At least he doesn’t have to pay anymore. I wish my favourites stopped charging me and had an interest in me.
I would love to be in his position if the SP looks like a complete bimbo doll pornstar just to try it out.
SP told me she loves me and I froze
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I would love to be in his position if the SP looks like a complete bimbo doll pornstar just to try it out.
He says he has chosen to not see other sp's at this time. I wonder whether or not she has imposed that condition as part of their "arrangement"?
You're reading way to into it. Just fake laugh it off and move on like the rest of us.
Talk to us when she starts texting you at home, or showing up at your local grocery store.
Women have been doing this for thousands of years.
Shes stashing him into her back
Pocket as security without offering fidelity in return.
run jr.
Been there. More than once. It gets easier after you come to the realization that at some point, this relationship will have to end. Until then, have fun, enjoy the BBFS and engaging conversations. If she's a good cook, that's a super special bonus.
Red flag to keep an eye open for so you can begin your breakup process - she wants you to meet her parents.
Protip on how to begin the breakup - have a threesome with another SP, and then pay her. I know it sounds fucking evil, but it'll become one of those events where both parties agree to the split. No heartbreak. No rebounds. No guilt.
Red flag to keep an eye open for so you can begin your breakup process - she wants you to meet her parents.
Protip on how to begin the breakup - have a threesome with another SP, and then pay her. I know it sounds fucking evil, but it'll become one of those events where both parties agree to the split. No heartbreak. No rebounds. No guilt.
Well, I don’t blame you! Isn’t that why clients hire SPs to begin with? To avoid this? You’re owed a refund!
jk 
OP I was in a similar situation. She told me she wanted me to meet her mother and her friends. Started stealing my sweaters after outcalls. It got too much for me, I ended things with her. I did have feelings for her but I wasn’t going to date a girl who was working. Maybe that sounds hypocritical but I don’t want my girlfriend working. Ex worker, sure. Although I know that would come with its own baggage too.
I wish I read this a long time ago. You’re a genius. A SP really said she wanted you to meet her parents? I thought I was the only one. How do you respond to that? When she said that to me I freaked the fuck out. Feels so wrong to mention your parents in all this. You have sex with strangers for money and this is the backdrop for how you want me to meet them?
The only bag I have is a plastic one that floats away empty AF after a session.Everybody come with baggage's my dear. You just have to find the one you can carry.
Lmaooooooooo! These SPs sound like they’re looking for a future husband instead of engaging in future business. Is it an age thing?
I think that has something to do with it. I’m 40 years old and work with the younger SPs and a lot of them are working but also looking for the partner for life. Business does not mix with pleasure but I guess they figure at least their potential client who becomes a partner won’t judge them? I guess that will be a lesson theyll have to learn on their own. I blame the movie Pretty Woman
Are you using this thread on Terb to test her resolve or to seek approbation? She undoubtedly reads everything here, and I wonder how you explain your willingness to standby while others deride her character and motives. Do you believe that you are treating her with respect? The woman tells you she loves you, and you are broadcasting your misunderstanding of this here before an audience of complete strangers? Does her job exclude her from having feelings and compassion?
wow, terb is the Wild West, I'm so glad I signed up. what a story.
when clients tell me they love me, I just say "I know" Han Solo style.
I am actually currently dating a man I met as a client, which was breaking one of my cardinal rules but here we are. He'd never ask me to quit my job, just as I'd never ask him to quit his. It's going great. I'm head over heels for him.
when clients tell me they love me, I just say "I know" Han Solo style.
I am actually currently dating a man I met as a client, which was breaking one of my cardinal rules but here we are. He'd never ask me to quit my job, just as I'd never ask him to quit his. It's going great. I'm head over heels for him.
I get it. I honestly really liked this girl and it didn’t help that on the surface we seemed like friends. If anyone asked she could have easily said we went to school together. We even talked about it. Then we added each other on personal social medias and it blurred lines. My fault, I know.I think that has something to do with it. I’m 40 years old and work with the younger SPs and a lot of them are working but also looking for the partner for life. Business does not mix with pleasure but I guess they figure at least their potential client who becomes a partner won’t judge them? I guess that will be a lesson theyll have to learn on their own. I blame the movie Pretty Woman
We don’t talk anymore. I still feel bad about it, because our relationship was “cheapened” to just SP and client, when we actually had so much more.
It wasn’t cheapened
. It was simply a different dynamic. Don’t let other people’s standards affect how you felt. If it was an authentic relationship that was slightly transactional… It was still authentic regardless. I find I have a couple of clients I adore because there’s a certain honesty with that dynamic. I know sometimes it hurts to lose someone but one thing I’ve learned is that everyone really does serve a purpose. If you can learn one thing for me then be happy and use it in your next dynamic. XoIt's been like 6 months since this thread? We still dating. All the mystery and mistrust shit has mostly been communicated. Our secrets are pretty much on the table now and those secrets were huge, because that's the only way this would work out. We know each other families and we got keys to each other's houses. She pays for majority of our time out, I'm leveraged hard financially to make it or break it at this moment. She even offered to support me if shit goes south for me. I got a huge tax bill and she straight up fronted the cash for me. So we trust each other. Our finances are transparent to each other. Fucking feels weird because I know where her cash is from. She doing this as means to an end and I get it, sucks it's this industry, but bills have to be paid. I accept it already. Does it bother me? Yea, of course. Does it bother her? Yea, she's a person too, but we trying to make it work and plan an exit together. Maybe it doesn't work out, maybe it does. At least we're trying 
