Are Single Moms Worth Your Time?

Starstrike

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Is this actually true? I know only one guy who dated a single mother and eventually adopted her kid as his own. They divorced and he's on the hook for child support (or another man's child)... The adopted kid actually lives with him and his new wife and multiple children from his second marriage. The adopted kid is black in a family of snowflake white kids. We give that dude (and his new wife) respect. Adopted kid is collectively "ours" for family functions.
It's definitely true, under Canadian law you don't even have to be married to become responsible for child support payments, as long as you were cohabitating for a certain period of time. Also, why is he paying child support if the kid lives with him? I personally don't respect that lifestyle, not for me. I never want kids and if I did I'd want my own not some other guy's.
 

oil&gas

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Dating a lesbian single mom may be less of an issue.
I mean if the kid can only be the offspring of one of the
parents anyway.
 

curr3n_c1000

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I have no faith in humanity anymore. This thread absolutely turned me lesbian.
You may joke but I know a few SM that have gone gay.

One even went full blown dyke. short hair, bullnose ring, tats. The works.

The female mind is so fragile.
 

oakvilleguy

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I don’t get it. Does it mean all the expectations for the single mom all of a sudden disappear if she becomes a lesbian or are women partners more understanding when it comes to playing second fiddle when the child needs attention?
 
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curr3n_c1000

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I don’t get it. Does it mean all the expectations for the single mom all of a sudden disappear if she becomes a lesbian or are women partners more understanding when it comes to playing second fiddle when the child needs attention?
Never try to make sense out of a woman's actions. It's a riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma.
 
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Akila Besos

In general females are more understanding in all senses especially when it involves kids. A female isn't gonna just walk away from a possible partner just because they have kids. We understand kids come first. But honestly the amount of negative SM comments certain men leave is something else....they are basically saying a SM is like the plague and anyone who inteacts with her will get infected.

By god most SM arent asking you to be a damn father figure to their children...if a man wants to do it then so be it. Hell my sister is a SM and it wasnt by choice, she had to make the call to end the relationship and save my niece and herself from a terrible situation.
 
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Akila Besos

Women are so lucky... They always have the lesbian option.
And more and more are we tempted to just settle into a relationship with our own sex. Sides a females sexuality is fluid and can vary based on emotional, mental and physcial attraction to someone. Woohoo for being a female
 
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oil&gas

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A single dad who has given up on dating single women has
the option of dating single gay men? Not an easy change
of lifestyle.
 
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mandrill

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Given my current age group, it would be "single grandma's" and no........
 
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Jasmina

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Nothing fragile about not putting up with bullshit. This thread screams incel. There is some much hatred towards women it is baffling.

You may joke but I know a few SM that have gone gay.

One even went full blown dyke. short hair, bullnose ring, tats. The works.

The female mind is so fragile.
 
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Jasmina

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You keep saying "second fiddle" like she has to make a choice. That's ridiculous. Do you honestly not see how unhealthy that is?



I don’t get it. Does it mean all the expectations for the single mom all of a sudden disappear if she becomes a lesbian or are women partners more understanding when it comes to playing second fiddle when the child needs attention?
 
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Tomoreno

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I'm not quite sure why kids are referred to as baggage.

And no one is asking or forcing men into any kind of relationship with SM.

It's like putting rain boots on and complaining that they're not as comfortable as running shoes when jogging.
 

ExoticSpirit

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Based on all the negative comments posted I think
the most hopeful match for a single mom would be
a single dad.
I agree with this. I'm not a dad and I don't think I'll ever be able to appreciate all the things that single parents go through so they would be the best matches for each other.
 

ExoticSpirit

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Given my current age group, it would be "single grandma's" and no........
Well yeah I and I bet many other guys here are getting there too. I have an ex-neighbour who just became a grandma and she still looks pretty hot at 61 (works out all the time). But she also expects all potential men in her dating life to be around for her family functions. Shit, I'm not so sure if having to spend hours trapped in a house with her adult kids (and their families) plus a new screaming baby is worth tolerating just to be able to tap this hot granny's ass. This example is not uncommon out there which is too bad for us in the late boomer age.
 

curr3n_c1000

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Nothing fragile about not putting up with bullshit. This thread screams incel. There is some much hatred towards women it is baffling.
So you'd go gay because you're frustrated or because you think it's the best choice for your child?

Trust me, I've had this conversation many times. I know what I'm seeing and talking about.

Most guys in here are probably incels, true.

But come on, you want a man to make a life altering decision in 30 days or less? WTF!!!
 
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