Sugar Dating Experience

[RobI]

I see, but you must understand some ladies don't use photos that scream sex, but do or are open to it, they play games or don't want to make it obvious like in real life. Just approach if you are bold. Think of it like approaching women in a bar. Know what to say first, "hello"...

Yes, maybe that's worth a try, have you had any luck on Telegram here?

There are some accounts are looking to meet up, but when I got into the details it seemed very sketchy. That is they gave me an address and I knew there was nothing good at that place - I think the city converted it into a shelter a few years back lol

 

[RobI]

What website do I find these

There's a few, Seeking is the big one (though they seem to be rebranding as a meet-a-millionaire: Seeking ad: "I want to show you the Maldives", Me: "Maldives? I'll take you out for a few Mojitos" ), Sugar Daddy Meet is another one that's like Seeking, but a bit cheaper, and then there's Secret Benefits which uses this credit system I don't like much. Personally I've had most luck on SDM, but they're all free to join and look at pictures, but you can't start messaging the girls until you pay up.

I've also seen other guys post about meeting girls on Instagram, but that's a bit more work.

 

[xix]

I think and believe there is ( as there was in the physical past) now in the present is a bit of leg work to find a lady of the hour in a different way.

Historical fact?

Hear me out. Let's take the 70's. The only way you can find SP back then is word of mouth or Classifieds in the newspapers. Simple statement.
Back then you had to physically go and see for yourself.
Once that area was "raided", the SP's would move to another location. Then you had to start over again. That new area would pickup steam or more people and local people complaint to police and the raid would happen again, twice in the summer. The circle of life, it has been happening like this forever.

So the 80's took a twist and few elite people started using the BBS, Classifieds, newspaper and word of mouth still the same.
In the 90's Internet still some BBS, Classifieds, newspaper and word of mouth still the same.
Well mid 2015's or when smart phone came out BB, a paradigm shift, dating websites etc.
Now 2020's, google street view, Internet, Reviews, are new norm to the old BBS, Classifieds, newspaper and word of mouth still the same.
Once a medium has been chosen by the masses, prices seem to go up? or quality down? depends who you talk to and what you think. This is just an observation piece or writing no judgement.

So yes there are people who stay ahead of the curve because they don't want to be seen. And the middle group are people who use the common media to make contact.

You can apply this to Dating.
I also forgot that taverns, bars, clubs were around since the beginning of time till the 2015's it started to die down, thanks to Covid.

So how do you stay ahead of the curve?
My answer, going to new apps or less used apps, New social website, but ALOT patience's is required. So do you want it quick, pay for it, do you want to spend countless hours searching?
Also find the latest and newest thing to stay ahead.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Yes, maybe that's worth a try, have you had any luck on Telegram here?

There are some accounts are looking to meet up, but when I got into the details it seemed very sketchy. That is they gave me an address and I knew there was nothing good at that place - I think the city converted it into a shelter a few years back lol

Always trust your gut on those and just ignore them.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

There's a few, Seeking is the big one (though they seem to be rebranding as a meet-a-millionaire: Seeking ad: "I want to show you the Maldives", Me: "Maldives? I'll take you out for a few Mojitos" ), Sugar Daddy Meet is another one that's like Seeking, but a bit cheaper, and then there's Secret Benefits which uses this credit system I don't like much. Personally I've had most luck on SDM, but they're all free to join and look at pictures, but you can't start messaging the girls until you pay up.

I've also seen other guys post about meeting girls on Instagram, but that's a bit more work.

I'd say the re-brand for Seeking is just putting lipstick on a pig. In some ways it's not fair for new girls joining that they'll experience exotic adventures.
Not that they won't but most of us can't do that if we're married. And if not married, most of us will do this thing called "Actual Dating"

 

[Leimonis]

And if not married, most of us will do this thing called "Actual Dating"

if you like women in your own age group, sure

 

[Hipjdog]

if you like women in your own age group, sure

I'm 21 in spirit!

 

[Leimonis]

I'm 21 in spirit!

same!

 

[Tony2000]

I think it’s time to develop a glossary or dictionary which would help new babies and daddies to navigate the sugar bowl.

for example:
Show me that you’re serious - I want freebies

Looking for a gentleman - minimum $800 for two hours

Looking for a real gentleman- $800 plus Uber

Classy - has a mirror selfie from a public restroom

Entrepreneur - recently started Onlyfans

Creative - recently started Onlyfans

Open minded - anal is still not included

etc etc

 

[Tony2000]

That's a good list.

My favourite is "want to take things slowly." Translation: I want you to take me for dinner and give me money and you will get nothing in return."
Next profile.

 

[Leimonis]

That's a good list.

My favourite is "want to take things slowly." Translation: I want you to take me for dinner and give me money and you will get nothing in return."
Next profile.

