’ll tell you herself.

TLDR: Providers refuse DIGITS(fingering) because they’re afraid you’ll hurt them or that you’ll disrupt their pH. Don’t shove your fingers rapidly like you’re in some kind of competition. Don’t go from ass to vag.

Need more advice:
How to book an indy
How to introduce yourself like a pro
Basic Japanese subway etiquette.
 

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Quick reminders:
• Always wash your hands before
• Keep your nails short and make sure they’re not broken
• Ask for consent
• Ask if it’s ok to add a finger
• Use lube especially for anal play
You should add
  • "Start slow" and don't just shove it it.
  • while everyone is different, Do not just jamb it in and out. Porn is not real life.
  • use lube even for vaginal play.
 
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SchlongConery

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You should add
  • "Start slow" and don't just shove it it.
  • while everyone is different, Do not just jamb it in and out. Porn is not real life.
  • use lube even for vaginal play.

Indeed porn is not real life!

I think it is giving women unreasonable expectations. Like getting a plumber to come over to fix the sink the same day? Puh...leeeeze! :LOL:
 

Robert Mugabe

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No. Unfortunately. I did a search on youtube and found this one as well. Don't know where my song disappeared.


Found it. sort of. This is the song. Been a long time since I heard it. Catchy albeit maybe lacking charm.
 
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