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fall

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I'm calling bullshit.

Most guys don't want to recognize or admit to themselves that many, many (probably most, but not all) service provides have issues. People thinking this only means a physical disability are a perfect example. Most "disabilities" service providers have are due to family issues, social issues, substance abuse, lack of love, etc., that result in not insignificant mental health issues.

But guys don't want to deal with any of that shit. Guys want to cum. So you get the "all the girls I see have their heads on straight" bullshit which is really just self-delusion. I'll be the first to admit, hearing a bunch of personal/mental health problems doesn't exactly "set the mood". But I'm also not so ignorant to think these girls all have their heads on straight. It's a small percentage that manage to do sex work and maintain some semblance of a "normal life", despite what girls (or guys) may tell you.

Most guys want little to do with girls who sell their bodies for sex, and the guys that do have their own self-worth issues. Going through life without any relationship (or financial) stability wrecks havoc on a girl's mental health. Some will be open about that, but many don't want to admit it (likely due to feeling judged or shamed) so they tell gullible guys that they're just doing this to put themselves through college, they have a portfolio of properties, they in it for the sex, blah blah blah. If you believe any of that then you need to give your head a shake and wake up.
And I would love to know about these issues so that I will be able to avoid these SPs and book only healthy (body and mind) providers. I doubt though that any SPs would be willing to disclose their problems because it will lead to loss of business. We are not the government, not even the employers - we are the customers. I do care about mental health of SPs but only to the extent that I want to avoid the ones who have problems, and not to try to accommodate their problems. "Be nice to SPs" - I am all for this.
 

lomotil

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Do sex workers receiving social servers declare their cash income, most probable not.
The age demographic that the op mentioned probably have drug overdose as the highest single cause of death, namely Fentanyl unfortunately.
 

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And I would love to know about these issues so that I will be able to avoid these SPs and book only healthy (body and mind) providers. I doubt though that any SPs would be willing to disclose their problems because it will lead to loss of business. We are not the government, not even the employers - we are the customers. I do care about mental health of SPs but only to the extent that I want to avoid the ones who have problems, and not to try to accommodate their problems. "Be nice to SPs" - I am all for this.
There needs to be a new thread relating to mental and physical disabilities of the horny men who see SPs. It will be an interesting read
 
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squeezer

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That sounds like a very broad brush that you're painting with.
Exactly! I've met ladies that will not even have a sip of alcohol let alone drugs and I've met many who will either do one or the other or both.
 

fall

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There needs to be a new thread relating to mental and physical disabilities of the horny men who see SPs. It will be an interesting read
Unless it will imply that SPs should be especially nice to those mentally disabled clients (e.g., with anger problems) and offer them discounts - there is no need for such thread. Let the government and family care for any disability. I so much wish prostitution would be legal and all service provider will have to take medical exam (including psychiatric). Legalized prostitution would have solved so many problems.
 

Mr.Know-It-All

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I'm calling bullshit.

Most guys don't want to recognize or admit to themselves that many, many (probably most, but not all) service provides have issues. People thinking this only means a physical disability are a perfect example. Most "disabilities" service providers have are due to family issues, social issues, substance abuse, lack of love, etc., that result in not insignificant mental health issues.

But guys don't want to deal with any of that shit. Guys want to cum. So you get the "all the girls I see have their heads on straight" bullshit which is really just self-delusion. I'll be the first to admit, hearing a bunch of personal/mental health problems doesn't exactly "set the mood". But I'm also not so ignorant to think these girls all have their heads on straight. It's a small percentage that manage to do sex work and maintain some semblance of a "normal life", despite what girls (or guys) may tell you.

Most guys want little to do with girls who sell their bodies for sex, and the guys that do have their own self-worth issues. Going through life without any relationship (or financial) stability wrecks havoc on a girl's mental health. Some will be open about that, but many don't want to admit it (likely due to feeling judged or shamed) so they tell gullible guys that they're just doing this to put themselves through college, they have a portfolio of properties, they in it for the sex, blah blah blah. If you believe any of that then you need to give your head a shake and wake up.
Everybody on the planet has some type of personal issue. Most people with mental and physical health issues lead ordinary lives and do not escort.

Escorting is a choice. A business choice.
 

oil&gas

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There needs to be a new thread relating to mental and physical disabilities of the horny men who see SPs. It will be an interesting read
Hobbying is at best second only to escorting among social ills and sins.
You can be smart enough to be the next POTUS but dumb enough to have
your career and reputation destroyed by seeing escorts all for scratching
an itch. Reading a thread on hobbyists' issues would require a profound
understanding of the psychology of deviants.

BTW I am not an escort guy but I need holistic treatment
for my stiff muscles.
 

NotADcotor

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I so much wish prostitution would be legal and all service provider will have to take medical exam
I wish they had to take an exam on the evolution of the market economy in the southern colonies. Nothing worse than a girl who spouts off Garrison, Lemon, Wood and Vickers and pawn it off as their own thoughts.
 

y2kmark

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You suggesting we should all stop seeing escorts, then no young person between the ages or 25 and 35 will pass away.
Or just stick to ladies over 35 :p
Most females get by in the world without selling their bodies for sex.
That's a quibble over semantics. All in how you define selling. The statement is usually bullshit...
 

kyleb899

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If they died that young, they probably doing drugs, Im not saying all do but a good number of the do it
 
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kyleb899

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If they died that young, they probably doing drugs, Im not saying all do but a good number of the do it
 
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Most guys want little to do with girls who sell their bodies for sex, and the guys that do have their own self-worth issues.
The irony is that the escorts feel the same towards their customers. I had a friendship with an escort that had very rich customers. She was often telling me how she would like to meet a good guy and settle down. When I suggested one of her rich customers, she told me in no uncertain terms that they were losers and not worthy of consideration. The few boyfriends she had when I knew her were far from my concept of husband material.
 
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