No after dropping some $5,000 to $40,000 on the event for a lady, not sure I should be paying them to give me their impressions. I had a past provider tell me I should pay them as well. But I get the feeling it is like asking them to send me a thank you email. I guess I feel I am living out their fantasy not sure I should pay for them to give me their perspective. However with that said maybe you are on to something here.
Do you think if I am flying a provider to her bucket list city and covering her expenses that I should pay for her travel time to the airport and on her flight? Then if so should I pay her for prep time? Then should I pay her to pick up the phone or answer my email? Sorry do not want to seem rude but just wondering where it ends. I do not mind paying her for her time with me but I do start to feel like a human ATM after a while with many providers who ask me to pay them extra for smiling at me or asking extra for them to kiss me or laugh at my jokes.
Do you not get requests from companies who's products and services you use to ask for your feedback to improve their services and products. Do you think one should get paid for such requests?
Interesting perspective.
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P1 - There is a difference between a thank you email - which I do and the long novella that “Cinderella” wrote. That “review” takes time as you know. You know the time and effort that is put into writing like that. That was 10 some paragraphs of detailed writing. I have erotic stories. I know.
P2 - the arraignment you make for your “paid” amount would include all her prep time. That is part of what you have paid for. I don’t charge $260/hr for simply an hours work. All that prep work, overhead etc is imbedded in the fee. Post novel reviews are not apart of the “contract” so to speak.
P3 - she is not purchasing your services so it is not at all the same thing and don’t get me started on the amount of “honest” reviews are paid for or supplemented in some way.
I respect you going after what you want but this post-session erotic novel request to boost your ego, and help you relive your fantasy, because really that is what it is, is separate then your paid time. Unless you start to include it in part of your expectations when purchasing services, yes you should be offering to cover that time spent as well. I get you spend tons of money. I personally, and with no disrespect, see you boast and brag about this a lot, however this does not mean that it is now possible to skirt paying for more time spent.
Maybe it is because personally I don’t find your person tastes in escort service to be attractive, I have a flawed and bias opinion. I’m open to that possibility but I don’t care if you spent 100K on the appointment. That was the appointment. You paid and I did the work. After that, more time is paid time.