What’s with all the attitude by SP’s

[Jenesis]

It's like every job unfortunately. Some likes it, other don't. It's exactly like working a regular job. There is a large spectrum of reasons as to why someone will do that. It's not always pink with butterflies.

On the other hand, I gave my body to science last night and posted an ad with Leolist. Only 1 line: Please visit my website for everything you need to know.

I received 20 texts. None of them had a proper intro. Hi... hi are you available?... How much for a quicky?... I want you to be very agressive with my body...Do you offer hh?....

You guys need to step up your game a bit too . I did not book anyone yet, we are 18hrs later. There is no point of being rude for no legitimate reasons. However, if my rent was due and I needed to turn these guys into clientèle, I would definitely be a bit frustrated and maybe, lol maybe at some point someone would get serve!

My ads on LL only have my website and an email with an auto responder which again directs clients to my website.

But I can advertise this way because I don’t need to make 2-4 or more appointments per shift to make ends meet.

I can easily see a guy with a dumb intro getting a frustrated reply if I was answering hundreds of texts per shift.

 

[Josephine Grey]

As an experiment, if you're purposely rude to those who absolutely deserve it, I wonder how long it'll take to show up on TERB.

I don't think these messages deserve a rude answer yet. I will just wait. If they are really interested they will figure it out.

I would not experiment with my name lol but I think if he deserved it, he has nothing to gain by putting it on Terb. Terb's members are not so gullible.

 

[Josephine Grey]

My ads on LL only have my website and an email with an auto responder which again directs clients to my website.

But I can advertise this way because I don’t need to make 2-4 or more appointments per shift to make ends meet.

I can easily see a guy with a dumb intro getting a frustrated reply if I was answering hundreds of texts per shift.

Girl! Screening, not replying ect is a privilege. The girls who turns hi guys into client without going nuts are the real hustlers. It's impossible.

 

[Jenesis]

Girl! Screening, not replying ect is a privilege. The girls who turns hi guys into client without going nuts are the real hustlers. It's impossible.

They should win awards! I agree. The struggle is so real. LOL

 

[rhuarc29]

I see lots of SPs on twitter say if a client isn't going to put effort into their initial contact or makes a mistake and asks a question that is answered in their ad/website, that they eviscerate the guy. I think that's low class. If you're going to reply to be rude, it literally costs nothing more to reply and be polite. Being rude is just childish and unprofessional.

If a client is flatout a dick, I can maybe understand it, but the better course of action is to not antagonize such people.

With both those things said, I absolutely understand a non-response to any of the above: rude, ignorant or low effort. Because it's not worth the time.

 

[Valcazar]

That makes total sense. Your first responses are certainly enough for a lady to make up her mind pretty quickly which avoids wasting anyone’s time.



I call this hobby a man’s mani/pedi.

Women like spa days where we pamper ourselves and this to me is no different then men looking to pamper themselves with a hassle free romp. Lol.

I've never used the mani/pedi analogy, but "it is an indulgence/pampering myself" is how I've usually described it.

 

[Josephine Grey]

I see lots of SPs on twitter say if a client isn't going to put effort into their initial contact or makes a mistake and asks a question that is answered in their ad/website, that they eviscerate the guy. I think that's low class. If you're going to reply to be rude, it literally costs nothing more to reply and be polite. Being rude is just childish and unprofessional.

If a client is flatout a dick, I can maybe understand it, but the better course of action is to not antagonize such people.

With both those things said, I absolutely understand a non-response to any of the above: rude, ignorant or low effort. Because it's not worth the time.

I don't approve this behavior. You create more problems for yourself. Not necessary and the guys you eviscerate may get mad and you dont know who you are dealing with. You may create more problems than solutions.

 

[jalimon]

Most best SP I saw in the last 10 years had an attitude. To do this line of work you need to. They deal with an incredible amount of jerks they need to develop the skills to wave the bad ones fast!

If you have a problem with that revised the way you deal with them or make sure you see real escort and not the bait/switch ones.

Once I am about 20 minutes into a session with an SP and I mention the name of a girl from the same agency I last saw... Saying she was great... The girl turned around and yelled at me "If you mention the name of that girl again I take your money and kick your ass out of the room! Is that clear??". Good lord I needed a few seconds but then I just laughed and just said "Ok ok I promised never to mention about her or any other girl I got that. Now can I continue to fuck you little bitch?". She started to laugh... After the session we ended up in a restaurant where she flashed her tits to the whole kitchen crew

 

[Tashki]

It was the most humiliating moment of my life when the cleaning staff found me in the morning tied to a chair. I am such an idiot.

