Cheat Day

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I have been trying to lose weight since the beginning of this year. It has not been as easy for me as it has in the past. After trying many different methods what is working for me now is eating just one meal a day, six days a week, with one cheat day a week, no snacks, only good food, walking and I recently started back at the gym again. I can only follow this routine because of the cheat day: seeing an SP, having some beer or wine, having a second meal with a dessert. And after six days a week of staying disciplined and being hungry at night, what I do on "Cheat Day" is even more enjoyable. Food is delicious and sex with the right person is out of this world.

The ideas behind OMAD (one meal a day) are calorie restriction and intermittent fasting (IM). With IM your body spends less time digesting food, insulin levels and insulin sensitivity become more optimized, and your body spends more time in "repair" mode. My weight loss has succeeded so far but there have been plateaus. To get through the last plateau I stopped eating oatmeal. I had included it for the fiber (and oatmeal is quite healthy), but I needed to restrict calories a little bit more.

One concept I obsessed over this summer was visceral fat - the really unhealthy fat that accumulates around your organs, pushing your belly out and is a factory for toxic junk. So far I cannot determine if having less visceral fat has benefitted me beyond becoming more slender.

I have had a craving for Popeye's Chicken all week. I find that Popeye's once every two months is ideal - more often than that and it quickly gets boring. Yesterday it was Popeye's, strawberry Haagen Daz, a mix of IPAs and a good time with my favorite. I had also been craving seeing her in a schoolgirl outfit, which she wore for me me yesterday. And I ended up with a very rare good nights sleep. In my old age "Happy Sleep" does not happen often. Next week maybe some beef curry, samosas and chocolate ice cream or a platter from Naan Kabab. What outfit should I request? Maybe Naughty Nurse? The future looks good!

I started the year at 219 lbs (Fat Bastard!, I am 5'10") and I am now down to 188 lbs, and I have lost seven inches from my waist. During COVID I got down to 175 lbs (walking one to three hours per day), which is likely a very healthy weight for me, so that is my goal. Someone asked me how I went from 175 lbs to 219 lbs? The answer is very slowly, so slowly that I just did not notice the changes. Real change is like that, slightly positive or negative, barely noticeable day to day but with dramatic effects over time.

Would I have better results if I did not have a cheat day? Probably, but I actually I do not know. Maybe the body needs variety once in a while? But that is academic, in practice without a cheat day my discipline would quickly run out.
 
I saw a dietician to lose weight many years ago.

Over several months I went from 205 to 180. Since then I've put some back on, but have never gone over 195.

The main reason I'm writing this post is to say that she said "Once a week treat yourself to a piece of cake, or whatever it is you like most that is otherwise outside the diet. Don't go crazy with it, but at least have that little something special to look forward to. It will help you stay on course for all the other meals during the week."

I found that to be great advice!
 
Eating pussy out is 0 calories (Google it) so daily recommendation of that is always in every diet. If you're gonna have a cake I'd say do it on a day when you're not getting pussy. Otherwise some may think you're being a pig. Meh...as my rabbi says the more the better, Mazel tov! I'll drink to that!
 
I have been trying to lose weight since the beginning of this year. It has not been as easy for me as it has in the past. After trying many different methods what is working for me now is eating just one meal a day, six days a week, with one cheat day a week, no snacks, only good food, walking and I recently started back at the gym again. I can only follow this routine because of the cheat day: seeing an SP, having some beer or wine, having a second meal with a dessert. And after six days a week of staying disciplined and being hungry at night, what I do on "Cheat Day" is even more enjoyable. Food is delicious and sex with the right person is out of this world.

The ideas behind OMAD (one meal a day) are calorie restriction and intermittent fasting (IM). With IM your body spends less time digesting food, insulin levels and insulin sensitivity become more optimized, and your body spends more time in "repair" mode. My weight loss has succeeded so far but there have been plateaus. To get through the last plateau I stopped eating oatmeal. I had included it for the fiber (and oatmeal is quite healthy), but I needed to restrict calories a little bit more.

One concept I obsessed over this summer was visceral fat - the really unhealthy fat that accumulates around your organs, pushing your belly out and is a factory for toxic junk. So far I cannot determine if having less visceral fat has benefitted me beyond becoming more slender.

I have had a craving for Popeye's Chicken all week. I find that Popeye's once every two months is ideal - more often than that and it quickly gets boring. Yesterday it was Popeye's, strawberry Haagen Daz, a mix of IPAs and a good time with my favorite. I had also been craving seeing her in a schoolgirl outfit, which she wore for me me yesterday. And I ended up with a very rare good nights sleep. In my old age "Happy Sleep" does not happen often. Next week maybe some beef curry, samosas and chocolate ice cream or a platter from Naan Kabab. What outfit should I request? Maybe Naughty Nurse? The future looks good!

