Sugar Dating Experience

Hipjdog

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I feel like 500 is the new "good deal" rate. Where back in March, you could get girls at 400 without too much pushback. In some cases I've been able to get girls to agree that the first time in a month is XXX, and then subsequent ones are XX, a few 100 bux less.

But there is definitely a ton of pushback for < 500... except for PPMs for ongoing SRs that have been in place for some time. A lot of girls don't way to say goodbye to that "income".
I'm still relatively new to the SD world. Would you think sex is assumed at that rate and that she agreed to come to my place?
I don't want to pay that rate to just chit chat for a few hours and then she leaves.
 

Fornication

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The photos I post on SA are only for SA and then deleted from my phone. In order to be searched they have to be posted elsewhere. Added security you can make a fake Linkdin profile, then claim someone stole your pics and point to the fake profile as proof. I delete snap when not using it and add it back on as needed.
Do you use a 2nd phone to protect your privacy ? My phone number when searched pulls up my identity. Harder to create an alias with my phone. I'm thinking a 2nd private phone is best.
 

brian4hartley

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I'm still relatively new to the SD world. Would you think sex is assumed at that rate and that she agreed to come to my place?
I don't want to pay that rate to just chit chat for a few hours and then she leaves.
Best way to know... is send her a text and ask her. I like to use the phrase "intimate date". Then see how she responds.
 
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xix

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Do you use a 2nd phone to protect your privacy ? My phone number when searched pulls up my identity. Harder to create an alias with my phone. I'm thinking a 2nd private phone is best.
How did this happen, where or how is it that your info appears?
SO it won't happen to me.
 

Fornication

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How did this happen, where or how is it that your info appears?
SO it won't happen to me.
Do a google search of your mobile. I run my own business with my mobile and when it's search my name and business appears. I NEED a 2nd phone to participate in sugaring.
 

xix

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Best way to know... is send her a text and ask her. I like to use the phrase "intimate date". Then see how she responds.
I like yours I am adding it to my line.

How about.. "you are aware we are going to have Fun!. Right? with intimacy." - not LTR but don't mind FWB.
 

IMBob

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I like yours I am adding it to my line.

How about.. "you are aware we are going to have Fun!. Right? with intimacy." - not LTR but don't mind FWB.
Before bringing up intimacy directly . I send "I hope you enjoy kissing "
 

morningbliss

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I have been super careless in all my endeavors. But I keep my computer and phone locked at all times and nobody knows the password.

That said, I do have a burner phone. It’s $44/mo. It’s with Virgin. I use an old cracked iPhone. And I only use it for this.
That is very very smart. Must be extra careful and not trust these girls.
 

xix

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That is very very smart. Must be extra careful and not trust these girls.
And have it turned off by switch, no sleep mode. You don't want that phone going off when a Telemarketer or a SP calls you while in the car with SO. Then she asks whose phone is that?.
 

xix

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Before bringing up intimacy directly . I send "I hope you enjoy kissing "
Hello, Jane, thank you for contacting me and you are welcome to come over.
"I hope you enjoy kissing ",
you are aware we are going to have Fun!. Right? with intimacy." - not LTR but don't mind FWB.
If you want to talk about Relationship as for example marriage, we can negotiate that too after some fun.
 

shack

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I used to say when setting up a meet and greet at a nearby locale that "I don't pay for a meet and greet as it's an equal opportunity for each of us simply to find out about the other. But if each of us is comfortable and we come back to my place to consummate the arrangement then I will pay the agreed upon allowance."
 

brian4hartley

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I used to say when setting up a meet and greet at a nearby locale that "I don't pay for a meet and greet as it's an equal opportunity for each of us simply to find out about the other. But if each of us is comfortable and we come back to my place to consummate the arrangement then I will pay the agreed upon allowance."
This is pretty good. I'm gonna try it.
 

brian4hartley

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Yeah I’ve started to offer all these clowns $200-300 ppm. Chatted with a friend yesterday (not in this world) and he believes nobody has even $300 cash lying around for sex. Sometimes we forget how rich we are relative to others.

I’ve also found that regardless of the starting ppm amount, girls always ask for more, get greedy, etc. As low as possible is best.

Saw my 400 ppm girl last night was great. But I think I can do better. One hell of a fuck though.
 

Funtimez77

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Yeah I’ve started to offer all these clowns $200-300 ppm. Chatted with a friend yesterday (not in this world) and he believes nobody has even $300 cash lying around for sex. Sometimes we forget how rich we are relative to others.

I’ve also found that regardless of the starting ppm amount, girls always ask for more, get greedy, etc. As low as possible is best.

Saw my 400 ppm girl last night was great. But I think I can do better. One hell of a fuck though.
How long was she with you? If it's a few hours for $400, that's great value for money.
 
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Yeah I’ve started to offer all these clowns $200-300 ppm. Chatted with a friend yesterday (not in this world) and he believes nobody has even $300 cash lying around for sex. Sometimes we forget how rich we are relative to others.

I’ve also found that regardless of the starting ppm amount, girls always ask for more, get greedy, etc. As low as possible is best.

Saw my 400 ppm girl last night was great. But I think I can do better. One hell of a fuck though.
Is there any way you can do review and what type of service you got from this sugar baby.
 
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brian4hartley

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Is there any way you can do review and what type of service you got from this sugar baby.
I did have one girl today agree to $300 ppm. So I guess we'll do a M&G and see how that goes. The rest of the girls I was chatting to just flaked when I suggested a $200-300 ppm. I mean, all you need is 3-4 and that's enough to have some fun in the city.

Honestly it's really hard to review a SB. They're all so different. All comes down to emotional connection and personality. If she's petite, she probably won't do anal because it just doesn't work. If she sees you as an alpha male she'll do just about anything if her body can take it. That's been my experience anyway.

What I like about SB vs. SPs is that with an SB I can build up trust over a few weeks and remove protection. Thanks to Hassle Free Clinic, you can get a full STI testing done in a matter of a week for free.
 
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