I agree - possible with a former SP, don't think so with an active SP. I do know some who do have significant others who were OK with the SP's gig. I know i have blurted out to an sp 'oh if I was 20 years younger and a lot better looking and ran into you in some social event I would seriously ask you out." But thanks to this board i have had the chance to meet a great number of really wonderful human beings - smart, beautiful, interesting women whose company I adore, beyond the physical. And that will have to do, and that to me is part of the business, and that is what separates the truly great sp's from the also-rans. They can both be just as good looking, but it is the mind and soul that separate.
would any of you guys marry an SP?
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Its like any other relationship, we trust each other, we go out on dates often, we stay at each others place but are not totally living together. There are no plans to get married, I was married for a long time and she has always been single. Don't want to get married and Wreck the way we are!
I would not see any provider that has a SO. Its just wrong. As of late, I discontinued a relationship with a certain sp after finding out she had fallen in luv.
Why? Because if I truly respected her, I would be doing her injustice, if I continued seeing her. JMTs
It's only extra when she asks for more...sometimes girls just want to kick with some clients + have a good time and should not be judged as providing the "extras" or that type of girl...if you think this does not happen you are only lying to yourself and happens for many of them, they just know how to keep their mouth shut...MPAs are like everybody else and just like to kick it sometimes and have a good time with certain clients they like or chose to do more with...I still would not consider them the "extras" type. Only if she whips out the secret menu would I agree that she provides extras and is in the SP level but I still would not judge. You will never know what goes on inside those compartmentalizations of hers....it is true when they say that a womans heart is as big as the ocean and we are merely just a drop.
If I was not married I would date MPAs given the knoweledge and experience I now have with industry. I would not run away from a marriage opportunity if it was there given she decided to quit the business on her own because if she chooses you that means you are more then just a drop in her ocean of drops...I agree that the indusrty women would be best marriage material becuase they know how to read guys well, their emotional intelligence is off the chart high and most importantly they know the power and importance of being loyal from dealing with all of us married loser schmucks
If I was not married I would date MPAs given the knoweledge and experience I now have with industry. I would not run away from a marriage opportunity if it was there given she decided to quit the business on her own because if she chooses you that means you are more then just a drop in her ocean of drops...I agree that the indusrty women would be best marriage material becuase they know how to read guys well, their emotional intelligence is off the chart high and most importantly they know the power and importance of being loyal from dealing with all of us married loser schmucks
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I thought most if not all already have one (or more). Do you mean ones who openly tell you that they have a SO?
Lmao! Good point. Yet....
Im reminded of an ex-MPA who was quite adamant. She said she would never date/marry a lawyer, banker or basically any white collar professional. She didn't trust them. I guess she had formed a certain opinion of the, through her job. Lol
I do not know you personally so not sure if I am correct fully and maybe you have had bad experiences, while I have no idea. I agree with what your saying, but I think maybe it is not always the case xo
This is correct, it is when you are charged for extras. I had fs in a strip club, was only charged for the song. They wanted to do it, there was no transaction for that extra service. But if you feel that a menu MPA or dancer is not a hoe, that is your opinion, mine is different. They are just lying to you and themselves.It's only extra when she asks for more...sometimes girls just want to kick with some clients + have a good time and should not be judged as providing the "extras" or that type of girl...if you think this does not happen you are only lying to yourself and happens for many of them, they just know how to keep their mouth shut...MPAs are like everybody else and just like to kick it sometimes and have a good time with certain clients they like or chose to do more with...I still would not consider them the "extras" type. Only if she whips out the secret menu would I agree that she provides extras and is in the SP level but I still would not judge. You will never know what goes on inside those compartmentalizations of hers....it is true when they say that a womans heart is as big as the ocean and we are merely just a drop.
If I was not married I would date MPAs given the knoweledge and experience I now have with industry. I would not run away from a marriage opportunity if it was there given she decided to quit the business on her own because if she chooses you that means you are more then just a drop in her ocean of drops...I agree that the indusrty women would be best marriage material becuase they know how to read guys well, their emotional intelligence is off the chart high and most importantly they know the power and importance of being loyal from dealing with all of us married loser schmucks
It wouldn't work marrying a Sp. Especially if she's still working. Now a dancer or mpa is different. Of course they would have to retire. It's a long shot.It wouldn't work out and chances are it would be a very rare situation if it did work out.
Why you have to marry? It's best staying as great friends.
I guess that is one of the best ways an industry girl, MPA or SC, can show you that she appreciates you especially when it is a total surprise...one time I had a really good session and the girl threw everything into the mix that I could ever possibly want or imagine and the session was great. After the session I always ask whats my damage and she's like don't worry about it its nothing I had a good time...this really fucked me up cuase of my code to always pay even if just the session...still gave her the session fee after a little convincing but that gesture was priceless and the feeling that hit me once she did it was priceless and will never forget her or it.
If you judge them then look at us we are just the same then and hoeing our selves and being intimate with others even though we have faded love at home due to our doing or lack of doing. Subconsciously we all judge, I say if you are prepared to judge them openly like this then look at yourself and judge yourself with equal weights...you will see we are not that much different.
If you judge them then look at us we are just the same then and hoeing our selves and being intimate with others even though we have faded love at home due to our doing or lack of doing. Subconsciously we all judge, I say if you are prepared to judge them openly like this then look at yourself and judge yourself with equal weights...you will see we are not that much different.
A now retired SP (I assume retired since she is never on here anymore)once stated that she would never date a guy who sees SP's,but she feels it's ok if she is a SP and bangs guys all day. She didn't seem to think it was wrong for her but no way was he allowed to see SP's. Very strange ideas came from her head.
She started her career as an escort,then wanted a sugar daddy,then finished off only doing massages.
She started her career as an escort,then wanted a sugar daddy,then finished off only doing massages.
Many of these women have genuinely been in the profession to put themselves through Universities and I know of one who is even now a Cardiologist in a hospital in the USA. She was originally from Europe and had started as a dancer here and later worked in a MP. She doesn't regret doing what she did, and yes if I had an opportunity to marry her, I would have done so in a heartbeat. She is a pure gem and women like these just make an ass of the nonsensical C36.
That is the way I roll, I am fine with people judging me. Just like me the code there are lines, money for so service is just one of mine.
Okay, but are you still fine with yourself once you judge yourself with the same judgement criteria you place onto them. Others judging you or any of us is irellevant and has no effect unless you come from the weak breed, its you judging yourself and being fine with the person you perceive once you apply the same criteria you apply onto them. Why the double standard I ask myself and others many times to refine my thought process.
Wow, that eliminates the large majority of providers. SPs are no different than other women, as they are in general extremely attractive they are very likely to have an SO.
SPs routinely actively lie & mislead on this, and there is a good argument that they should. The image is part of what we pay for, nobody's fooling anybody.
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