SP told me she loves me and I froze

[DaddySwagBucks]

Was there ever a conclusion to this? OP???

We're seeing each other now, but haven't really labelled it as anything. It's been rough emotionally, but we're both working on it. A bit weird when someone else reviews her on the board so I try not to come on too often. I only come online to message people who dm'ed me; guys who are going through the same situation.

She's still working as an SP. We spend time with each other everyday at my place and we just relax. Our mutual interests keeps us going. We just click. I haven't seen an SP since, so the extra hobby money I save has been going towards my new startup.

 

[Y_Diner]

She loves your money.

 

[JackBurton]

We're seeing each other now, but haven't really labelled it as anything. It's been rough emotionally, but we're both working on it. A bit weird when someone else reviews her on the board so I try not to come on too often. I only come online to message people who dm'ed me; guys who are going through the same situation.

She's still working as an SP. We spend time with each other everyday at my place and we just relax. Our mutual interests keeps us going. We just click. I haven't seen an SP since, so the extra hobby money I save has been going towards my new startup.

She’s boxing you in buddy, with no commitment on her part.

 

[poker]

We're seeing each other now, but haven't really labelled it as anything. It's been rough emotionally, but we're both working on it. A bit weird when someone else reviews her on the board so I try not to come on too often. I only come online to message people who dm'ed me; guys who are going through the same situation.

She's still working as an SP. We spend time with each other everyday at my place and we just relax. Our mutual interests keeps us going. We just click. I haven't seen an SP since, so the extra hobby money I save has been going towards my new startup.

Thank you for the update. I wish you both the best.

 

[Tashki]

She’s boxing you in buddy, with no commitment on her part.

At least he doesn’t have to pay anymore. I wish my favourites stopped charging me and had an interest in me.

I would love to be in his position if the SP looks like a complete bimbo doll pornstar just to try it out.

 

[xmontrealer]

She’s boxing you in buddy, with no commitment on her part.

He says he has chosen to not see other sp's at this time. I wonder whether or not she has imposed that condition as part of their "arrangement"?

 

[HiMileage]

I've been going on a rampage, boarding on addiction lately. For the past few months I've been seeing SPs and MPAs every other day. It's like an itch that doesn't go away. I probably should get help.

Here's the short story and I'm not sure how I feel about it:

There's this SP that I've been seeing once a week. After a hot and sweaty session, she grabbed me and held me tightly. Bit my arm relatively hard and whispered that she loved me. I completely froze. I couldn't think of a single thing to say after that. The thought that she just wants me to be a repeat client more often occurred later that day, but I honestly don't think she meant it that way. I have her number, IG and know where she lives so it's turned into something more than a transaction at that point.

We have great conversation and common interests, but the whole situation just seems awkward to me.

You're reading way to into it. Just fake laugh it off and move on like the rest of us.

Talk to us when she starts texting you at home, or showing up at your local grocery store.

 

[JackBurton]

He says he has chosen to not see other sp's at this time. I wonder whether or not she has imposed that condition as part of their "arrangement"?

Women have been doing this for thousands of years.

Shes stashing him into her back
Pocket as security without offering fidelity in return.

run jr.

 

[Tirgo]

She's in love with your bank account most likely. Anyway, either date her or stop seeing her, it's that simple.

 

[ziprogers]

Been there. More than once. It gets easier after you come to the realization that at some point, this relationship will have to end. Until then, have fun, enjoy the BBFS and engaging conversations. If she's a good cook, that's a super special bonus.

Red flag to keep an eye open for so you can begin your breakup process - she wants you to meet her parents.

Protip on how to begin the breakup - have a threesome with another SP, and then pay her. I know it sounds fucking evil, but it'll become one of those events where both parties agree to the split. No heartbreak. No rebounds. No guilt.

 

[Azria]

I've been going on a rampage, boarding on addiction lately. For the past few months I've been seeing SPs and MPAs every other day. It's like an itch that doesn't go away. I probably should get help.

Here's the short story and I'm not sure how I feel about it:

There's this SP that I've been seeing once a week. After a hot and sweaty session, she grabbed me and held me tightly. Bit my arm relatively hard and whispered that she loved me. I completely froze. I couldn't think of a single thing to say after that. The thought that she just wants me to be a repeat client more often occurred later that day, but I honestly don't think she meant it that way. I have her number, IG and know where she lives so it's turned into something more than a transaction at that point.

We have great conversation and common interests, but the whole situation just seems awkward to me.

Well, I don’t blame you! Isn’t that why clients hire SPs to begin with? To avoid this? You’re owed a refund! jk

 

[thotbreaker]

OP I was in a similar situation. She told me she wanted me to meet her mother and her friends. Started stealing my sweaters after outcalls. It got too much for me, I ended things with her. I did have feelings for her but I wasn’t going to date a girl who was working. Maybe that sounds hypocritical but I don’t want my girlfriend working. Ex worker, sure. Although I know that would come with its own baggage too.

 

[thotbreaker]

Been there. More than once. It gets easier after you come to the realization that at some point, this relationship will have to end. Until then, have fun, enjoy the BBFS and engaging conversations. If she's a good cook, that's a super special bonus.

Red flag to keep an eye open for so you can begin your breakup process - she wants you to meet her parents.

Protip on how to begin the breakup - have a threesome with another SP, and then pay her. I know it sounds fucking evil, but it'll become one of those events where both parties agree to the split. No heartbreak. No rebounds. No guilt.

I wish I read this a long time ago. You’re a genius. A SP really said she wanted you to meet her parents? I thought I was the only one. How do you respond to that? When she said that to me I freaked the fuck out. Feels so wrong to mention your parents in all this. You have sex with strangers for money and this is the backdrop for how you want me to meet them?

 

[Azria]

RIP

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LMAOOOOOOOOOO

 

[Azria]

Everybody come with baggage's my dear. You just have to find the one you can carry.

The only bag I have is a plastic one that floats away empty AF after a session.

 

[Azria]

I wish I read this a long time ago. You’re a genius. A SP really said she wanted you to meet her parents? I thought I was the only one. How do you respond to that? When she said that to me I freaked the fuck out.

Lmaooooooooo! These SPs sound like they’re looking for a future husband instead of engaging in future business. Is it an age thing?

 

[thotbreaker]

Lmaooooooooo! These SPs sound like they’re looking for a future husband instead of engaging in future business. Is it an age thing?

We were similar ages (mid to late 20s) so probably.

 

[Azria]

We were similar ages (mid to late 20s) so probably.

I think that has something to do with it. I’m 40 years old and work with the younger SPs and a lot of them are working but also looking for the partner for life. Business does not mix with pleasure but I guess they figure at least their potential client who becomes a partner won’t judge them? I guess that will be a lesson theyll have to learn on their own. I blame the movie Pretty Woman

 

[richaceg]

Hey even SPs would be looking to settle someday...If you're seeing her once a week...your financials are solid and she feels you're a safe bet...I've seen marriages last long because of this...Women don't settle for love...money is king.

 

[Grist]

Are you using this thread on Terb to test her resolve or to seek approbation? She undoubtedly reads everything here, and I wonder how you explain your willingness to standby while others deride her character and motives. Do you believe that you are treating her with respect? The woman tells you she loves you, and you are broadcasting your misunderstanding of this here before an audience of complete strangers? Does her job exclude her from having feelings and compassion?