Some more randoms:

Looking for a guy with a sense of humour = you better have enough charisma for both of us because I got zilch

Looking for a mentor = looking for an old man who likes to talk and pay for it

I’m from Toronto = not more than $100 Uber drive each way to and from the boonies

 

[IMBob]

Did anyone else get 1 hour free membership on Seeking yesterday? Kinda useless, most SBs want to keep initial messaging on the site

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Did anyone else get 1 hour free membership on Seeking yesterday? Kinda useless, most SBs want to keep initial messaging on the site

I happened to be on there on Sunday, checking out of habit and it was already an option. Ended up getting four girls contacts numbers and have messaged outside the site already and mulling whether or not I want to pull the trigger and break the addiction in-person, I think 5 months sober so far.

 

[6ixdurrr]

Long time lurker first time commenting I’ve been out with 5-6 ladies from Seeking so far with a 90% success rate on the first meet & greet.

Lately I’m finding the pool to be quite a bit smaller, and don’t feel like gambling $500 for a ppm when there’s also a ton of escorts pretending to be civilians

I’m curious about the folks who have seen success here andwhat your strategies are. Perhaps if we’ve even out withthe same ladies, DM

 

[IMBob]

At $500 ppm . Especially if it’s the second message in. My reply , Sorry, above my budget . Next

 

[Badhabits]

At $500 ppm . My reply , Sorry, about my budget . Next

Content Machine on Instagram: "You want me to be a sugar daddy In THIS economy!"

103K likes, 1,084 comments - the_content_machine on October 27, 2023: "You want me to be a sugar daddy In THIS economy!".

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Pretty sure this encapsulates majority of people sugaring nowadays.

Makes it easier for us that don't penny pinch to see girls since the bar is set so low from other interactions.

 

[twoteeshots]

I refuse to use these sugar daddy dating sites, I'd rather just pay an SP. I will echo a couple of posts I saw about Hinge. It's been great for me. I've approached it as a game of odds. You SHOULD get lucky at least 1/10. Since September, I've been on dates with 7 girls and I've banged 2 of them. I've been picking restaurants and places I actually want to try myself and treat them as company. Total money spent on 7 girls is about $1000. The number of times I've fucked is 21. Average it out to be $50 a nut, way worth it in my opinion! The girl I'm seeing now has been paying for everything since I picked up the $130 tab from the first date. The only downer I have from these experiences is that the BJs aren't very good.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

I refuse to use these sugar daddy dating sites, I'd rather just pay an SP. I will echo a couple of posts I saw about Hinge. It's been great for me. I've approached it as a game of odds. You SHOULD get lucky at least 1/10. Since September, I've been on dates with 7 girls and I've banged 2 of them. I've been picking restaurants and places I actually want to try myself and treat them as company. Total money spent on 7 girls is about $1000. The number of times I've fucked is 21. Average it out to be $50 a nut, way worth it in my opinion! The girl I'm seeing now has been paying for everything since I picked up the $130 tab from the first date. The only downer I have from these experiences is that the BJs aren't very good.

OK I have a question - if you use Hinge don't you have your entire face and life for everyone to see?
If you're married you can't exactly go on an actual dating app otherwise I'd for sure do the same - I actually started the horrible behaviour by joining Tinder and dated so many girls it was crazy. One of them called me out for being married after we hooked up and I swear she actually knew it ahead of time. Then another called me out after our first date and I decided I couldn't risk it anymore.

If you're doing that on Hinge and spending that amount of money, you can do the same on a SD site and have a much higher batting average. But at the same time if you're having a great time and the girls are having a great time - then that's excellent and it's all that matters!

 

[twoteeshots]

OK I have a question - if you use Hinge don't you have your entire face and life for everyone to see?
If you're married you can't exactly go on an actual dating app otherwise I'd for sure do the same - I actually started the horrible behaviour by joining Tinder and dated so many girls it was crazy. One of them called me out for being married after we hooked up and I swear she actually knew it ahead of time. Then another called me out after our first date and I decided I couldn't risk it anymore.

If you're doing that on Hinge and spending that amount of money, you can do the same on a SD site and have a much higher batting average. But at the same time if you're having a great time and the girls are having a great time - then that's excellent and it's all that matters!

Lol I'm not married so I don't have that problem. Is $1000 a lot over a couple of months? The 5 girls I didn't fuck totaled maybe $400? Semi-fancy lunch and dinners. I didn't mind, all of them bought me coffee or desert as not to be rude. The first girl I fucked we went on 6 dates before we called it quits. Current girl now we are onto week 4 and she's been cool. She enjoys nights in or going straight home to fuck after a dinner.

Based on your SD experience, what is the arrangement?

 

[frbase1]

If a girl asks what benefit she can provide.... is this supposed to be a trick question?