Do you ever see gentlemen when you're on your period or do you take a five day sabbatical? I take well deserved days off. I’ll message the client and let him know. If he says he doesn’t mind then I’ll take necessary precautions and host him anyways.Do you ever see gentlemen when you're on your period or do you take a five day sabbatical?
I hope I’m phrasing this in a respectful, neutral way….
How do you reduce the risk of oral STIs? The obvious is refuse service to oozing, festering, smelly men but any other thoughts besides cbj? Is it just periodic testing and hope for the best? How often do you refuse and how does that go? Any good stories?
Should I add that we do our best to reduce the risk but this risk, we are taking it together. There is a stigma around swrs that are diagnosed with a sti and go forward with it and you guy will choose to "avoid her" or mention it in her reviews ect. When in fact she is just doing the best for the community and for you. You guys want bbbj, kissing, daty, dato, ps and bbfs or you "pass" and it's not worth your money. So take your responsibility too please. We don't catch sti alone in our room. Let's celebrate the providers that are forward and don't lie about their condition instead of marginalize them.There are never any good stories about taking your fingers and dipping them in your client's smegma to bring it to his nose so he can fully understand why I am not putting my mouth there. I got this idea from a colleague and it's efficient.
I'll stop here. You basically get check and use your head.
Good morning lol sorry for the image.
How big were the largest and smallest dicks you've seen? And is the average really 5 inches?I will try to get other swer to join this thread. Please ask us all the questions related to this job you’ve always wanted. I and the swer that want to join will try to answer as honestly as possible.
Please no questions about abuse or worst experience.
I’ll answer this one, I get excited about majority of my clients especially if they’re new ones. I love talking to and meeting new faces which is probably the most exciting thing about this jobWhat percent of clients do you actually get sexually excited with?
And what if anything differentiates them? Looks? Connection? What they do?
Like excited enough that you lose yourself a little, grab them a little too hard, make noises you don’t often make?
I say that I personally enjoy it a lotDo the majority of sp's in the industry genuinely enjoy their line of work and being intimate with different men on an almost daily basis? Or do most look at it as just a "job" to pay the bills?
Great thread idea by the way. I hope it remains active![]()
If they match my rhythm and wants during sex then overall yes I do enjoy itDo you ever enjoy the sex?
If so, how often? What made the experience better than other encounters?
Lost:Because of the societal perception and stigmatization of sex work and sex workers, and the inherent negatives that this contributes to, what do you feel you have lost in your life in the pursuit of this career?
What has it cost you, and what have you gained? Beyond monetarily.
OK. I will admit my naivety in advance.Lost:
My right to Go to the USA
My American credit card
Could lose bank account at anytime
My right of feeling safe in general
It's also harder to maintain relationships
Gain:
The possibility of being open with my love ones about my work
The work/leisure balance I needed
I work for my dreams and me only
I can spoil the people I love endlessly
How big were the largest and smallest dicks you've seen? The largest was too big to fit in, he kind of expected it so he wasn’t too disappointed. We did other things. The smallest one, the man brought his own condoms that he had to order online because they don’t sell them in store.How big were the largest and smallest dicks you've seen? And is the average really 5 inches?
ever had sex in public space? Many times but never with a client.ever had sex in public space? what’s your best experience you can recall which stands out among daily routine calls?
omg lol had to reread this twice, as at first read i thought that 4.5-5 inches is the smallest dick lolThe smallest one, the man brought his own condoms that he had to order online because they don’t sell them in store. I’m not good with measurements so I had to pull out my measuring tape and yes, it sounds about right, 4.5-5 inches.
Outside of a client bringing you a gift, or giving you a generous tip, or anything else monetary, what have clients done to make themselves and the encounter itself memorable to you? Someone booked me for 3 hours and we did nothing but talk, drink champagne, spy on the neighbour and tease each other. By the end of our date, all I wanted to do was to give him a BJ. As it had been in my face for 2 hours and more. It was very interesting/refreshing to be teased by a client. Never thought it would happen.Outside of a client bringing you a gift, or giving you a generous tip, or anything else monetary, what have clients done to make themselves and the encounter itself memorable to you?
Because of the societal perception and stigmatization of sex work and sex workers, and the inherent negatives that this contributes to, what do you feel you have lost in your life in the pursuit of this career?
What has it cost you, and what have you gained? Beyond monetarily.
Sesta/Fosta voted by Trump. "If you have been a sex worker within the last 10 yrs, you are not admissible to enter the United State". I got my sex worker ban.OK. I will admit my naivety in advance.
I understand the last 2 on the list of Lost, but I must admit, I'm a little stumped by the first 3. Maybe I'm just dense. If you would enlighten me I would be very grateful.
Why has it cost you your right to go to the USA, or an American credit card? And why would it mean you could loose your bank account at any time?
Please, if this is delving too deep or is too personal I apologize, and of course respect your choice not to answer. Just know that I am genuinely curious and am not just gossip seeking. I am always wanting to better understand what sex workers go through beyond just the time spent with us guys.
If we understand a person's life, we understand them more as a person.
At least that's the way I try to look at things.
Either way, I appreciate your honesty in whatever answers you feel comfortable giving, Amanda.
I am sure that if you communicate your wishes, most can accommodate.It seems i reading reviews that the lingerei usually comes off quickly. Is there a reason for this, and if requested would you leave it on longer? TO some guys (me) looking at and grabbing at a great ass in a thong is a highlight of any sexual encounter.