Are Single Moms Worth Your Time?
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I dated a single mom sort of like this years ago and it was easy since her 20 year old son didn't even live in the same province as us so I never met him. It was just a fun three months. But I think this type of single mom might be rare. I have a friend who is a single mom with two boys in their 20s and doesn't even live with her anymore. So I had a frank talk with her about her expectations of men in regards to her two adult boys. I wanted to know if she would be able to keep a relationship with a guy completely separate from her life as a mom to two adult kids and she said no. She indicated that any man she dates on a more serious level is expected to spend time with her and the two adult kids whenever they get together on long weekends and other holidays, ie., the brutal family gathering. If her boys get married, yes you are expected to be there along with her ex = awkward! I have a feeling that although things might be less complicated when a single mom has adult kids, their expectations to have you included in their family life is the same. Maybe less frequent since their adult kids have their own lives too but still I'm not seeing many single moms who can or want to have relationships totally separate from their continuing family lives.
Yes and that's why the hobby is so much easier with less drama associated with the single moms scene, at least from what I've heard so far.From everything I've read the big picture looks like this:
- men need to pay
- women have to look good and provide sex
Hm... where else have I heard that?
Good for you for having that talk. Sounds like she was honest and you could dip out gracefully.
It all depends on what You are looking for.
If just sex - SPs are a way better choice. You know exactly what you're in for.
I personally want emotions, connection, drama if must be. Not many other things make you feel so alive. Knowing I have other options and variety helps.
Yes but it sucks to think that this might very well be the case for the vast majority of single moms out there whether their kids are school age or adult age. Would be nice to have another segment (in addition to SPs) just to have non-committed fun. Met many single moms who started out as friends and they wonder why I never pull the trigger with them but when they finally realize that I have no interest in spending any time with their kids (school age or adult age), they give me the cold shoulder and don't even want to be friends with me anymore. This suggests that these single moms were only interested in full relationships that include their kids or nothing else.
Its coming from experience. Both my own and friends who went in as well.
Lots of guys can handle it. Even want it. That's great. But the OP is asking about our experiences. So he can choose to go in or not. There is nothing wrong with the overall tone and opinions here because they are truth. Harsh at times. But truth.
Many of my Single mom friends did go on to find lasting relationships with good guys. Some with blended families. Good for them too.
But lets face in in an escort site its about the sex oh say 99% of the time? So the baggage matters.
Precisely. It is never about how much a guy makes. It is about how much he has available to share. If his $150K+ salary is eaten up by alimony and child support, he has no value to offer to a new woman. In other words, he is sidelined from the dating market until his kids finish College/University (no more child support).
I think the best strategy for a guy with kids contemplating divorce is to offer the ex-wife a lump sum alimony payment. Don't give her half the value of the house, give her the whole fucking house, lock stock and barrel. (She will be drooling incessantly about it.)
Yes it is going to sting a lot. And will take years to recover financially. But new wealth you build will be all yours. And you will once again be back in the game.
Yes it is going to sting a lot. And will take years to recover financially. But new wealth you build will be all yours. And you will once again be back in the game.
Easy Answer: No fault divorce.
Use to be really difficult to get a divorce. Had to show cause. Real causes. Not made up feelings. Now it is easier for her than breaking lease on an apartment. And there is a pot of gold at the end: she gets alimony and child support. Sounds more like an incentive program for divorcing.
but what is your single mom is J LO ? 
would you tap it and keep it like alex rodriguez
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would you tap it and keep it like alex rodriguez
Jennifer Lopez flaunts her famous derriere in a very cheeky one piece
J. Lo's time in the gym seemed well worth it as she turned around to flash her tan, toned booty and lean legs in the Brazilian cut swimsuit.
Not sure why there's so much resentment.
It sounds like all married women want is to get a divorce and take all money. You're painting a very dark picture.
I know women who'll die for their husbands. Will care for them no matter the circumstances. Will not abandon a man if he can't provide for whatever reason.
There's good and bad in this world. I'd like to think there's more good than bad.
Also, don't forget about Law of Attraction. You'll find what you seek.
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I think the resentment stems from fact that nobody truly wins after divorce. We were taught that no fault divorce was going to free us from relationships that didn't make us happy; when in fact is just made everyone unhappier. (Even the unmarried people thinking about marriage are now worried; because there is little downside or penalty for her failing to keep her commitment vows.)
Yes, no one should be forced to stay in a marriage where there is abuse; but, divorcing because you just aren't happy all the time (like characters in a TV show) is not a valid reason to divorce. For those that think it is, just look at number of male suicides after divorce, number of divorced people abusing illegal and legal drugs, the fucked up kids from divorce and general discontentment of divorced people. Most people that divorce eventually regret it. But like all precious things in life, one you break it it near impossible to fix it.
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Match.com, eHarmony.com
Please be cautious. A vasectomy is recommended before going raw. Unless of course she is slim with big tits.
The SB sites are fraught with fakes and scams, but wading through it can be done. If you look through all the threads here Seeking seems to provide the most success, and SDM has also been recommended. That is of course if you are looking for a financial arrangement (and we are on a sex industry focused site here so I'm assuming you aren't opposed to paying for sex?) If you want an actual relationship the dating sites are your best bet.
An other caution. Professional SP's take testing very seriously, don't assume that a SB / hookup looks after her health as well. Always play safe.
I tried Match.com for three months as a paid member and still dabbling on Bumble, OKCupid and Plenty of Fish. I can report that despite my profile settings which indicate that I'm looking for women without kids, I still get bombarded with single mom profiles. And most of the messages I get are from single moms too. So I cancelled my Match subscription and spending less time on the others since there are so many single moms there. So you'll find tons of them there!
I would love to fck a single mom - never had the opportunity. With no strings of course.
