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[Uncharted]

Lost:
My right to Go to the USA
My American credit card
Could lose bank account at anytime
My right of feeling safe in general
It's also harder to maintain relationships

Gain:
The possibility of being open with my love ones about my work
The work/leisure balance I needed
I work for my dreams and me only
I can spoil the people I love endlessly

OK. I will admit my naivety in advance.
I understand the last 2 on the list of Lost, but I must admit, I'm a little stumped by the first 3. Maybe I'm just dense. If you would enlighten me I would be very grateful.

Why has it cost you your right to go to the USA, or an American credit card? And why would it mean you could loose your bank account at any time?

Please, if this is delving too deep or is too personal I apologize, and of course respect your choice not to answer. Just know that I am genuinely curious and am not just gossip seeking. I am always wanting to better understand what sex workers go through beyond just the time spent with us guys.
If we understand a person's life, we understand them more as a person.
At least that's the way I try to look at things.

Either way, I appreciate your honesty in whatever answers you feel comfortable giving, Amanda.

 

[LC18]

How big were the largest and smallest dicks you've seen? And is the average really 5 inches?

How big were the largest and smallest dicks you've seen? The largest was too big to fit in, he kind of expected it so he wasn’t too disappointed. We did other things. The smallest one, the man brought his own condoms that he had to order online because they don’t sell them in store.

And is the average really 5 inches? I’m not good with measurements so I had to pull out my measuring tape and yes, it sounds about right, 4.5-5 inches.

Edited to avoid confusion

 

[LC18]

ever had sex in public space? what’s your best experience you can recall which stands out among daily routine calls?

ever had sex in public space? Many times but never with a client.

what’s your best experience you can recall which stands out among daily routine calls? I once had an overnight duo with a good friend of mine (the other SP), it was fun. I’m not sure we actually slept, the man helped us take photos, ordered a bottle of bubbles and asked us interesting questions. We of course had sex.

 

[NotTheCatThatYouLike]

The smallest one, the man brought his own condoms that he had to order online because they don’t sell them in store. I’m not good with measurements so I had to pull out my measuring tape and yes, it sounds about right, 4.5-5 inches.

omg lol had to reread this twice, as at first read i thought that 4.5-5 inches is the smallest dick lol

 

[io2471]

It seems i reading reviews that the lingerei usually comes off quickly. Is there a reason for this, and if requested would you leave it on longer? TO some guys (me) looking at and grabbing at a great ass in a thong is a highlight of any sexual encounter.

 

[LC18]

Outside of a client bringing you a gift, or giving you a generous tip, or anything else monetary, what have clients done to make themselves and the encounter itself memorable to you?

Outside of a client bringing you a gift, or giving you a generous tip, or anything else monetary, what have clients done to make themselves and the encounter itself memorable to you? Someone booked me for 3 hours and we did nothing but talk, drink champagne, spy on the neighbour and tease each other. By the end of our date, all I wanted to do was to give him a BJ. As it had been in my face for 2 hours and more. It was very interesting/refreshing to be teased by a client. Never thought it would happen.

Another memorable date was with a client who found out that I could still lactate. Made the date pretty interesting.

 

[Josephine Grey]

Because of the societal perception and stigmatization of sex work and sex workers, and the inherent negatives that this contributes to, what do you feel you have lost in your life in the pursuit of this career?
What has it cost you, and what have you gained? Beyond monetarily.

OK. I will admit my naivety in advance.
I understand the last 2 on the list of Lost, but I must admit, I'm a little stumped by the first 3. Maybe I'm just dense. If you would enlighten me I would be very grateful.

Why has it cost you your right to go to the USA, or an American credit card? And why would it mean you could loose your bank account at any time?

Please, if this is delving too deep or is too personal I apologize, and of course respect your choice not to answer. Just know that I am genuinely curious and am not just gossip seeking. I am always wanting to better understand what sex workers go through beyond just the time spent with us guys.
If we understand a person's life, we understand them more as a person.
At least that's the way I try to look at things.

Either way, I appreciate your honesty in whatever answers you feel comfortable giving, Amanda.

Sesta/Fosta voted by Trump. "If you have been a sex worker within the last 10 yrs, you are not admissible to enter the United State". I got my sex worker ban.

Information that was communicated to my Capital One and I was terminated without no reason given to me.

Also a lot of ladies these days see there account close for the deposit the receive from Onlyfans.

 

[Josephine Grey]

It seems i reading reviews that the lingerei usually comes off quickly. Is there a reason for this, and if requested would you leave it on longer? TO some guys (me) looking at and grabbing at a great ass in a thong is a highlight of any sexual encounter.

I am sure that if you communicate your wishes, most can accommodate.

