Don’t think you are being rude at all. Many of us have had bad experiences too (hence the thousands of TERB members and survival of this board for > 20y). Sure, we pay for a brief bit of companionship and intimacy (or not so brief in your case!) but more importantly a complete and utter absence of hassle. If you are like me, I do this to de-stress. A girl I can do that with will see me again. If there is a hassle at all, and causes me more stress, defeats the purpose.
What’s with all the attitude by SP’s
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Thanks massman. I do not want to be considered rude. Yea have we all seen bad dates show up. Thus the need to meet in public. At least I do not need to worry about being beat up and robbed by her and her boyfriend. It was the most humiliating moment of my life when the cleaning staff found me in the morning tied to a chair. I am such an idiot.
I totally agree with you. I do it to destress to celebrate my little successes and to over come rejections or defeat. I love a good elimidate to rebuild my ego at times. Something about three providers seducing me so I pick one. Oh yea. Once this pandemic is over I might need another elimidate.
Wow, THAT is a bad date. Sorry to hear that happened to you. Worst I think I’ve had is poor/rushed service or a girl that was drunk. Those experiences have taught me to stick with reputable providers, that’s what TERB has helped me with. I’m so fortunate to never have had my physical safety compromised. (Other than one girl who was a bit too enthusiastic orally and left me with a bruised
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Respect goes both ways. I approach every encounter being neutral, not overly nice or like a rude asshole. But when I'm paying, and a girl is a cunt through text. Why would I fork over a few hundred dollars? And I don't care nor should anyone about what another client may have said or did to you. I'm not that client, I don't deserve what that other client might. Clients don't need extra problems or stress.
Its usually the younger crowd, high volume and out of it anyways (drunk, high etc.). Professionals have a good sense of customer service, despite the all the retards they encounter.
Its usually the younger crowd, high volume and out of it anyways (drunk, high etc.). Professionals have a good sense of customer service, despite the all the retards they encounter.
Agree with you that if someone is outright rude by text, for no reason, I move on. Don’t waste any more time/ emotional energy on it.
That makes total sense. Your first responses are certainly enough for a lady to make up her mind pretty quickly which avoids wasting anyone’s time.
I call this hobby a man’s mani/pedi.
Women like spa days where we pamper ourselves and this to me is no different then men looking to pamper themselves with a hassle free romp. Lol.
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I wouldn't say its usual the younger crowd because any person can behave in that manner.
The only time I will have my patience gone is when someone tries to bargain with me or expects me to be readily available to their needs 24/7.
I would also like to say sure people may come to work high or whatnot but perhaps it could be to help them mellow out?
I dont drink nor smoke unless its for a social gathering tbh
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Mans mani/pedi
Never thought of it like that but maybe i shall
Now if its a mani/pedi maybe i should ask them what colour they wish to have done
Requests for the date. It's why I require multiple hours. However I prefer Shakespeare. What can I say, I love the Klingon classics.
I prefer science questions like,
Prove how a witch weighs as much as a duck.
, maybe it was this:
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Guess what…a lot of Sexworkers don’t actually like this job or their clients that much and they just do it for the money and to be their own boss. When you consider this fact, most of their behaviour makes perfect sense.
An African or European swallow?
It's odd that the OP hasn't come back to clarify. I'm betting he was nowhere near concise enough in his opening text, which is likely why he got the response he did. Don't be a time-waster & you'll get on just fine.
It's like every job unfortunately. Some likes it, other don't. It's exactly like working a regular job. There is a large spectrum of reasons as to why someone will do that. It's not always pink with butterflies.
On the other hand, I gave my body to science last night and posted an ad with Leolist. Only 1 line: Please visit my website for everything you need to know.
I received 20 texts. None of them had a proper intro. Hi... hi are you available?... How much for a quicky?... I want you to be very agressive with my body...Do you offer hh?....
You guys need to step up your game a bit too
. I did not book anyone yet, we are 18hrs later. There is no point of being rude for no legitimate reasons. However, if my rent was due and I needed to turn these guys into clientèle, I would definitely be a bit frustrated and maybe, lol maybe at some point someone would get serve! 
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As an experiment, if you're purposely rude to those who absolutely deserve it, I wonder how long it'll take to show up on TERB.It's like every job unfortunately. Some likes it, other don't. It's exactly like working a regular job. There is a large spectrum of reasons as to why someone will do that. It's not always pink with butterflies.
On the other hand, I gave my body to science last night and posted an ad with Leolist. Only 1 line: Please visit my website for everything you need to know.
I received 20 texts. None of them had a proper intro. Hi... hi are you available?... How much for a quicky?... I want you to be very agressive with my body...Do you offer hh?....
You guys need to step up your game a bit too
