would any of you guys marry an SP?
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Once a hoe, always a hoe. You hopefully know the woman that you are marrying, so I wouldn't be with someone that provides "extras" I would image it would be tough getting together with someone outside of the business. At what point does she tell you, when you read about it on the internet. LOL that is not trust, openness or anything sembling a good relationship.
As for the second, that is up to the two people involved, since a SP doesn't look at what she does as an act of love. For the male it would only be ok if she didn't look at it like it was an act of cheating. Between you and me, not too many women would see it that way, I have come to understand that the hard way.
I don't think most of you know what marriage is! If you marry an SP you may as well commit suicide!
Most likely in a former-SP/former-client relationship it will be the former-SP who has a problem, not the former client.
The conversation that kills the relationship may include "but I did it as a job, for the money, you did those things because you like it, you actually spent money on it" and "how can it believe you aren't still doing it" (every SP knows the majority of her clients are married). Call it hypocritical but people are hypocritical when it comes to sex. Lots of women who are willing to work as an SP would not accept a husband who uses them (even if while working as an SP they entertain the concept, for a lot of women, it will eventually eat away at them.)
The conversation that kills the relationship may include "but I did it as a job, for the money, you did those things because you like it, you actually spent money on it" and "how can it believe you aren't still doing it" (every SP knows the majority of her clients are married). Call it hypocritical but people are hypocritical when it comes to sex. Lots of women who are willing to work as an SP would not accept a husband who uses them (even if while working as an SP they entertain the concept, for a lot of women, it will eventually eat away at them.)
I know of a few sps that got married and met as client and sp ……they are still married…… anythings possible if you have an open mind
Yup, most industry girls look down at their customer as mating material. Many men who say they would be alright with an industry girl only look at it on a superficial level. Until you've been there done that it is hard to say. People meet for all kinds of reasons and one of them may start as a client-customers
Not trying to disagree OG, but I don't know of any working marriage that does not require us being completely open and honest.
My current choice for my next wife is a SP. We have strong feeling for each other, get together as often as I can skip out off the clock so to speak. Kind of like back dating, I bring her things that I notice she needs, take her out for meals, give her money for food for her self and her cats. At the present time, we both want to be together when I become free.
Why does it even matter if she is a SP? I thought it was about her attributes, personality, heart, character, your chemistry? Why are we so quick to judge, play the stigma card? It's like a girl saying "should I only marry a lawyer?"
We are all humans and equal. I dunno that's what I think.
We are all humans and equal. I dunno that's what I think.
I think it has more to do with the nature of "her work" as opposed to the actual "job"
I'd say lawyers dont fuck their clients...BUT..LOL.not gonna go there!!
I know of a few ladies who are in committed relationships who are still in the "biz"..some will have a specific menu item that they will not do with Clients....she SAVES that item for her S/O...
Some have open marriages...i.e swingers..
My girlfriend is a former SP. We met as a client / provider thing. We started dating while she was still active in the business, trust me it was very hard. As Marla mentioned, I thought of all the things she "Might" have been doing with her clients, your imagination does run a little wild. Anyway she has since retired and we are still together after 4 1/2 years.
If you believe that is even remotely the same thing I think its time you find a new job. Should I only marry a lawyer or should I marry an escort? Seriously...you really think its even close to being the same?
I wouldn't be able to date an active SP, let alone marry one.
A relationship with a former SP is something I can see myself getting into, but that's a pipe dream.
A relationship with a former SP is something I can see myself getting into, but that's a pipe dream.
Many of the providers I've met are no different than civie girls emotionally, both have the same needs and wants,
In fact I'd go as far as saying that some of the providers I've met are more experienced in this than civies.
So yea why not develop a closer relationship, if the opportunity presented itself.
Maturity and understanding, is of the utmost importance here.
In fact I'd go as far as saying that some of the providers I've met are more experienced in this than civies.
So yea why not develop a closer relationship, if the opportunity presented itself.
Maturity and understanding, is of the utmost importance here.
