Are Single Moms Worth Your Time?

[doggyorcg]

PLEASE READ THIS TO GET PERSPECTIVE:

Single Moms and Dating: Exactly What to Know

Solo parents deserve a private life, too.

www.oprahmag.com

Jesus! Oprah Magazine!! Skimmed it. Actually got tired reading the meandering sentences. No wonder there are so many single moms. Author makes no mention about how a single mom can become a better girlfriend; such as, get fit, grow hair longer, get psychological counselling (clean out the batshit in the belfry), and show the prospective boyfriend how great a cook (homemaker) she is. Basically, play up what men really are attracted to for LTR's.

As we have seen in this thread, guys are easy to snag with the right bait. Oprah is selling single mothers short. If Oprah focused a little on improving the quality of the product, the product will have its pick of the customer.

Oprah and her employees are a scourge on the planet.

 

[Tomoreno]

Jesus! Oprah Magazine!! Skimmed it. Actually got tired reading the meandering sentences. No wonder there are so many single moms. Author makes no mention about how a single mom can become a better girlfriend; such as, get fit, grow hair longer, get psychological counselling (clean out the batshit in the belfry), and show the prospective boyfriend how great a cook (homemaker) she is. Basically, play up what men really are attracted to for LTR's.

As we have seen in this thread, guys are easy to snag with the right bait. Oprah is selling single mothers short. If Oprah focused a little on improving the quality of the product, the product will have its pick of the customer.

Oprah and her employees are a scourge on the planet.

This SAME article educates guys on how to deal with a single mom. Yep, not the same beast as a single hornie.

 

[Spunky1]

What would a 4 year old call you, hi Steve or hi Mr Smith, or her kid of any age? Wouldn't be dad i guess.

If they call you dad the first time you meet RUN

 

[probyn]

Guys, do not get involved with single moms.

 

[Spunky1]

I was starting to see a single mom and recently threw in the towel. All she ever talks about is court dates, lawyer meetings and custody battles with the ex. She's hot but that only goes so far. Done

 

[probyn]

You guys should follow this guy on Youtube

 

[doggyorcg]

Guys, do not get involved with single moms.

Rich Cooper is based. Excellent advice. Thanks @probyn for sharing.

 

[Goodoer]

You guys should follow this guy on Youtube

Meh... There are some tidbits there, but he's a salesman.

Using Baseball analogies:
1. If you follow this guy's advice, you're a base hitter,
2. If you ignore this guy's advice, you're swinging for the fences... Striking out a lot, but you might crush a homer.

 

[Butler1000]

Again, it would seem the baggage seems to be on the men. Some men had bad experiences (and it sounds like unrealistic expectations to be "everything" to their GF which is nuts) and thus all single mothers are a risk? This sounds incel-ish. Women are not the enemy, mothers or otherwise.

Are women with jobs or friends also a bad idea because they cant drop everything on whim when you want them?

Should we also be barefoot and in the kitchen?

You are projecting.

I'm in a happy relationship right now. My hobby times are occasional and spur of the moment. And all on me. There is no reason I do it other than hedonism.

And I do about 90% of the cooking in the house. As well as half the housework. Don't ever project a fake misogyny claim on me. We will leave it at that.

And yes men have baggage. We are human. But the point is a man has to make a decision if he wants to that walk that fine line with a single mom. And its a tough one. Its about taking on responsibility without power or control to affect things. They can if they are not careful end up a wallet and a punching bag. And the courts can come after them as well.

Would I ever expect to be catered too? Certainly not. But by the same token I don't want to have to have my schedule run by another Man's child. I want it up to two adults and thats it.

And there is nothing wrong with that.

 

[oil&gas]

I was starting to see a single mom and recently threw in the towel. All she ever talks about is court dates, lawyer meetings and custody battles with the ex. She's hot but that only goes so far. Done

A recently divorced single mom who couldn't wait to date
before matters are settled? Not a good sign.

 

[NiceToMeetYou]

Personally, I don't think they are worth your time. My main reason is that their pussies are no longer tight as girls / women who have never had a baby. I dated a civilian girl and had sessions with SPs who have kid(s), I didn't feel much in their pussies because theirs are no longer tight from delivering a baby in the past. Also, their child(ren) are their highest priority but their men / dates. If her teenager son / daughter called her to come home, the mom would quickly drop whatever she was doing with me and went home to see her son / daughter. So to me, it is not worth.

