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SP told me she loves me and I froze

IM469

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"Forget" to pay one day and see how she reacts...
Who books girlfriends ??? You ask her to dinner - a movie - but not a fuck session. Ask her if you can break the financial arrangements and date as a couple. Don't whimp out on this detail - she may still look at any meeting with you as business.

In this whole sordid little tale did you:

1) tell us you like the idea
2) if you had ever told her you love her
3) how the session ended after you gave her the money - was there any reluctance from her accepting it ?
4) did she suggest anything outside the usual financial arrangements ? Let's get together over coffee, lunch, etc ?
 

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#1. Every other day. That's an addiction. You should talk to someone.

#2. There is no way anyone on this board would honestly know if her lines got blurred (meaning actual feelings).... or she see's you as a mark and figured that's what you wanted to hear.

I have seen guys bled dry by girls playing their emotions, and poof, the girls gone once the money is.

#3. Read #1 again. Seriously. If you have an addiction, you are ripe for the picking.
 

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Well, if she's willing to see you outside work ...might be a indication that she might be other wise you are just a customer.

I went out with many sp's in the past after first encounter, many were leaving me their real info after the session and went back to work and would come back few hours later to spend the night or would cancel the rest of the night to stay with me. But I was younger and worked as a bouncer in strip clubs so they felt safer and thought I respected their line of work I suppose.
 

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Wow, I wish I could afford to see a girl every other day. I also suspect that might have bearing on the matter.
 

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I have said “I love you” to a regular before. During sex and outside of sex. She doesn’t seem to mind because I think she understands why. I also use to have her on IG.

She’s genuinely a really nice person when she’s not in her mood phase. I use to message her that would have nothing to do with booking her and she would respond promptly. She’s like a friend to me.
 

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If her intentions are to keep you as a regular, then saying "I love you" is a risky gambit. If I were in your shoes, and didn't see her as any more than a way to enjoy myself and get my rocks off, her saying "I love you" would likely scare me off. If I was interested in her as a person though, her saying "I love you" would likely result in me asking her out off the clock. Either way, she has lost a regular. Just seems like a losing strategy to me.

I'm not saying that wasn't what she was doing, but I think it more likely she genuinely likes you and she let that slip in the heat of the moment. Or some combination of the two.
 
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So, here's an update. I straight up took her to McDs for some nuggies and walked around near her school before her class. We're pretty much the same age so it's like meeting up with a friend. Not gonna lie, still pretty awkward.

I think my goal is to quit seeing SPs cold turkey for awhile? Haven't really thought this whole thing through.
 
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Why quit???? you can have 3 some with her and another escort if she does not charge you. Good luck.
 

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So, here's an update. I straight up took her to McDs for some nuggies and walked around near her school before her class.
Oh yeah that sounds WAYYY more normal... *lol*. Guessing you're both kinda young and you've got tons of dough.

Pretty sure a LOT of girls will be coming your way - if you've had your fill of women and don't want to see anyone but her, marry her.

But PROBABLY... if you're seeing different escorts almost daily, you MIGHT not be quite ready to settle down... :)
 

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So, here's an update. I straight up took her to McDs for some nuggies and walked around near her school before her class. We're pretty much the same age so it's like meeting up with a friend. Not gonna lie, still pretty awkward.

I think my goal is to quit seeing SPs cold turkey for awhile? Haven't really thought this whole thing through.
Let's pretend there are legit feelings. You prepared to learn just how many other clients she see's to earn a living? Are you going to be paranoid lines don't get blurred with other clients.
 
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Although sometimes this is done in role playing especially if you are getting a GFE. It’s some of these key words that are supposed to turn you on when whispered properly in your ear. Like your cock feels so good inside me or I want you to cum inside me type of key words knowing they don’t actually mean it, it’s just meant to arose and make the experience more intense for both role playing. Just consider it part of the session or play, pay your fee and close the door to the experience. If you enjoyed it repeat and make sure you keep it professional by paying and closing the door at the end. Think of it like S&M but this time it’s taking the GFE a few levels higher. Nothing wrong with this as long as it’s kept professional and you both know how to end and close off the session.
 
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Although sometimes this is done in role playing especially if you are getting a GFE. It’s some of these key words that are supposed to turn you on when whispered properly in your ear. Like your cock feels so good inside me or I want you to cum inside me type of key words knowing they don’t actually mean it, it’s just meant to arose and make the experience more intense for both role playing. Just consider it part of the session or play, pay your fee and close the door to the experience. If you enjoyed it repeat and make sure you keep it professional by paying and closing the door at the end. Think of it like S&M but this time it’s taking the GFE a few levels higher. Nothing wrong with this as long as it’s kept professional and you both know how to end and close off the session.

All true... but they are hanging out outside of play time.
 
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