Are you fucking shitting me? Have you picked up a magazine lately? Turned on a TV? Watched a movie? Walked down the street with a friend who was BBW/BBM? Fat shaming is as rampant as ever, Society does not accept that average at all.
Actually I've known Jess quite a while and I can tell you she doesn't take issue with "walking down the street" with those she considers her friends. Regardless of their size and shape. If you make the effort to be healthy she will applaud your effort.
I understand where you are coming from. I've been what our society considers a BBW once upon a time. I am certainly not what people picture when they think of slender... You need get over the thin skin you have which is related to your perceived size. In these parts it is fodder for the masses.
You must have realized the reason you get away without paying for advertising and still get clients from here via pm is none other than the size of your assets. BBW may be a publicly dismissed body type at times but there is no disputing that many of the members like a bit of cushion at times. They just don't want one who whines about it publicly.
I'm hypothyroid. I should weight a lot more than I do... but I've found my system. I exercise all the time, so I get hungry easily, but all I eat is lean protein and carbs... very limited gluten, sugar, dairy, starch. I happen to really love those foods so it's no effort.
Jess you know we eat similarly. It works for both of us. It keeps you lean and trim at your height, and me curvy and exactly as I prefer at my height. It really is ideal for many people.
Though we share the same weaknesses. It has been too long since we last went out! Miss ya!
I read a news story a couple of years ago which basically said the average 30 year old American woman today weighs 25 pounds more than her mother did at the same age.
I weigh more than 25 lbs above my mothers weight at my age. I am also 6 inches taller. Of course I weigh more than she does. We wear the same size though.
It's not so much that you are fat but where you are fat. Many fat women have fat bums and thighs which is less concerning than fat abdomens.
This is my problem. I carry all of mine in those places and it drives me crazy!