I truly believe this is the only way the marriage, could ever have a chance, its a commitment on both sides.
would any of you guys marry an SP?
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Really ? Lets just say that I know some pretty Fiercely independent women who have fallen in love. Whether they can rise to the occasion, well that's anther question.
Somethings in life just aren't meant to be shared,girlfriend/ wife would fall in that category so " no" to an active SP. An ex SP is more probable since we all have "skeletons in the closet" and it would be unfair to judge someone base on their past.
That being said I would not frown upon people who are open minded enough to be in relationships/ marriages with Active SPs, we are not all cut from the same cloth. Life would be so boring if we were.
That being said I would not frown upon people who are open minded enough to be in relationships/ marriages with Active SPs, we are not all cut from the same cloth. Life would be so boring if we were.
First let me apologize. I misunderstood your intentions. It's a clear distinction between not shying away from an opportunity vs. actively seeking one. I'm sorry.
Reading the rest of the posts, I wondered if there was an appropriate analogy to getting involved with people whose professions may be less than "ideal" for a relationship.
One example that came to mind is a special forces operator. These guys are gone at least 8 months of the year, can't talk about their work and basically kill for a living (and therefore we can also debate the "morality" of their job). They have to deal with enormous psychological and physical stress. By all accounts, being the wife of an operator is no easy life.
But, it happens. It takes work, and probably more than your usual share of sacrifice. But it can work.
I suppose the difference is that they have support groups for army wives but not for SP husbands. lol.
In a heart beat. And why, and I know I'll get slagged for this, if there's a true love connection, built over time it could work.
This would involve some off-time dates to secure. So, probably, not at all likely.
The weak link would be my ego. However, I've noticed, ego erodes with age. So long as boundaries are defined and she comes home to me.
Notwithstanding the above, I think there are confident secure women that are better emotionally equipped to separate physical fucking from love/romance.
OK. I'm watching Sleepless in Seattle. Hopeless romantic.
I like Pretty Woman too.
So maybe I'm fucking crazy.
This would involve some off-time dates to secure. So, probably, not at all likely.
The weak link would be my ego. However, I've noticed, ego erodes with age. So long as boundaries are defined and she comes home to me.
Notwithstanding the above, I think there are confident secure women that are better emotionally equipped to separate physical fucking from love/romance.
OK. I'm watching Sleepless in Seattle. Hopeless romantic.
I like Pretty Woman too.
So maybe I'm fucking crazy.
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This would be fantastic if she makes enough money for the 2 of us so I could just stay home all day and play Dragon Age: Inquisition.
ps: Maybe her feet are the only part of her body Mr. SP wants to touch after she's been fucking and BBBJ'ing anonymous strangers all day every day.
ps: Maybe her feet are the only part of her body Mr. SP wants to touch after she's been fucking and BBBJ'ing anonymous strangers all day every day.
In a heart beat. And why, and I know I'll get slagged for this, if there's a true love connection, built over time it could work.
This would involve some off-time dates to secure. So, probably, not at all likely.
The weak link would be my ego. However, I've noticed, ego erodes with age. So long as boundaries are defined and she comes home to me.
Notwithstanding the above, I think there are confident secure women that are better emotionally equipped to separate physical fucking from love/romance.
OK. I'm watching Sleepless in Seattle. Hopeless romantic.
I like Pretty Woman too.
So maybe I'm fucking crazy.
Some of us are hopeless romantics. Like I've said before, anything is possible.
The question is whether she is also a romantic. Experience tells me that working in the biz changes people; they get jaded. Fast.
So what if she is NOT a romantic and behaves accordingly?
I don't exactly know what this story is cause I A.D.Dly read through this thread aka didn't read it at all but if you are two adults who can converse about your goals and see if they match or can at least compromise or know it won't work at all and be honest with themselves and each other, what works for you it has more likely of a happy relationship. Although I do agree if a guy is okay with me spending time with other guys, it raises concern, while I'd like him to actually care about me genuinely. I'm a complicated girl but once I care, I care with my all. I think most girls are like that lol crazy love bit not cops called restraining order stalky crazy lol
These days its hard enough having a relationship with a regular civie lady, let alone an active provider. If this is to work, concessions have to be made on both sides. This is what a true and honest relationship is all about.
Even a few sps have voiced their opinion on this including ladies I have met. In other words they would quit what their doing to pursue a relationship with the man they truly love.
Big commitment ! But one that says it all.
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I think I could be married to an SP. But she'd have to be somebody special.. I can't imagine a woman I'd be so crazy for that I'd be willing to share her body with other men.. But I'm sure there are plenty of men out there for the countless beautiful women we talk about (and objectify) everyday.. Maybe there's one for me..
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Absolutely, I would marry a SP. There is no difference than you meeting someone in a bar or elsewhere. You don't know there background. And even if I did know her past, as long as we connect and are deeply into each other (love), I would see beyond that. I learned to appreciate the good and bad in life. Life is about taking chances and not being afraid to screw up.
I have a blog coming out soon about this topic and it's interesting to see how often this topic comes up. You would be surprised how the general population reacts to dating an SP... it's really a mixed bag but keep in mind guys many SPs are in romantic partnerships of some sort and some are even married. I'm pretty sure partners of SPs get used to it and treat it like any other job... some even get off on it. I feel bad for the SPs who's partners don't understand or accept it. It makes doing your job really tough without someone backing you up.
I look forward to reading your blog on this subject. I believe the successful relationships are the ones which are able to recognize this aspect as just a job. As a result, the gent would listen to the SP'S job related issues like any other job.
Well obviously it all depends on what kind of person she is.
Personally I don't bother since if she's such an interesting/attractive person to the point that I want to actually date her then chances are she already has a boyfriend. This pretty much goes for all attractive girls my age.
Marriage on the other hand is a totally different subject. I personally want kids sooner or later and that will probably force her to retire. So at that point where she retires is it still considered marrying an SP?
Personally I don't bother since if she's such an interesting/attractive person to the point that I want to actually date her then chances are she already has a boyfriend. This pretty much goes for all attractive girls my age.
Marriage on the other hand is a totally different subject. I personally want kids sooner or later and that will probably force her to retire. So at that point where she retires is it still considered marrying an SP?
