Over the years, there are easily half a dozen industry women who have met family or friends (but not my mom, lol) at certain social gatherings when they were my date. We have a cover story of course, but people don't really pry too much as they respect me and are polite.
Would you marry an SP?
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Over the years, there are easily half a dozen industry women who have met family or friends (but not my mom, lol) at certain social gatherings when they were my date. We have a cover story of course, but people don't really pry too much as they respect me and are polite.
I don't get you at all. Why are you telling your parents, friends or kids anything? How many times do you tell the story of how you met? Once? You share what you are doing now that you are together.
Sorry if this seems rude but have you had many long term relationships or are you just a big sharer type?
I've been twice married and have had several long term relationships. Trust me, history is highly relevant in many first gen immigrant families. No fucking way I could marry and SP knowing she was an SP and keep it a secret from my family. That would be the same as lying to them in my view.
Why are you still here?
Any sp who works her way through university did not gazelle her way through- they worked damn hard for their money as much as anyone else. The idea that someone who borrowed to go to school appreciates it more than someone who worked to pay for it is so ludicrous it sets a new standard for stupidity on this board.
I would appreciate it if you kept your low down yellow bellied socially inept ignorant comments to yourself or leave the board.
Sorry Frank, Teach is right. If any relationship is going to work, and I'm talking Even in business, it has to based on honesty. Other wise you are looking at disaster.What lie are you referring to? If it's how you met, here's a newsflash... SP's actually meet men when they're not working!!! I've dated an SP (who was a PhD candidate, btw), and dancer (yes, that type of dancer). I met the dancer in my MBA classI don't see why what she chose to do to get herself through school is anyone else's business?
You might be able to think you can keep juggling, but in the long run, well just think about that for a minute.
What was dishonest, exactly? We met at school. No one knew that she was working, so the topic never came up. No juggling necessary.
What lie are you referring to? If it's how you met, here's a newsflash... SP's actually meet men when they're not working!!! I've dated an SP (who was a PhD candidate, btw), and dancer (yes, that type of dancer). I met the dancer in my MBA class
I don't know your situation so my question is why should we single out escorts ?? Its in any relationship between men and women. Where in the past it was less transparent.
You never lied to your family? Do you tell them about this hobby?
Signed curious at the farm
Yes if you mean honesty within the couple but if you stretch that to include everyone you know I disagree- I would never share all that happens with me and the wife with anyone else. Its for us
There are far too many ignorant and judgmental posts in this thread.
In response to some, yes we all lie to certain people in life, that keeps thing manageable. However, when in a committed relationship, either be monogamous or honest about who you see "in your spare time". Whether it's paid or not. Just be honest. Not saying if you meet someone on the street you're interested in, open up with "hey by the way I pay for sex often", or "hey by the way, I sleep with a lot of guys". But if it's a serious relationship, openness.
And for those of you who think marriage is impossible these days, just be positive. It CAN work. And yes that's coming from the mouth of someone who has a lot of married customers. Yay optimism.
In response to some, yes we all lie to certain people in life, that keeps thing manageable. However, when in a committed relationship, either be monogamous or honest about who you see "in your spare time". Whether it's paid or not. Just be honest. Not saying if you meet someone on the street you're interested in, open up with "hey by the way I pay for sex often", or "hey by the way, I sleep with a lot of guys". But if it's a serious relationship, openness.
And for those of you who think marriage is impossible these days, just be positive. It CAN work. And yes that's coming from the mouth of someone who has a lot of married customers. Yay optimism.
I don't discuss either unless asked, and I'm very seldom asked.... but if asked, I am honest without supplying lots of details, again unless futher interrogated.
I think there are more useful positive opinions on here vs. ignorant posts. Unfortunately the negative and ignorant ones always seem to be getting most attention and response and reactions.There are far too many ignorant and judgmental posts in this thread.
In response to some, yes we all lie to certain people in life, that keeps thing manageable. However, when in a committed relationship, either be monogamous or honest about who you see "in your spare time". Whether it's paid or not. Just be honest. Not saying if you meet someone on the street you're interested in, open up with "hey by the way I pay for sex often", or "hey by the way, I sleep with a lot of guys". But if it's a serious relationship, openness.
And for those of you who think marriage is impossible these days, just be positive. It CAN work. And yes that's coming from the mouth of someone who has a lot of married customers. Yay optimism.
I think we will never be completely honest in anything we do, including our selves even in awesome relationships, let's be honest here
I think the most important part is the love, intentions and putting the other person ahead of you even if that means being dishonest to yourself and the other person. IMO it is about figuring out how to best manage your emotions and feelings including sometimes dealing with them on your own when other people just can not and should not know because it will do more harm then good.
Let's face it if it was possible for majority to be this honest we'd all be saints or yogi bears singing cumbayass
There's definitely more positive opinions, and I agree...the negative gets the attention.
And in terms of being completely honest with an SO, I think it IS possible. You just have to have the right one. And keep your details to a minimum unless asked.
I want to be a Yogi bear.
And in terms of being completely honest with an SO, I think it IS possible. You just have to have the right one. And keep your details to a minimum unless asked.
I want to be a Yogi bear.
I think there are more useful positive opinions on here vs. ignorant posts. Unfortunately the negative and ignorant ones always seem to be getting most attention and response and reactions.
I think we will never be completely honest in anything we do, including our selves even in awesome relationships, let's be honest here
I think the most important part is the love, intentions and putting the other person ahead of you even if that means being dishonest to yourself and the other person. IMO it is about figuring out how to best manage your emotions and feelings including sometimes dealing with them on your own when other people just can not and should not know because it will do more harm then good.
Let's face it if it was possible for majority to be this honest we'd all be saints or yogi bears singing cumbayass
So you agree that you lie to your family to protect yourself but you wouldn't do that for the woman you love?