How did this happen?

 

[GGGDickson]

How did this happen?

I had called an agency I had used before and they sent me a lady. The only problem when she arrived she had a guy by the door. When i opened the door he pushed his way in. She told me he was there to collect the fee. I gave it to him then he sucker punched me. Before I could get my feet they were both on me. He slapped me around as she kicked me. I gave them my wallet. They had me strip down butt naked. They tied me to the chair. They took my luggage, and my clothes. They left me there.

The morning the room service found me when they came into the room. They had maxed my credit cards. It was humiliating. Not my finest moment. They disappeared.

 

[Tashki]

I had called an agency I had used before and they sent me a lady. The only problem when she arrived she had a guy by the door. When i opened the door he pushed his way in. She told me he was there to collect the fee. I gave it to him then he sucker punched me. Before I could get my feet they were both on me. He slapped me around as she kicked me. I gave them my wallet. They had me strip down butt naked. They tied me to the chair. They took my luggage, and my clothes. They left me there.

The morning the room service found me when they came into the room. They had maxed my credit cards. It was humiliating. Not my finest moment. They disappeared.

This happened at a hotel? There was no security or something? No witnesses? I’m sure if you screamed people would have heard you. That’s unacceptable. I’m sorry this happened. That agency should be held accountable.

 

[GGGDickson]

This happened at a hotel? There was no security or something? No witnesses? I’m sure if you screamed people would have heard you. That’s unacceptable. I’m sorry this happened. That agency should be held accountable.

This happened years ago in a hotel in the southern US. It was before security keys to get up to the rooms. In those days we were discreet and it was common for ladies to come up to the room. I thought nothing of it. I am not much of a screamer and I did not want anyone to know I was with a prostitute. They gagged me before they left. The hotel wanted to call the police but I was embarrassed and I did not want the publicity nor did they. I had stayed at the hotel many times so management agreed to keep it quiet.

I did contact the agency and they were upset with the fact they had hired the girl. She was new. She was beautiful but it is not that they criminal checks. She had only be there less than a month. They never heard from her again either. She had disappeared that night and they never heard from her again. They offered to give me back the money I gave her as a donation. Needless to say I never used them again.

I have had the old bait and switch done on me. I had girls who came up to the room to get the money and tell me they need to give it to their driver but never come back. I have had girls who after getting paid tell me kissing is extra, touching her boobs is extra etc... but this was the first time I got mugged in my room by a hooker. I think i then move away from not doing in calls for concern over my environment. I then started to meet in public for meet and greets. Yet I still saw thousands of escorts with no issues. it was one bad apple. It did not cause me to give up apples.

 

[mandrill]

I see lots of SPs on twitter say if a client isn't going to put effort into their initial contact or makes a mistake and asks a question that is answered in their ad/website, that they eviscerate the guy. I think that's low class. If you're going to reply to be rude, it literally costs nothing more to reply and be polite. Being rude is just childish and unprofessional.

If a client is flatout a dick, I can maybe understand it, but the better course of action is to not antagonize such people.

With both those things said, I absolutely understand a non-response to any of the above: rude, ignorant or low effort. Because it's not worth the time.

Mixed feelings on this stuff. We all know that time-wasters and "You avail in 30?" guys drive escorts crazy. The ladies have 100% my sympathy.

OTOH there's clearly a culture on Twitter - and I presume private boards - where the women really go overboard about these frustrations and project misbehavior on ALL clients. There are now dozens of "escort anon" accounts where the girls involved joke about how sweet they are in their "client facing accounts" in order to get business. These same girls then deride and disparage clients as a whole in these "anon" accounts where they use a different name. There was a recent Twitter thread where these girls dissed clients for dozens of posts using the theme "men are too stupid to even find our condo units". It's actually pretty difficult to find a condo unit / parking the first time through. I always allow extra time for my new clients. But the women clearly thought this was a sign of general stupidity among men and clients in general.

There are girls who have never been near a review board who announce that all review boards are "oppression of women". There is an escort who openly advocates blackmailing clients in her Twitter threads and who has plenty of cheerleaders.

Some of the contempt is quite open and very unattractive. And that's why many of these women now post this stuff in anon accounts.

 

[GGGDickson]

Mixed feelings on this stuff. We all know that time-wasters and "You avail in 30?" guys drive escorts crazy. The ladies have 100% my sympathy.