Finding a single girl / woman is the best thing for you.

 

[Goodoer]

Personally, I don't think they are worth your time. My main reason is that their pussies are no longer tight as girls / women who have never had a baby. I dated a civilian girl and had sessions with SPs who have kid(s), I didn't feel much in their pussies because theirs are no longer tight from delivering a baby in the past. Also, their child(ren) are their highest priority but their men / dates. If her teenager(s) son / daughter called her to come home, the mom would quickly drop whatever she was doing with me and went home to see her son / daughter. So to me, it is not worth.

Finding a single girl / woman is the best thing for you.

1. Your #1 reason to not date a single mother is the "tightness" of her pussy...
2. When are kids ever #2 to an adult?

By your metrics, you should never get married.

 

[NiceToMeetYou]

And if the relationship doesn't work out the kid will be damaged by it. And no normal man wants that on his conscious.

No shortage of single women out there. They wears signs.

Sign 1: if you see a thirty-something woman walking her piece of shit mini dog (well groomed) on a Saturday or Sunday morning near condos, odds are she is single. If she was in a relationship, either the guy would be walking the shitter or she wouldn't need this lame excuse for a "surrogate child". If she is walking a big dog, she likely has someone helping her and is not single.

Sign 2: if you see a woman buying a cup of coffee by herself on a Saturday or Sunday morning, odds are she is single or about to become single. If she was in a stable relationship she would be having coffee with her man.

Awesome, I like your observation lol.

I will start to hang out around condo buildings and coffee shop on a Sat or Sun morning to find a single girl....

 

[NiceToMeetYou]

1. Your #1 reason to not date a single mother is the "tightness" of her pussy...
2. When are kids ever #2 to an adult?

By your metrics, you should never get married.

Yes, you are absolute correct. In all my adult years till my current boomer years, I've never got married and I've never wanted one.

 

[Goodoer]

Yes, you are absolute correct. In all my adult years till my current boomer years, I've never got married and I've never wanted one.

Actually, respect to you then. You know yourself and are true to yourself (and others).

 

[rogerdodger]

Well that's it - from the time you meet a single mom, have some fun then she wants you to get more serious with her kids, etc., is it a complete waste of time since you'll have to bail out anyway? I'm just asking ,,,, hopefully some guys have already been through this cycle and advise the rest of us who haven't.

Well I can guess it could be put this way. You find out that single mom has no income and nor resources. You bang her anyway. Then you find out her house smells of cat urine and her three other duaghters have zero career path ( living at home ) and the other son living at home was working at a high end restarant that was also shut down . So basically they become a needy dead end. Is that what you are lookimg for ? if you waant to become a social worrker ?

 

[Jasmina]

I have no faith in humanity anymore. This thread absolutely turned me lesbian.

 

[Starstrike]

I have no faith in humanity anymore. This thread absolutely turned me lesbian.

It's best to rip that bandage off early. Humanity is worthless, I view other people solely as tools to further my own ends.

 

[Starstrike]

It seems that the majority of single (nonSP) women out there over the age of 35 or 40 are single moms. Do you guys think they are worth your time? I heard they are hungry for sex but then again over time they want you to get involved with their kids so I don't know if they are worth the trouble. But it would be great to get feedback from those who have extensive experience dating single moms for their input.

Run, don't walk! Single mothers are cancer. Why would you waste your time and money on some other man's spawn instead of your own, assuming you want any? Furthermore, as others have pointed out, you become financially and emotionally liable for her kids' wellbeing if you decide to move in together. Noooo thanks!

 

[Goodoer]

Run, don't walk! Single mothers are cancer. Why would you waste your time and money on some other man's spawn instead of your own, assuming you want any? Furthermore, as others have pointed out, you become financially and emotionally liable for her kids' wellbeing if you decide to move in together. Noooo thanks!

Is this actually true? I know only one guy who dated a single mother and eventually adopted her kid as his own. They divorced and he's on the hook for child support (or another man's child)... The adopted kid actually lives with him and his new wife and multiple children from his second marriage. The adopted kid is black in a family of snowflake white kids. We give that dude (and his new wife) respect. Adopted kid is collectively "ours" for family functions.