Guys: Do you talk to strange women in public?
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Be careful to who you approach, poor guy was accused of Sexual Harassment after he Says "Hello"
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=783_1475285772
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Interesting article that relates to this topic.
http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2016/10/the-unbearable-exhaustion-of-dating-apps/505184/
http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2016/10/the-unbearable-exhaustion-of-dating-apps/505184/
My female friends always say they wish Canadian men would approached them the way men approach them in Europe.
And if you did, you'd likely get tazed. :rofl:
And if you did, you'd likely get tazed. :rofl:
I don't know. I'll go back to my point about just being friendly and making small talk with many people. If you do that, some will turn out to be single women.
Many won't. If you are just being yourself and joking with lots of people you won't have to flee the store when you tell a joke to IM469's S.O., you can joke with him too when he walks over and all have a better day with a small laugh, because you weren't trying to score, you were just being funny.
Here's the thing, once you are talking the rest will take care of itself. It's saying hello that's the hard part. After that there's nothing you are really going to do to influence the outcome.
If she is happily attached you aren't going to "game" her into bed. If she doesn't think you are attractive or she didn't like your joke you aren't going to get there either. If she's single and thinks you are her type then after "hello" she's going to make it easy for you anyway.
At the end of the day "game" just means learning how to break the ice without being a total creep. After that it's about whether or not she'd swipe right and whether she's even looking.
If you are talking to everyone you will have enough interactions with women to create some opportunities. If you are talking to no one, well, hopefully you look good enough that tinder works out for you.
I was told a few years ago, but never tried. ... Italian grocery store chains in Vaughan... dress well, go late morning weekdays and push a cart around with a cucumber or zucchini in your cart.... the lonely housewives will bump your carts then rock yoyr world.....
based on how often women are raped or sexually assualted in Canada it would be no surprise if the stats for harrassment are at least equally high if not higher.
In my experience, women who are in the process of shopping are interested in just one thing......
Shopping.
Women love shopping more than anything in the world. They love shopping a LOT more than they love cock and do not want to be disturbed by some pervie guy when they are engaged in their favourite past time who thinks she's interested in him. She's not.
Men on the other hand think of pussy all the time and read sex into everything. Witness this thread. The reality of that cucumber isn't what you would like it to be, it's that she's making a salad for dinner and it's an ingredient in that salad. That's it, that's all.
You want to piss off a woman, just get in her way when she's shopping.
Women (unlike men) pick their times and places when they are looking to score and shopping typically isn't one of them.
Shopping.
Women love shopping more than anything in the world. They love shopping a LOT more than they love cock and do not want to be disturbed by some pervie guy when they are engaged in their favourite past time who thinks she's interested in him. She's not.
Men on the other hand think of pussy all the time and read sex into everything. Witness this thread. The reality of that cucumber isn't what you would like it to be, it's that she's making a salad for dinner and it's an ingredient in that salad. That's it, that's all.
You want to piss off a woman, just get in her way when she's shopping.
Women (unlike men) pick their times and places when they are looking to score and shopping typically isn't one of them.
I don't enjoy shopping. I dislike shopping. I find too many people are running around looking for things, it's too crowded and the lines are brutal. I enjoy shopping when it is quiet, but then I don't say, "shopping is fun," I think using the veggies, meats, fruits, etc., when I arrive home and cook, I find that more rewarding than stepping into a store.
I would love for someone to stop me and ask me a ridiculous question about food or why I have choose X food or have a certain brand that you've never seen before. I wouldn't find it intrusive at all, to others maybe.
Never take me into WalMart. The atmosphere in WalMart turns my mood upside down. There is this vibe the moment you walk into WalMart that makes you want to walk right out.
I do score when I am shopping. I look for the deals and save money. Not looking to walk in and score a handsome man but however if that were to occur by all means, I have scored a lovely deal. :first:
I enjoy grocery shopping a lot. Not so much into clothes shopping and trying things on. I find it tedious and annoying because everything is always so big on me.
I find it annoying if a man hits on me in a shopping mall. But I could spend all afternoon in a good supermarket....
I like my brie & cucumber sandwiches.
I don't know why but I love grocery shopping. I even enjoy doing it when I am in other countries as well. Perhaps it has to do with people watching or seeing different kind of foods )I enjoy cooking).I enjoy grocery shopping a lot. Not so much into clothes shopping and trying things on. I find it tedious and annoying because everything is always so big on me.
But I could spend all afternoon in a good supermarket....
I like my brie & cucumber sandwiches.
Yes, I really enjoy cooking so I love grocery shopping because it's part of the whole experience.
If you didn't speak to women you didn't know then how else would you meet them?
Opening a door, sharing an umbrella, joining up in a drink or small meal so neither has to sit alone, a joint shopping venture spurred on by the request of an opinion, identical arrival of both people at vehicles parked next to each other...you see where I'm going here? The potential quantity of scenarios is absolutely endless!
Don't be shy or nervous about though. This is an absolute turn off to women. They want to be intrigued and enticed into knowing about you. Be calm, subtle and confident. You'll be surprised how many women are looking forward to being spoken to and having a good conversation with an interesting man. Give her a reason to be curious about you.
Once that interest is piqued, desire and sexual attraction present themselves all too easily.
Opening a door, sharing an umbrella, joining up in a drink or small meal so neither has to sit alone, a joint shopping venture spurred on by the request of an opinion, identical arrival of both people at vehicles parked next to each other...you see where I'm going here? The potential quantity of scenarios is absolutely endless!
Don't be shy or nervous about though. This is an absolute turn off to women. They want to be intrigued and enticed into knowing about you. Be calm, subtle and confident. You'll be surprised how many women are looking forward to being spoken to and having a good conversation with an interesting man. Give her a reason to be curious about you.
Once that interest is piqued, desire and sexual attraction present themselves all too easily.
Right on Don. You need to invent a reason for conversation then go from there
Even though it is usually nothing more than a quick thankyou I love opening doors for women (even a gentleman for that matter)
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/06/08/opening-door-for-woman/
Any single women at the Opera to chat up during intermission ?
How about a bus trip to Stratford for singles ? Does such a bus trip exist?
