would any of you guys marry an SP?

afterhours

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wonder what people think about this specimen

https://medium.com/matter/sex-is-sex-but-money-is-money-e7c10091713f#.nm3rip8c9

Before my job I never did blow jobs for boyfriends. If they would ask, I would be like, “Are you kidding me?” Or if they would say, “Change positions,” I would be like, “What are you talking about?”
Since I quit, no blow jobs, either. If you’re dating somebody and he didn’t live good before, and you start giving him blow jobs and doing different positions, you can spoil him. I don’t want to spoil someone that much.
If someone’s not paying you, you don’t have to do blow jobs, you don’t have to smile all the time, you can be yourself. But after a while you feel like something is missing. The something is money. You’re sitting in the same apartment, you’re the same you, but something is missing. Your wallet is empty. Sex is sex, but money is money.
 

Vermeer27

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wonder what people think about this specimen

https://medium.com/matter/sex-is-sex-but-money-is-money-e7c10091713f#.nm3rip8c9

Before my job I never did blow jobs for boyfriends. If they would ask, I would be like, “Are you kidding me?” Or if they would say, “Change positions,” I would be like, “What are you talking about?”
Since I quit, no blow jobs, either. If you’re dating somebody and he didn’t live good before, and you start giving him blow jobs and doing different positions, you can spoil him. I don’t want to spoil someone that much.
If someone’s not paying you, you don’t have to do blow jobs, you don’t have to smile all the time, you can be yourself. But after a while you feel like something is missing. The something is money. You’re sitting in the same apartment, you’re the same you, but something is missing. Your wallet is empty. Sex is sex, but money is money.
It was an interesting read, kind of boilerplate in terms of describing the lifestyle. I've heard many similar accounts from sp's first-hand. Sounds like she was able to "treat it like a business" in her own words because she didn't like sex that much to begin with, at-least not with men. (I've never had a civilian girlfriend who didn't enjoy giving oral, maybe I'm just lucky). What's ironic is that she's an aspiring filmmaker. If she ever get's into that business she will miss escorting for sure because the Film business is an unscrupulous, soul-crushing business with way too much ass to kiss for a girl as self-absorbed as she sounds.
 

scdave2003

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My next wife is an ex-SP. we've been have an extramarital relationship for a while, when wife #1 is gone I plan to hook up with the ex-SP, we've discussed this and although she's not entirely sure of marriage as she is 49 and has never been married, she's game for a steady relationship.But a guy can live in hope.
 

Dpleasure

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Curious. Just wondering. What's the difference in marrying a woman has slept with 100 men in her life & a woman that's slept with 100 men as an sp?
With the non-working girl, you may never know and with the working girl, you know. & you also know, that for her as an sp, it's only a job.
 

Darius_Young

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Yes I would, I think one should judge the individual and not the group identity; and I have no issues with a promiscuous past. What I will be careful with though is why was she promiscuous, why did she join the industry, where she is now emotionally and maturity wise, what does she want now, why does she want it now, does she have mental health problems, does she or did she have addiction problems, etc. Everything about her either paints a reliable and investable picture or it doesn't, it comes down to that.
 

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John Wick

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Nah. Who the heck wants to add that sack of shit baggage to their lives? Just too much BS to deal with that will never, ever be done. Too much of a PIA to be worth it.
 
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Nah. Who the heck wants to add that sack of shit baggage to their lives? Just too much BS to deal with that will never, ever be done. Too much of a PIA to be worth it.
You know you guys make me laugh with your outdated double standard bullshit. How is dating or marrying a retired SP any different from marrying or dating a civilian. You're saying these women are okay to fuck but God forbid you should actually carry on a relationship with one because for some reason you think they're less of a human being. You think your body count makes you more of a man and yet a woman's body count makes her less desirable. Grow up
 

dirtyharry555

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The article go removed. Anyone have a copy or know where I can get it?


I haven't read it.
 
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The article go removed. Anyone have a copy or know where I can get it?
seems to be this one
 
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TomFord1980

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It's possible that you could fall in love with an SP. then become her bf (not sure how you deal with her getting banged by 8 guys a day), and then you propose and marry an SP. would you guys ever marry an SP? how would you deal with her lifestyle and all the attention she gets from guys every day while you go to your boring 9-5 job?
I would have married Tiffany Black back in the day. Many newbies may not know her but boy she was the total package.
 

Oistins

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It all comes down to attitude. An SP once told me that she would choose an outcall escort to come to her boyfriend while she was out working. Actually picked and booked the girl for him. Her philosophy was why should I be out getting orgasms all night long and not him?
 

xix

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@dirtyharry555 and @bestseller87 Thanks to both.

It almost reminds me of divorce women seeking validation ...for psychological dumping.

SP's can't stay married, unless they have no CPP.
 

John Wick

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You know you guys make me laugh with your outdated double standard bullshit. How is dating or marrying a retired SP any different from marrying or dating a civilian. You're saying these women are okay to fuck but God forbid you should actually carry on a relationship with one because for some reason you think they're less of a human being. You think your body count makes you more of a man and yet a woman's body count makes her less desirable. Grow up
If you live on planet Earth in the year 2023 and understand the norms of modern societies around the globe my comment should be easy to digest.
 

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John Wick said:
Nah. Who the heck wants to add that sack of shit baggage to their lives? Just too much BS to deal with that will never, ever be done. Too much of a PIA to be worth it.


You know you guys make me laugh with your outdated double standard bullshit. How is dating or marrying a retired SP any different from marrying or dating a civilian. You're saying these women are okay to fuck but God forbid you should actually carry on a relationship with one because for some reason you think they're less of a human being. You think your body count makes you more of a man and yet a woman's body count makes her less desirable. Grow up
You do realize you're talking to a guy who thinks he's tough because he beats up women. He does not respect women.


John Wick said:
I grabbed her by the shirt at the shoulder and held her at arm's length for a second or two. When she pivoted to attack my arm, I let go with one arm and with the other grabbed her by the hair, raised her head and punched her full on in the throat with my free hand. She went down in a heap coughing and choking,
 
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