I started the year at 219 lbs (Fat Bastard!, I am 5'10") and I am now down to 188 lbs, and I have lost seven inches from my waist. During COVID I got down to 175 lbs (walking one to three hours per day), which is likely a very healthy weight for me, so that is my goal. Someone asked me how I went from 175 lbs to 219 lbs? The answer is very slowly, so slowly that I just did not notice the changes. Real change is like that, slightly positive or negative, barely noticeable day to day but with dramatic effects over time.

Would I have better results if I did not have a cheat day? Probably, but I actually I do not know. Maybe the body needs variety once in a while? But that is academic, in practice without a cheat day my discipline would quickly run out.

Good for you! Losing over 30 pounds is a real accomplishment. Sounds like a good strategy, we all need something positive to look forward to. Sounds like you've aced it with your strategy. BTW who is that sexy regular with the school girl outfit??
 
Good for you! Losing over 30 pounds is a real accomplishment. Sounds like a good strategy, we all need something positive to look forward to. Sounds like you've aced it with your strategy. BTW who is that sexy regular with the school girl outfit??
Thank you.

@Asian Nicole
 
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Would I have better results if I did not have a cheat day? Probably, but I actually I do not know. Maybe the body needs variety once in a while? But that is academic, in practice without a cheat day my discipline would quickly run out.
i don't think so, i've lost quite a bit of weight the past couple of years and I think if i didn't have the single cheat meal i do once a month i would have stopped dieting a long long time ago
of course don't over eat but one cheat meal will not ruin your diet and will help you mentally more than you know
 
i don't think so, i've lost quite a bit of weight the past couple of years and I think if i didn't have the single cheat meal i do once a month i would have stopped dieting a long long time ago
of course don't over eat but one cheat meal will not ruin your diet and will help you mentally more than you know

I like OP's idea to schedule the cheat day. It gives you something to look forward to. Otherwise you feel constantly deprived and end up binging and feeling guilty after. At least from my experience ...

SP's are therapy, boys.
 
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i don't think so, i've lost quite a bit of weight the past couple of years and I think if i didn't have the single cheat meal i do once a month i would have stopped dieting a long long time ago
of course don't over eat but one cheat meal will not ruin your diet and will help you mentally more than you know
I do a cheat meal once a week but that being said it's not a HUGE cheat meal. Normally I do around 1500-2000 calories a day but on those days I do around 2500 which is just about my maintenance. It's not much but having one once a week makes it worth it.
 
I do a cheat meal once a week but that being said it's not a HUGE cheat meal. Normally I do around 1500-2000 calories a day but on those days I do around 2500 which is just about my maintenance. It's not much but having one once a week makes it worth it.

Whatever works! IMHO having something to look forward to is the key.

Something the OP didn’t mention is exercise. Getting fit helps a lot. Looking good and feeling stronger are motivating, builds healthy routines and helps to keep the weight off in the long term.
 
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Whatever works! IMHO having something to look forward to is the key.

Something the OP didn’t mention is exercise. Getting fit helps a lot. Looking good and feeling stronger are motivating, builds healthy routines and helps to keep the weight off in the long term.
Absolutely! I also agree exercise is key, although if you have an active job that in itself might be more than enough but if not even a simple half an hour walk once a day is more than enough. However if you're a little on the bigger size it is highly recommended to get in a bit of strength training to avoid a lot of loose skin
 
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Whatever works! IMHO having something to look forward to is the key.

Something the OP didn’t mention is exercise. Getting fit helps a lot. Looking good and feeling stronger are motivating, builds healthy routines and helps to keep the weight off in the long term.
I try to walk at least an hour a day. This is something that I enjoy doing, while either listening to a podcast or just exploring my own thoughts and feelings. During COIVD I walked a lot, even on the coldest days. A by-product of this is that I never got sick when I was that active. It is when I am a lazy ass that I gets colds and flus. I am weight training again. I had a setback after a rotator cuff injury that I got doing shoulder press. One thing to remember, especially older people, is that as you train your muscles get stronger faster than your connective tissues (tendons, ligaments) can adapt. With that in mind do not push through pain, and do not try to do too much too soon.
 
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My weight loss has happened so gradually that I have barely noticed. It can seem like the effort is much greater than the benefits. But I observed today while walking that I no longer have "stomach awareness", that feeling of carrying around a paunch, the strain against my belt, and the reflection in mirrors of a bulging gut. And I no longer get tired during "certain activities". These are good things to keep in mind when I am hungry, or when I hit a plateau and get discouraged.
 
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