 

[Josephine Grey]

Outside of a client bringing you a gift, or giving you a generous tip, or anything else monetary, what have clients done to make themselves and the encounter itself memorable to you?

The way they introduced themselves really is a BIG start. If you make me feel safe, I will be able to relax and enjoy myself.

 

[LC18]

It seems i reading reviews that the lingerei usually comes off quickly. Is there a reason for this, and if requested would you leave it on longer? TO some guys (me) looking at and grabbing at a great ass in a thong is a highlight of any sexual encounter.

It seems i reading reviews that the lingerei usually comes off quickly. Is there a reason for this, and if requested would you leave it on longer? TO some guys (me) looking at and grabbing at a great ass in a thong is a highlight of any sexual encounter. If you wear your lingerie correctly, meaning the panties over the garter belt, you don’t need to take it off. You just take your panties off and voilà. If I’m wearing lingerie, I like to keep the garter belt and stockings on.

 

[Josephine Grey]

ever had sex in public space? what’s your best experience you can recall which stands out among daily routine calls?

I have too many good experiences to be honest. Yes, I had sex in public place but never as escort.

 

[Uncharted]

Sesta/Fosta voted by Trump. "If you have been a sex worker within the last 10 yrs, you are not admissible to enter the United State". I got my sex worker ban.

Information that was communicated to my Capital One and I was terminated without no reason given to me.

Also a lot of ladies these days see there account close for the deposit the receive from Onlyfans.

Thank you Amanda. The last two, of course, gives way to new questions I have that I'm sure we could discuss for hours, but I don't want to high jack this thread.
Your candor and your honesty is a precious thing. It is greatly appreciated by us all.

 

[Josephine Grey]

Thank you Amanda. The last two, of course, gives way to new questions I have that I'm sure we could discuss for hours, but I don't want to high jack this thread.
Your candor and your honesty is a precious thing. It is greatly appreciated by us all.

I am always happy to explain via pm if that can help others always a pleasure Uncharted.

 

[LoveFord]

Are you still serious about sex outside your line of work? Or sex is just for pure enjoyment to you?

 

[Josephine Grey]

Are you still serious about sex outside your line of work? Or sex is just for pure enjoyment to you?

It's hard to have/keep a bf but I feel that
who I give sex outside matter a lot more than it used to. It makes everything more special to me because we feel something. I won't give it to just anyone just because.

 

[LC18]

Are you still serious about sex outside your line of work? Or sex is just for pure enjoyment to you?

Are you still serious about sex outside your line of work? Or sex is just for pure enjoyment to you? What do you mean by serious? I am single but I’m only seeing one man in my personal life. We both weren’t looking for something serious but didn’t feel like using Tinder everytime we’re horny.

 

[LoveFord]

Are you still serious about sex outside your line of work? Or sex is just for pure enjoyment to you? What do you mean by serious? I am single but I’m only seeing one man in my personal life. We both weren’t looking for something serious but didn’t feel like using Tinder everytime we’re horny.

Due to the job nature of SW, having sex with different clients is just an everyday things, I wonder would this impact SW's attitude toward sex in their personal life? I wonder would SW see sex as just pure pleasure, no or only limited affection is needed to involve. Actually, one-night-stand or causal sex is not uncommon even among civie people in our damn world.

Thanks Lena. you already answered my question nicely. You are serious about sex and is a respectable person.

 

[John_Jacob]

I stopped reading that at "dipping your fingers in your client's smegma..."

anything to prove a point right?

 

[LC18]

Due to the job nature of SW, having sex with different clients is just an everyday things, I wonder would this impact SW's attitude toward sex in their personal life? I wonder would SW see sex as just pure pleasure, no or only limited affection is needed to involve. Actually, one-night-stand or causal sex is not uncommon even among civie people in our damn world.

Thanks Lena. you already answered my question nicely. You are serious about sex and is a respectable person.

Due to the job nature of SW, having sex with different clients is just an everyday things, I wonder would this impact SW's attitude toward sex in their personal life? I wonder would SW see sex as just pure pleasure, no or only limited affection is needed to involve. Actually, one-night-stand or causal sex is not uncommon even among civie people in our damn world.

Before I was a sex worker, I didn’t care if I met a man on tinder, had sex and never spoke again. Now if I wanted to have a one night stand and never talk to the guy again, I would just post an ad on here. I don’t use “dating” apps anymore. I prefer meeting people organically or through friends and having a genuine relationship. I am single though and no desire to have a serious relationship. I just get enough of different men in my bed for work, I want it to be different in my personal life.

 

[Uncharted]

Have you ever caught feelings for a client?
If so, how did you handle the situation?