OTOH there's clearly a culture on Twitter - and I presume private boards - where the women really go overboard about these frustrations and project misbehavior on ALL clients. There are now dozens of "escort anon" accounts where the girls involved joke about how sweet they are in their "client facing accounts" in order to get business. These same girls then deride and disparage clients as a whole in these "anon" accounts where they use a different name. There was a recent Twitter thread where these girls dissed clients for dozens of posts using the theme "men are too stupid to even find our condo units". It's actually pretty difficult to find a condo unit / parking the first time through. I always allow extra time for my new clients. But the women clearly thought this was a sign of general stupidity among men and clients in general.

There are girls who have never been near a review board who announce that all review boards are "oppression of women". There is an escort who openly advocates blackmailing clients in her Twitter threads and who has plenty of cheerleaders.

Some of the contempt is quite open and very unattractive. And that's why many of these women now post this stuff in anon accounts.

I hear you mandrill,

I know ladies who take my money then attack me. I have tried to put in place a '360' recollection where I want them to tell me about her experience with me. I really want to know what she liked about the date and what she does not like. Some give me an honest assessment other sugar coat it in hope of future dates and some attack me. Each is unique. I had one who after I put on a special event attacked me. Got me kicked off a board because her 'boyfriend' was a mod. Then a few months later she tells me she wanted to meet me for coffee at no charge.

LOL I use to have a number of providers who would get lost in my fuck hotel even though I had a private entrance. So I either met them in the lobby or outside to bring them up. I even hired other providers to meet them and bring them up. So it goes both ways.

It is not easy being a provider and my heart goes out to them. Yet there are a few bad apples just as there are a lot of bad dates out there. Although I try not to be one many ladies will tell you I am a lot of work. But then again I paid top dollar.

 

[Jenesis]

I hear you mandrill,

I know ladies who take my money then attack me. I have tried to put in place a '360' recollection where I want them to tell me about her experience with me. I really want to know what she liked about the date and what she does not like. Some give me an honest assessment other sugar coat it in hope of future dates and some attack me. Each is unique. I had one who after I put on a special event attacked me. Got me kicked off a board because her 'boyfriend' was a mod. Then a few months later she tells me she wanted to meet me for coffee at no charge.

LOL I use to have a number of providers who would get lost in my fuck hotel even though I had a private entrance. So I either met them in the lobby or outside to bring them up. I even hired other providers to meet them and bring them up. So it goes both ways.

It is not easy being a provider and my heart goes out to them. Yet there are a few bad apples just as there are a lot of bad dates out there. Although I try not to be one many ladies will tell you I am a lot of work. But then again I paid top dollar.

Wait?!?! Question because I don’t want to be confused.

You write out one of your “stories”, send it to her and then want her to reply back in kind about her experience? Did I get that right?

 

[Akila Besos]

Girl! Screening, not replying ect is a privilege. The girls who turns hi guys into client without going nuts are the real hustlers. It's impossible.

Not gonna lie being a mom has made me hella patient when it comes down to the hi guys.

I engage in the conversation because sometimes they need that extra little push

 

[mandrill]

Not gonna lie being a mom has made me hella patient when it comes down to the hi guys.
I engage in the conversation because sometimes they need that extra little push

A certain % of the "Hi" guys are potential clients. They just want to create some kind of connection w the lady to feel comfortable and enticed to actually see her. They're the guys who fixate about "what if she's a total bitch when I see her?" and who want to convince themselves that the girl is pleasant and "likes" the customer before making the arrangements.

Other "Hi" guys are just Twitter idiots who live in their moms' basements and want to make conversation w a hot girl for a couple of minutes a day without ever buying the product.

 

[Josephine Grey]

A certain % of the "Hi" guys are potential clients. They just want to create some kind of connection w the lady to feel comfortable and enticed to actually see her. They're the guys who fixate about "what if she's a total bitch when I see her?" and who want to convince themselves that the girl is pleasant and "likes" the customer before making the arrangements.

Other "Hi" guys are just Twitter idiots who live in their moms' basements and want to make conversation w a hot girl for a couple of minutes a day without ever buying the product.

Hi guys are referred here by guys who simply book by : Hi or hey or are you available.

What you are referring to are "reply guys" lol.

 

[Jenesis]

Not gonna lie being a mom has made me hella patient when it comes down to the hi guys.

I engage in the conversation because sometimes they need that extra little push

I can see this. And those who have language issues, the “hi” might be the intro they have learned.

It is just sad that other bad apples have made it hard on everyone.

 

[TorontoPlayer88]

This thread is not surprising given the posts that I have observed here on TERB. Manage and handle your own drama/attitude.

If you can't then strongly reconsider another profession or hobby.