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LC18

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What percent of total men that you have seen have E.D?
Were you ever disappointed?
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What percent of total men that you have seen said their wives don't want sex because of health reason?

What percent of total men that you have seen said their wives don't want sex because she shut down for no reason?

What percent of total men that you have seen said they have a wife and girlfriend but still see ladies like you? Escorts.

Which clients do you see more by age decade? 18+ ?
20's ?
30's ?
40's ?
50's ?
60's ?
70's ?

What is the most times a man has seen you in a month? ie: he visited you 3x's a week for a month. It could be weeks or a year.
What percent of total men that you have seen have E.D? I don’t know, I’m not good in math that’s why I’m an escort (just kidding). But a few of my clients have mentioned they had ED, but they got hard anyways. Made me proud. When they don’t get hard we still have fun because sex isn’t just penetration.

What percent of total men that you have seen said their wives don't want sex because of health reason?

What percent of total men that you have seen said their wives don't want sex because she shut down for no reason?

What percent of total men that you have seen said they have a wife and girlfriend but still see ladies like you? Escorts.

I’m going to answer the same for those three questions. I don’t care why you’re seeing me. I don’t care if you’re married. I don’t care if your wife lost her vagina in a tractor accident. That’s your personal life, your private garden, you have your reasons and I will never ask. However, if you’re coming to lose your virginity, I would like to know as it’s a very different experience.

Which clients do you see more by age decade?
40s and 50s by far then 60s

What is the most times a man has seen you in a month? ie: he visited you 3x's a week for a month. It could be weeks or a year.
When I was touring to Ottawa often, a man would always book me every single day I was there. Usually it was 3 days every two weeks.
 
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LC18

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What do you do with your earnings (besides living expenses) ? holidays, investing (stocks, real estate, savings etc), buy clothes/shoes/drugs, cosmetic surgery, family, freeloader family/friends, charities
What do you do with your earnings (besides living expenses) ? holidays, investing (stocks, real estate, savings etc), buy clothes/shoes/drugs, cosmetic surgery, family, freeloader family/friends, charities

After living expenses, I pay off my debts, pay my taxes, put money in my savings and then I spoil myself and my family.
 

brualex33

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What have you learned about sex, or men in general, by being in this biz that you didn't know prior?? I’ve learned that a lot of them will not admit in front of their friends or even on this board that they like to be fingered. They’ll come to my place and ask me to slide one finger or two.

99% of them will say before asking “I’m not gay but…”

There’s nothing gay about it, that’s where your G spot is
Yes please!!
 
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Do you ever see gentlemen when you're on your period or do you take a five day sabbatical?
 

LC18

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Do you ever see gentlemen when you're on your period or do you take a five day sabbatical?
Do you ever see gentlemen when you're on your period or do you take a five day sabbatical? I take well deserved days off. I’ll message the client and let him know. If he says he doesn’t mind then I’ll take necessary precautions and host him anyways.
 
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John_Jacob

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I hope I’m phrasing this in a respectful, neutral way….

How do you reduce the risk of oral STIs? The obvious is refuse service to oozing, festering, smelly men but any other thoughts besides cbj? Is it just periodic testing and hope for the best? How often do you refuse and how does that go? Any good stories?
 

Josephine Grey

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There are never any good stories about taking your fingers and dipping them in your client's smegma to bring it to his nose so he can fully understand why I am not putting my mouth there. I got this idea from a colleague and it's efficient.

I'll stop here. You basically get check and use your head.

Good morning lol sorry for the image.

I hope I’m phrasing this in a respectful, neutral way….

How do you reduce the risk of oral STIs? The obvious is refuse service to oozing, festering, smelly men but any other thoughts besides cbj? Is it just periodic testing and hope for the best? How often do you refuse and how does that go? Any good stories?
 
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Josephine Grey

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There are never any good stories about taking your fingers and dipping them in your client's smegma to bring it to his nose so he can fully understand why I am not putting my mouth there. I got this idea from a colleague and it's efficient.

I'll stop here. You basically get check and use your head.

Good morning lol sorry for the image.
Should I add that we do our best to reduce the risk but this risk, we are taking it together. There is a stigma around swrs that are diagnosed with a sti and go forward with it and you guy will choose to "avoid her" or mention it in her reviews ect. When in fact she is just doing the best for the community and for you. You guys want bbbj, kissing, daty, dato, ps and bbfs or you "pass" and it's not worth your money. So take your responsibility too please. We don't catch sti alone in our room. Let's celebrate the providers that are forward and don't lie about their condition instead of marginalize them.
 

John_Jacob

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Should I add that we do our best to reduce the risk but this risk, we are taking it together. There is a stigma around swrs that are diagnosed with a sti and go forward with it and you guy will choose to "avoid her" or mention it in her reviews ect. When in fact she is just doing the best for the community and for you. You guys want bbbj, kissing, daty, dato, ps and bbfs or you "pass" and it's not worth your money. So take your responsibility too please. We don't catch sti alone in our room. Let's celebrate the providers that are forward and don't lie about their condition instead of marginalize them.
Totally agreed and thus my preface comment about “respectful/neutral”. If I agree to an act, I have agency and I need to take personal responsibility for any of the outcomes of that choice.

This should be common sense but it’s always easier to blame someone/something else, or make up reasons right? Just is.
 
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John_Jacob

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There are never any good stories about taking your fingers and dipping them in your client's smegma to bring it to his nose so he can fully understand why I am not putting my mouth there. I got this idea from a colleague and it's efficient.

I'll stop here. You basically get check and use your head.

Good morning lol sorry for the image.
😂 Interesting image, thanks for that 😆
 
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I will try to get other swer to join this thread. Please ask us all the questions related to this job you’ve always wanted. I and the swer that want to join will try to answer as honestly as possible.

Please no questions about abuse or worst experience.
How big were the largest and smallest dicks you've seen? And is the average really 5 inches?
 

LovelyEnvy

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What percent of clients do you actually get sexually excited with?

And what if anything differentiates them? Looks? Connection? What they do?

Like excited enough that you lose yourself a little, grab them a little too hard, make noises you don’t often make?
I’ll answer this one, I get excited about majority of my clients especially if they’re new ones. I love talking to and meeting new faces which is probably the most exciting thing about this job 🤗
 
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LovelyEnvy

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Do the majority of sp's in the industry genuinely enjoy their line of work and being intimate with different men on an almost daily basis? Or do most look at it as just a "job" to pay the bills?
Great thread idea by the way. I hope it remains active :)
I say that I personally enjoy it a lot
 

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Because of the societal perception and stigmatization of sex work and sex workers, and the inherent negatives that this contributes to, what do you feel you have lost in your life in the pursuit of this career?
What has it cost you, and what have you gained? Beyond monetarily.
 
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Josephine Grey

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Because of the societal perception and stigmatization of sex work and sex workers, and the inherent negatives that this contributes to, what do you feel you have lost in your life in the pursuit of this career?
What has it cost you, and what have you gained? Beyond monetarily.
Lost:
My right to Go to the USA
My American credit card
Could lose bank account at anytime
My right of feeling safe in general
It's also harder to maintain relationships

Gain:
The possibility of being open with my love ones about my work
The work/leisure balance I needed
I work for my dreams and me only
I can spoil the people I love endlessly
 

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ever had sex in public space? what’s your best experience you can recall which stands out among daily routine calls?
 

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Outside of a client bringing you a gift, or giving you a generous tip, or anything else monetary, what have clients done to make themselves and the encounter itself memorable to you?
 
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