Next Day Replies

[Topartypeople]

Hey boys,

I am curious your thoughts on this topic. I recently reached out to Julia Mae for an incall and receved no reply for two straight nights. Then this morning before 8am, I finally get a text reply about some early morning availability.

I find this quite unprofessional to reach out the following the day, especially considering she couldn’t even text me back-either of the last two nights with a simple, “sorry I’m booked for tonight.”. Plus the fact it was a text so early in the morning. I don’t want this to be necessarily a slam against her, she is a quality provider once you get in the room. Also I am not sure if she uses a handler or not.

But what do you guys think of the next day replies? I’m curious about the feedback.

 

[bob.man]

I don't like them.

There are a couple I have seen that say, for example, Ashlee that she won't respond if it's more then 2 hours later.

When I sent you the message I was interested, not, in your case, 2 days later.

Like I understand, this is your business, and you have to "drum up some business" but like you it would appear, this kind of "drumming up" is not something I like.

 

[thumper18474]

Find a sweetspot of acceptable time between messages and put it in your original message
"please don't respond after 2hrs have passed"
Thx
Or something like that
The real pros won't need the reminder but others will

 

[IndigoKnight]

This post in the 411 section chronicles ones guys outcome and possible solutions to avoid this happening again. https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/busted.819516/

 

[Topartypeople]

This post in the 411 section chronicles ones guys outcome and possible solutions to avoid this happening again. https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/busted.819516/

Yeah I’ve read it. I didn’t get busted, I know how to cover myself. I wanted to hear if other hated this practice as much as I did. I more so wanted Julia and others in the Durham area to read the responses and realize what a bad business practice this is and how potentially harmful for rookies to the hobby with significant partners it might be.

 

[bcguy]

I also got a random text blast with prices and services this morning between 730 & 800 but not from the same girl as you

 

[Derpy]

Just use a texting app and delete the app.

 

[Tinmachine]

Hey boys,

I am curious your thoughts on this topic. I recently reached out to Julia Mae for an incall and receved no reply for two straight nights. Then this morning before 8am, I finally get a text reply about some early morning availability.

I find this quite unprofessional to reach out the following the day, especially considering she couldn’t even text me back-either of the last two nights with a simple, “sorry I’m booked for tonight.”. Plus the fact it was a text so early in the morning. I don’t want this to be necessarily a slam against her, she is a quality provider once you get in the room. Also I am not sure if she uses a handler or not.

But what do you guys think of the next day replies? I’m curious about the feedback.

When reaching out to a new provider I try, if possible, to email them first ( stress, try as not all have emails) from a gmail account no one knows about and is closed off after using. I explain I'm attached and discretion is a must. If they respond back and im more comfortable I will txt to make the appt.
If I have to txt first I also stress I'm attached.( I think SPs prefer attached clients as they are generally nicer). I delete all txt messages pretty much instantly. Luckily I've never had an SP txt me a day later. Fortunately for me my SO is not a snooper and rarely uses my phone. But I guess there's always a risk.

 

[curvluvr]

Totally unprofessional. Anyone who replies next day obviously isn't serious enough to want me as a client.
Unless she has has a civvie job or explicitly requests in her ad to only contact her within a certain time frame, one would at least expect a quick response.

 

[Jenesis]

Find a sweetspot of acceptable time between messages and put it in your original message
"please don't respond after 2hrs have passed"
Thx
Or something like that
The real pros won't need the reminder but others will

This.

I really like this approach because if it is past an hour-ish, I won’t reply. And the only time I have done early morning replies is when someone texts me for an appointment at 3/4am. I will message back at 6am and say that I would never be available at that time.

 

[Jenesis]

Just use a texting app and delete the app.

Many of us don’t accept them. I search every number before I reply. Text App maybe gets a reply from me simply saying I won’t communicate with someone using them. I don’t even answer a simple question over a text app.

