Sugar Dating Experience

Fornication

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1.So on these sugar sites it is a bit difficult to stay anonymous if you want any sort of luck hooking up with a legit sp. SB's are not going to reply to a guy who has no pics up or doesn't have a complete profile. At least the ones who are legit and not just on the site as sp's. So if you want success you do have to compromise anonymity a bit.
2. I usually use a burner phone when contacting sb's or sp's since I have an SO. Easier to cover your tracks with a separate phone.
3. When I first started on sugar sites it took me almost a month to find a legit sb who I was interested and wanted to meet. Just beware there are a lot of scammers and sp's on these sites so there is abit of a weeding out process which is annoying.
4.Pics that show you are adventurous and social and also pics that will provide a truthful indication if what you look like.
I was thinking, good original photos(not searchable), alias name and phone number hoping to remain anonymous as possible from my SO. That's plan prol has flaws !! LOL
 

Uuoomkin12

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When I had my account active I would keep all my photos private. I would send out messages and many girls would request to see my photos before responding to my initial message. It puts the control in your hands as you can choose who to share photos with. You can also unshare photos if you get a bad vibe.

Theoretically someone could screen shot your pictures after you share so it's not a perfect system, but can help abit with those worrying about being outed.
 

Hipjdog

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When I had my account active I would keep all my photos private. I would send out messages and many girls would request to see my photos before responding to my initial message. It puts the control in your hands as you can choose who to share photos with. You can also unshare photos if you get a bad vibe.

Theoretically someone could screen shot your pictures after you share so it's not a perfect system, but can help abit with those worrying about being outed.
My plan for that has always been to say that my friends created a profile for me as a practical joke.
 

xix

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My plan for that has always been to say that my friends created a profile for me as a practical joke.
And that is how you met TBBT - Amy Farrah Fowler ?
 

reviewmon

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1.So on these sugar sites it is a bit difficult to stay anonymous if you want any sort of luck hooking up with a legit sp. SB's are not going to reply to a guy who has no pics up or doesn't have a complete profile. At least the ones who are legit and not just on the site as sp's. So if you want success you do have to compromise anonymity a bit.
2. I usually use a burner phone when contacting sb's or sp's since I have an SO. Easier to cover your tracks with a separate phone.
3. When I first started on sugar sites it took me almost a month to find a legit sb who I was interested and wanted to meet. Just beware there are a lot of scammers and sp's on these sites so there is abit of a weeding out process which is annoying.
4.Pics that show you are adventurous and social and also pics that will provide a truthful indication if what you look like.
Just be extremely careful. A lot of fraud out there.
 

Fornication

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When I had my account active I would keep all my photos private. I would send out messages and many girls would request to see my photos before responding to my initial message. It puts the control in your hands as you can choose who to share photos with. You can also unshare photos if you get a bad vibe.

Theoretically someone could screen shot your pictures after you share so it's not a perfect system, but can help abit with those worrying about being outed.
To keep images from being searchable on google: 1. Add a watermark 2. Turn the photo horizontal 3. reduce resolution 4. use a filter 5. mentioned here only use the photo for the app that was never online.
 

megatronman

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To keep images from being searchable on google: 1. Add a watermark 2. Turn the photo horizontal 3. reduce resolution 4. use a filter 5. mentioned here only use the photo for the app that was never online.
How do you do the use phot for app that was nebee online.
what do you mean use a filter.
 

Fornication

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How do you do the use phot for app that was nebee online.
what do you mean use a filter.
You can filter via IG before posting, adding a water mark is in the edit function of the iphone, horizontal is available on most photos. Not a techie, just did a google search on untraceable photos.
 

superman12

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Just be extremely careful. A lot of fraud out there.
Yep it's usually each to catch the fraudsters I think. If a girl on this site is asking you for $ upfront before even meeting then it's a big red flag. It's not the same as reputable sp's asking for a deposit.
 
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Hipjdog

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I'll share one disappointing tale:

Was talking to this cute mid-20's Indian girl who splits time between here and Montreal. Eventually
she asked if I wanted to go on a date. I said sure! I tried to ask about PPM and she gave a vague answer
like "I'm open to whatever'. I found her really cute so figured it was worth a shot.

We met up at a pub and it was certainly the girl from the pics. Very cute, though it was clear in our conversation
we didn't have all that much in common. She eventually asked what I wanted, and I said my place was just a block
away, but only if we both wanted that. She said something about having to campaign in the morning (this was during
the mayoral election). I saw her to the subway, we hugged, and I never heard from her again.

*To be clear I paid for our drinks/food but didn't pay for her time.

