I would have thought after two world wars and a few genocides that we were past the idea that MYOB was a viable principle for civilized society.
Lend your advice please.
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High school buddy you never see = who cares? Keep your mouth shut.
Your brother, a closer family member, your current best friend = tell them, for their own safety.
Your brother, a closer family member, your current best friend = tell them, for their own safety.
In 2014 iIwould think people w ould be more open to other people having different opinions and pov rather then saying no this the rules this is the way that it is rather then weighing the information and making a decision based on the information in front of them
Same here, if she really loved him she would tell him...
This thing of "never tell" I find disturbing...
Do you have a problem with clients who don't tell their partners that they see providers?
dumbest comment ever.
if she is sleeping around behind his back with out his knowledge and approval. it's cheating regardless if its for profit or not.
Or rather the Devil take the hindmost!
I've posted it once, I'll post it again. In these circumstances deciding to be "a truth teller" has a high probability of ending badly for all involved.
So do you think that all clients on the board should tell their partners/wives/girlfriends that they see providers, for their "own safety"?
Your casual girlfriend, friend with benefits = who cares? Keep your mouth shut.
Your wife, serious girlfriend, mother of your kids = tell them, for their own safety.
From my experience, sex workers are the most knowledgeable about STIs. I'd feel safer fucking someone that has a clue about safer sex practices & STI transmission/testing/ etc.
Hey Jessica. I can hear you say 'puhleez' lol.
I would mind my own business in these circumstances.
I would also be in a dilemma if it was a close friend, but we really don't know what secrets they share.
I once encountered the boss' son's long-time girlfriend holding hands in the entertainment district with someone else (and even of a different race - not that it matters but for traditional Italians, it is a little shocking).
I kept my mouth shout until he admitted much later when he was with someone else. I said I saw them but didn't want to hurt this feelings or upset him. He said he already knew when their relationship was already rocky.
We just don't know what is going on between people, so we should mind our own business.
However, there are many people, particularly those not in the hobby, who would inform friends, especially close ones, if they are as judgmental as the average person.
Ok, that's your opinion. What if your SO differs in his?So do you think that all clients on the board should tell their partners/wives/girlfriends that they see providers, for their own safety?
Your casual girlfriend, friends with benefits = who cares? Keep your mouth shut.
Your wife, serious girlfriend, mother of your kids = tell them, for their own safety.
From my experience, sex workers are the most knowledgeable about STIs. I'd feel safer fucking someone that has a clue about safer sex practices & STI transmission/testing/ etc.
Should guys in "committed relationships" tell their partners if they're fucking around??? Well, yeah. It would be the *right* thing to do. Wouldn't you want to know?
If a guy doesn't, and you're close to his GF/wife...what would you do?
Some would do nothing. Some would tell her. We all gotta sleep at night.
I would beg to differ about your characterization of "judgmental"....
But, your example falls into the trap of several others in this thread. The issue isn't whether you are close to the cheater and don't want to out him. The appropriate comparison is if you were good friends with the boss' daughter in law, and you saw the boss' son holding hands with another woman. What would you do?
Given your job, I don't expect you will change your mind. Is it hypocritical for a punter to out an SP? Yes indeed. You can roll your eyes all you want, but the reality is that the privacy of anyone caught on either side of this business, is at risk, and the power lies with whomever has the information. There are no set rules about whether or not someone, SP or client, should tell, no matter how badly you want the rule to be "silence at all costs". C'est la vie.So do you think that all clients on the board should tell their partners/wives/girlfriends that they see providers, for their "own safety"?
Your casual girlfriend, friend with benefits = who cares? Keep your mouth shut.
Your wife, serious girlfriend, mother of your kids = tell them, for their own safety.
From my experience, sex workers are the most knowledgeable about STIs. I'd feel safer fucking someone that has a clue about safer sex practices & STI transmission/testing/ etc.
My reference to judgmental is that the average person (who doesn't hobby), would find it offensive and apply a more strict moral standard. Those who hobby and who are not hypocrites (apart from their own secret or dark side), probably would keep their mouths shut.
Your example is still not an analogy. The issue is the outing of hobbyists or working girls.
But I will answer your hypothetical question. I am close to the boss' son and said nothing. If I was close to the boss' daughter-in-law, I wouldn't say anything either (God knows, but I also might get fired lol if she disclosed her source, especially if the boss and/or his son, wants his son to marry my friend, regardless of his philandering).
Things will take their natural course.
this woman basically outed herself by using pictures from facebook. its stupid to blame op if he tells his good friend.
Probably but isn't the OP a hypocrite for being on BP in the first place? Ye who is without sin cast the first stone.
Of course he is, and of course by telling his high school friend, he will be outing himself too. Throwing around platitudes doesn't change the situation.
hes a hypocrite for seeing sps while being spoken for. not for simply being on bp.