 

[boomboom]

I also got a random text blast with prices and services this morning between 730 & 800 but not from the same girl as you

thats a definate no go & block the number.
Years ago, a Sp posted an advt here that it was her day off, but super horny & needed to get a good licking.... just happen to see the advt pop up when online & jumped at it....
She posted her advt, not a random txt seeking it. It was a great 2hrs of fun & several explosive O's by us both. Great memory from 15yrs ago I still think of.

a few SPs I've reached out to via txt, I've told them its ok to reach out later in the day if they are busy. I really appreciate the ladies who post in their advts what their expectations are with replying to txt messages. True professional & they raise the bar for me to see them or other SPs to learn how to advt properly

 

[justplainbob]

Many of us don’t accept them. I search every number before I reply. Text App maybe gets a reply from me simply saying I won’t communicate with someone using them. I don’t even answer a simple question over a text app.

I've had some success saying I'm using an app in the first text but I'll use my real number for confirmation if we are on the same page re: rates and services. I got the idea from an agency that requested I do that actually.

Given that my "real" number is a burner anyway I'm assuming it's just to filter out the timewasters who use apps just to be dicks though.

 

[Jenesis]

I've had some success saying I'm using an app in the first text but I'll use my real number for confirmation if we are on the same page re: rates and services. I got the idea from an agency that requested I do that actually.

Given that my "real" number is a burner anyway I'm assuming it's just to filter out the timewasters who use apps just to be dicks though.

I can see that working. I don’t respond to any of it, so that wouldn’t work with me but I can see it working with others

 

[thumper18474]

There used to be a SP that used to send random text to let me (and I assume others) who had seen her in a certain town that she was going to be in town on these days...
1st time I said thanks..but after a second 1 I replied "don't text me like this" I will know when you're in town...and then blocked her.

 

[bob.man]

Many of us don’t accept them. I search every number before I reply. Text App maybe gets a reply from me simply saying I won’t communicate with someone using them. I don’t even answer a simple question over a text app.

To each everyone's own of course.

But I will never use my real number, in my opinion that's just asking for trouble.

I can possibly get with well reviewed ladies as yourself that maybe using real would be ok..

But with the number you can find out other personal information. To me that's just a big no thank you.

But like I said, to each everyone's own.

 

[Derpy]

Many of us don’t accept them. I search every number before I reply. Text App maybe gets a reply from me simply saying I won’t communicate with someone using them. I don’t even answer a simple question over a text app.

Fair. But on the same note with the experience is have had and as a business professional I would never use my legitimate number to contact someone.

 

[Lowdy319]

Fair. But on the same note with the experience is have had and as a business professional I would never use my legitimate number to contact someone.

The same problem I have with my regular number, tied to my business

 

[Jenesis]

Fair. But on the same note with the experience is have had and as a business professional I would never use my legitimate number to contact someone.

Oh I get it. But by the same token, I am not having a stranger with no way to trace them, coming to my incall (which is my private personal home) where he can rape, rob or murder me. I give valuable personal information in return by way of my personal home. It is a quid pro quo for me. But I’m not every escort.

Both sides have to protect ourselves but you have the advantage of reading reviews and therefore knowing that some escorts, like myself, can be trusted. Escorts who have built a reputation of being professional.

We don’t get this luxury so we have to take the little precautions we can. I will pass on the cash if I can’t have the basics of screening. Thankfully there are plenty of men for me and women for you who will accept our individual ways of using this industry. I have never failed to meet the quota I have set for myself.

It is funny when thinking about it though. I just had a guy a couple of weeks ago refuse to give his number at first because it is his business number as well and with a google search I could find out his business etc. I don’t normally continue a conversation with a text app but I can read people well and he was a gentleman. He did finally give the number after talking a bit. We had a great date, he extended by 2 hours, we had dinner, it was awesome. I still have no idea what his business is. I never googled it. I have no idea about his job. LOL. but I personally don’t care about his job. Why would I? Does that sound rude???? LOL sorry if it does but it is the truth.

It is sad that scammers and blackmailers and just overall an unprofessional women have made it difficult for pros like me. Just like horrible men have made it difficult for you guys.

 

[justplainbob]

It is sad that scammers and blackmailers and just overall an unprofessional women have made it difficult for pros like me. Just like horrible men have made it difficult for you guys.

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