I guess the lesson here is to make sure both people know what they are there for before you meet up!
 

Hipjdog

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And I'll add a positive one for balance! I've told this one before on here...

Found a very cute 19 year old Asian with a great body. Had good conversation on SA where she
was asking me questions and such. Met up at a pub and got along right away, conversation flowed
easy. She asked for 200 and I agreed, thinking that was more than reasonable. Asked if she wanted to
come over and she said sure!

Got to my apartment and as soon as I shut the door she started kissing me. Great start! I guided her to
my room where she dropped to her knees immediately. We had a great, passionate time that we both enjoyed.
She asked if she could shower after and I said of course. She wanted me to join her and we ended up going at
it in the shower, too. Everyone left happy.

We met up again a month or so later. She was tired from work and sleepy, so in retrospect we probably should have
done this another day. We ended up in the bedroom, which was pretty good. We then watched some Netflix and
she was falling asleep so I gently suggested maybe she should just go home to bed and she agreed.

The second meeting was kind of awkward and I haven't seen her again, but the first meeting was great so I still
consider the whole thing a success.
 

shack

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I'll share one disappointing tale:

Was talking to this cute mid-20's Indian girl who splits time between here and Montreal. Eventually
she asked if I wanted to go on a date. I said sure! I tried to ask about PPM and she gave a vague answer
like "I'm open to whatever'. I found her really cute so figured it was worth a shot.

We met up at a pub and it was certainly the girl from the pics. Very cute, though it was clear in our conversation
we didn't have all that much in common. She eventually asked what I wanted, and I said my place was just a block
away, but only if we both wanted that. She said something about having to campaign in the morning (this was during
the mayoral election). I saw her to the subway, we hugged, and I never heard from her again.

*To be clear I paid for our drinks/food but didn't pay for her time.

I guess the lesson here is to make sure both people know what they are there for before you meet up!
What you can learn about someone else in person is much more than you can online. That's exactly what a meet and greet is for, for both parties to see if there is some chemistry. No expectations of sex and no expectations of allowance.

So you are out a few bucks and a few hours. No big deal. It's like a blind date.
 

Hipjdog

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What you can learn about someone else in person is much more than you can online. That's exactly what a meet and greet is for, for both parties to see if there is some chemistry. No expectations of sex and no expectations of allowance.

So you are out a few bucks and a few hours. No big deal. It's like a blind date.
Agreed yeah. It was worth a try.
 
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karlmarxunite

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And I'll add a positive one for balance! I've told this one before on here...

Found a very cute 19 year old Asian with a great body. Had good conversation on SA where she
was asking me questions and such. Met up at a pub and got along right away, conversation flowed
easy. She asked for 200 and I agreed, thinking that was more than reasonable. Asked if she wanted to
come over and she said sure!

Got to my apartment and as soon as I shut the door she started kissing me. Great start! I guided her to
my room where she dropped to her knees immediately. We had a great, passionate time that we both enjoyed.
She asked if she could shower after and I said of course. She wanted me to join her and we ended up going at
it in the shower, too. Everyone left happy.

We met up again a month or so later. She was tired from work and sleepy, so in retrospect we probably should have
done this another day. We ended up in the bedroom, which was pretty good. We then watched some Netflix and
she was falling asleep so I gently suggested maybe she should just go home to bed and she agreed.

The second meeting was kind of awkward and I haven't seen her again, but the first meeting was great so I still
consider the whole thing a success.
That is amazing.
 

karlmarxunite

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I'll share one disappointing tale:

Was talking to this cute mid-20's Indian girl who splits time between here and Montreal. Eventually
she asked if I wanted to go on a date. I said sure! I tried to ask about PPM and she gave a vague answer
like "I'm open to whatever'. I found her really cute so figured it was worth a shot.

We met up at a pub and it was certainly the girl from the pics. Very cute, though it was clear in our conversation
we didn't have all that much in common. She eventually asked what I wanted, and I said my place was just a block
away, but only if we both wanted that. She said something about having to campaign in the morning (this was during
the mayoral election). I saw her to the subway, we hugged, and I never heard from her again.

*To be clear I paid for our drinks/food but didn't pay for her time.

I guess the lesson here is to make sure both people know what they are there for before you meet up!
What site did you use?
 

Leimonis

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Yep it's usually each to catch the fraudsters I think. If a girl on this site is asking you for $ upfront before even meeting then it's a big red flag. It's not the same as reputable sp's asking for a deposit.
A buddy of mine was asked for money at the meet and greet in a coffee shop in Mississauga before going to her place and he gave it to her. She then ran out with the money and her partner in crime picked her up and drove away.
It's a wild world out there ;)
 
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