Lend your advice please.
- Thread starter Nathan Drake
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LOL. That's the best you got? Damn. You got me.
Adults can be selfish. Surely we can agree on that.
You said it wouldn't be adult behaviour to keep escorting career private, then you later said you'd understand if she would.
You can't have it both ways.
Understanding why someone takes a certain position doesn't mean you agree with them.
Now, now...play nice
Your point about SPs having insight on men is very true. That's why I value and enjoy my friendships with such ladies. They have provided invaluable advice in some difficult circumstances.
btw, about being a village idiot...I've been known to wear the cone hat from time to time.
My guess is that there would be a double standard. Didn't one guy say 'bros before hoes'?
So he's a good friend and knows his whole family. That's the important issue for me as I like to honour, protect and back up my friends.
I don't want to hurt the lady , so first thing I do would be to contact her and see what's the deal and go from there. All that matters is that the friend knows, I'm not saying that he needs to leave her , but he has to know.
Their insight is that men are all pervs and skunks that cheat on our wives and girlfriends and value sex more than a few hundred bucks. They have us nailed!Now, now...play nice
Your point about SPs having insight on men is very true. That's why I value and enjoy my friendships with such ladies. They have provided invaluable advice in some difficult circumstances.
btw, about being a village idiot...I've been known to wear the cone hat from time to time.
Many are more intelligent than I am, no idea if most are.
They have far more at stake so they've thought long and hard about these issues. They have stronger feelings and are less likely to back down. Most can't be fully expressive on here because that's bad for business so we're only seeing the tip of the iceberg.
Well that is a quantum leap over logic into an imagined scenario. I have a problem with a GF being an active SP without telling her boyfriend and you think I have a problem with all women ? Are you implying that all women are SP's but only a handful of their SO know about it ? You actually think when your GF is an active SP and you don't know about it - it is a an insignificant detail ?
Pardon my French but WTF are you talking about ????? The only reason that I would say anything is if my friend's GF is an active SP that he doesn't know about. I don't care if he knows and likes to date an active SP or a lawyer, social worker or a guy. I'm protecting a friend - period.
And you think women who are turning tricks behind a BF's back is a dream relationship for guys ?
yea you are really good at throwing irrelevant things around. if your girlfrend had a one night stand with some one else guess what, she cheated on you. feelings and the enjoyment of sex doesnt matter if someone is in the belief that they are in a monogamous relationship. period. you keep struggling with this as usual. you call this guy a hypocrite you dont even know if he has ever hired an sp ever. and again all that is irrelevant the fact that money is being exchanged is irrelevent. he knows that this girl is sleeping around behind his friends back and he deserves to know before it gets too serious. if i was in a relationship with someone that was having weekly gangbangs behind my back i would like to know because that is cheating. and before you make another horrible point, there is nothing wrong with gangbangs but id rather be single instead of dealing with someone doing that. i dont see how this is so hard for you to grasp. and your points are really bad and you should feel bad .
also some synthetic work relationship =/= good friend
"She's sleeping around"? How can a prostitute 'sleep around' lol? Is that your new definition of promiscuous?
Don't know if this guy has ever hired an SP?
I doubt that the OP is on this board or BP as a conscientious objector.
Look it, what you're really saying is, that the OP is justified to telling what he knows about this gal to his other friend because he feels his friend would not want a relationship with a prostitute. Plain and simple. I can understand that pov.
If he feels he's doing the right thing by telling his friend, then so be it. I'm just saying that it might back fire. Someone else raised the possibility that her BP pics might have been copied off her FB to make her look bad. So maybe one should be sure before they press the nuclear button.
wow ive been arguing with someone who doesnt know what sleeping around means.
Sleeping around
When someone has been having sex with several different people.
Sometimes used pejoratively when referring to a person in a relationship who's been cheating on his or her partner.
Betty: I heard you want to break up with Jim.
Susan: Yeah, I think he's been sleeping around.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sleeping around
Well you see, when I'm fartin' around the club playing $2 nassaus, I'm golfing. But, if I were to join the PGA, I wouldn't be golfing. I'd be working.
If I'm whipping up dinner for a few friends at home, I'm cooking. But if I ran the kitchen at auberge....
I know sluts and they don't charge my friend (not that I abhor slutty women - that's a disparaging term for a sexually liberated woman ha ha).
If you want to argue that it's repugnant to have a GF or SO as a prostitute, then I'll accept your POV (and we're just needlessly arguing over semantics).
But to say that prostitutes are promiscuous because they charge to sleep with many is inaccurate, and this is what you're arguing.
(I looked at your Urban Dictionary definition. Where does it stipulate that escorts who work also 'sleep around'? Are you that simple?)
you really arent bright at all. there is no stipulation because it doesnt matter if you get paid or do it for free. you subscribe to the its not sex its work . you are the one that are bringing up these stupid euphemisms like 'promiscuous' and 'love affair'
