Fingering: The basics

[Robert Mugabe]

This?

Nope. It is the song above. I guess there was a sort of writers block happening at the time of all these songs.

 

[squeezer]

Gloves, FAWK, CD aka covered digits. I have never tried this one but just like a CBJ, I prefer neither. It would be a buzzkill. I'd prefer to just be told it's not allowed.

 

[squeezer]

The problem with digits without covering is that you cannot finger her, and touch your dick because its just overall risk. Which is why I prefer a barrier for digits.

You have your tongue and face usually buried in there and you're worried about touching our dick with your uncovered fingers?? LOL

Unless of course, you do not daty, then I get it.

 

[squeezer]

The problem with digits without covering is that you cannot finger her, and touch your dick because its just overall risk. Which is why I prefer a barrier for digits.

One more pet peeve of mine. I think wearing socks while butt naked is so unsexy and wearing rubber gloves brings this to a new level. HAHAHAHA

 

[massman]

I’ve noticed a few of you complained about not being able to finger escorts. A lot of my peers don’t allow it for valid reasons. Let me help you out. Most common reasons are: hygiene, sensitivity and comfort

Never and I mean it never:
• Stick a finger in someone without consent
• Stick your fingers in someone if your hands are dirty
• Go from ass to vag

Quick reminders:
• Always wash your hands before
• Keep your nails short and make sure they’re not broken
• Ask for consent
• Ask if it’s ok to add a finger
• Use lube especially for anal play

These can seem very obvious to some and I’m happy if it is but sadly, far too many men don’t know the basics. Vaginas are very sensitive and a small detail like forgetting to wash your hands before you play with it can disrupt its pH. You know what that means? Bacterial vaginosis or yeast infection. Those aren’t pretty or sexy words, I know. That also means that the provider won’t be able to see clients while she’s treating herself. Don’t be rude, wash your hands.

You aren’t a DJ and the clit isn’t a mixing table so there’s no need to rub it in all directions super rapidly. Ask your partner how she likes it, not only is it super sexy but on top of it you’ll know exactly what she likes.

We are not hiding gold in our cervix so there’s no need to go that deep. The g spot isn’t even there.

It’s not a race either so you don’t need to speed up as soon as you slide your fingers in. Start slowly and ask your partner if she’d like you to go faster or better yet, maybe she’ll tell you herself.

TLDR: Providers refuse DIGITS(fingering) because they’re afraid you’ll hurt them or that you’ll disrupt their pH. Don’t shove your fingers rapidly like you’re in some kind of competition. Don’t go from ass to vag.

Need more advice:
How to book an indy
How to introduce yourself like a pro

And forget the term “finger banging” altogether.

 

[massman]

How about finger blasting?

Even more so.

 

[squeezer]

I am like a doctor getting gloved up before a surgery!

In the end, do what you're comfortable with.

Now, have you ever heard a chick say this looks hot? Just saying

but come in dressed like this and you're in for a heck of a time. I chose a dude with a mask and gloves so you will be comfortable when she attacks you.

 

[thumper18474]

1 lady I see always takes my hand and guides me where she wants it...then as she gets moist she'll pull my hand up to her mouth and lick my fingers..
So fucking hot !!!!

 

[shack]

Oral sex carries much less risk than the mucus membrane on your dick.

There is no mucosal surface exposed on a dick (with no sores) other than the peehole. The amount of mucous membrane exposed on our tongues and in our mouths is much, much more than that on our dicks. There is way more surface area being exposed in the oral environment. Much more surface area for which microbes to pass through.

I am like a doctor getting gloved up before a surgery!

The doctor is gloving up mainly to protect the patient, just as the operating room is a sterile environment that is created to protect the patients.

 

[squeezer]

Actually the glans below the foreskin is a mucosal surface. When the foreskin is removed during circumcision the mucus membrane becomes thick in response to not being protected.

I must be a walking pool of bacteria. I've had pussy juice up the noise, in the eyes, in my hair when caught off guard by a surprise squirt and fuck I hate my hair being messed up.

 

[Goodoer]

High school GF loved getting blasted. I did it all the time as we'd fuck 300x+ per year. I had no clue what I was doing, but she liked it when I pushed my hand in to rub her cervix. I'd make sure to push my mushroom head in as far as I could to do the same. Ah, the memories...

PS - I write the above to prove a point that all women are different. I'm sure most women don't want their cervix rubbed via borderline fisting... Wife wants two fingers in with my thumb rubbing the nub. It gets boring, but that's what does it for her. The lesson highlights are to be clean and work on communication.

 

[y2kmark]

A BOX of gloves?

Just one glove, tell her you're a Michael Jackson fan...

 

[y2kmark]

I must be a walking pool of bacteria. I've had pussy juice up the noise, in the eyes, in my hair when caught off guard by a surprise squirt and fuck I hate my hair being messed up.

Be like me, just lose the hair...

 

[y2kmark]

Come on Terb! No wag with a guitar video???

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Come on Terb! No wag with a guitar video???

 

[LC18]

You should add

• "Start slow" and don't just shove it it.
• while everyone is different, Do not just jamb it in and out. Porn is not real life.
• use lube even for vaginal play.

This is for the “intermediate” thread

just kidding

 

[ValuedSupporter]

This is for the “intermediate” thread

just kidding

ok ok ok, I'll bite. What's in the advanced thread? The "come hither" crooked finger motion?

 

[Deviant]

 

[Deviant]

 

[Deviant]