best friend is dating an SP I saw but he doesnt know she escorts
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Then leave her alone. It's none of your business. How do you know that your friends does not know what she does for a living? It's people like you that keep bringing a bad stigma to these ladies
+1. Best post I've read on Terb in quite some time.
The OP's internal conflict, regarding whether to 'out' the SP or not, is rooted in his flawed belief (likely subliminal) that SPs can't go on to have normal, fulfilling long term/ marital relationship.
I sincerely hope that karma strikes him, if he does out her. Perhaps in the form of a 'friend' disclosing to his future partner or kids that he was a hobbiest.
Aforementioned friend's justification: ....that OP's hobby-ing past disqualifies him as a suitable partner or father. Poetic justice for the simple minded!
It's none of your fucking business.
She's a human being and she's entitled to a bit of happiness and a personal relationship. Ditto your friend.
I find it really rich a guy who pays for sex judging a woman who sells sex.
She's a human being and she's entitled to a bit of happiness and a personal relationship. Ditto your friend.
I find it really rich a guy who pays for sex judging a woman who sells sex.
The conundrum is that you also owe your best friend something. The OP isn't the only one who will recognize this woman, does he want his friend to get blindsided at a party by some jerk with it?
Everybody rightly talks about SP privacy but he isn't proposing to out her to just any random person she had a relationship with and he isn't really judging her either.
Which is why I think he talks to her, he can say "My friend is a great guy and I am glad he found someone like you. I just want to make sure you are honest with him."
That way she can find the right time and place to tell him, and not just let him get blindsided one day at a party by some drunk former client of hers.
Everybody rightly talks about SP privacy but he isn't proposing to out her to just any random person she had a relationship with and he isn't really judging her either.
Which is why I think he talks to her, he can say "My friend is a great guy and I am glad he found someone like you. I just want to make sure you are honest with him."
That way she can find the right time and place to tell him, and not just let him get blindsided one day at a party by some drunk former client of hers.
It all depends what your definition of a best friend happens to be. My best friend( of over 40 years) is like a brother to me. It would never even cross my mind to NOT discuss the situation with him.
Very bad move... discretion should above all, be held at the HIGHEST regard. For all involved.
A quiet (AND DISCREET!) glance, should be the ONLY form of acknowledgement ever, when running into a fellow member of this hobby by accident.
To the OP, mind your own business for now. If it gets serious, then maybe you should let him know privately.
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That's what I was thinking. It is possible that he does know.
Maybe he knows but doesn't know that you know and you know but don't know that he knows.
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Ending up with someone else's leavings is hardly lucky
More pitiful
When an average terb user meets an sp we all know she is nothing more than a sperm receptacle
He is stuck with trying to get over the thousands of guys she slept with for money
Heh, you know, you might be on to something here.Maybe he knows but doesn't know that you know and you know but don't know that he knows.
Make sure you post in the future when the reverse happens to you. You're out with your wife, Girlfriend, mother, sister when an SP you've seen in the past approaches you "with no problem saying hi"
See how you like it.
Idiot.
Addendum to above. You're not just an idiot, you're a creep and a freakshow and an idiot.
Severely due for a banning.
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