said the person on the escort review board.Besides, do you really wanna be where he has?
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said the person on the escort review board.Besides, do you really wanna be where he has?
So am I. So what? Debate the issue, not the person.Keep an open mind GPI is a long time friend of Muse/MPA.
what risks exactly are you referring to?
It's an excellent first post, very informative about how different escorts might need to approach their partner.Hey all, this is my first post on the boards, though I've read a bunch of threads and feel like I've gotten to know some of you a bit
Try to respect their opinion, they bring a different perspective that should be welcomed.The ladies just can't be spoken too on this one. Each of them is in the "I can see this only from my own perspective and the rest of you are just mean" mode that we all know and looooove so much. Sigh.
Forget hunches...I call these deflections. I'm asking what you would do, not how good you are at maintaining friendships.I stay in touch with the people I really like, even if it's just an occasional post card or email.
It was just a hunch ... if a close friend is dating someone I don't usually find out via facebook ... that simply implies a more distant friendship
Correct me if I'm wrong, but there's nothing to indicate that your friend's girlfriend has done anything particularly wrong? If we're comparing outing an SP vs. outing a client...which no one's really answered, or I missed it if they did...could we stick to actually analogous situations? Ie. your female friend is dating a man who you know frequents SPs. Do you tell her? Pretend your female friend is exactly the same relationship as your current male friend, and you know as much about the boyfriend as you do about the girlfriend.Alison - Does it change if your friend knows you're an SP already? If she knows about what you do, would you tell her about a new bf that was a client of yours?? What if he was a really shitty client - who borderline raped you. Since we're throwing around the worst of the worst what if's here (with allusions my friend would go off the handle and start killing people). What if a SP friend of yours warned you about this guy who had herpes and was trying for bare service - and then he's out with a friend of yours. Would you still keep your mouth shut.
This is a double standard. Would you want an SP who went to kindergarten with your GF outing you?Hey I'm playing devils advocate with myself. And yes, if I was dating a prostitute...I'd appreciate someone telling me. Something odd happening here though...she also has a FB profile picture of another working girl...and is using it as herself. I don't know if my friend is shilling FB. Lol. Because she is seriously hot.
+1 She could be gearing up to sit down and have this conversation with him. You have no idea! Do I tell someone what I do on the first date? "What are your hobbies, do you have any brothers or sisters? How do you feel about me touching cocks for money? Please pass the salt." NO.It's possible he already knows. It's possible he doesn't, and she's planning on telling him. It's possible that it's a very new relationship. It's possible she's only SP-ing for a short time, and plans to quit and never go back.
I have a guy I know, knowingly beats up on girls. ... big time piece of shit. some rumors of rape too that I don't doubt.Correct me if I'm wrong, but there's nothing to indicate that your friend's girlfriend has done anything particularly wrong? If we're comparing outing an SP vs. outing a client...which no one's really answered, or I missed it if they did...could we stick to actually analogous situations? Ie. your female friend is dating a man who you know frequents SPs. Do you tell her? Pretend your female friend is exactly the same relationship as your current male friend, and you know as much about the boyfriend as you do about the girlfriend.
Thank you for reiterating what has been said. Herein lies the issue.This is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS DUDE. You have NO IDEA what is going on in this relationship, he could have met her as an SP and is now dating her. YOU HAVE NO CLUE, so why OUT SOMEONE like this? It's insane. And bull-shit this is a close pal you really like and lost touch with and want to re-connect with. You asked in your original post if you should BOOK AND PAY TO FUCK HIS GIRLFRIEND. Muse said it too, from her EXPERIENCE WITH PEOPLE IN THE INDUSTRY BEING OUTED - men don't always quietly break it off and say "Thanks for the heads up pal" there is a chance to CONTINUE THE OUTING. - tell their mutual friends - tell the woman's family and friends - post it publicly on the internet for anyone to see - tell her boss - if she has kids, tell CAS (Children Aid Society) You have no clue how much stigma is involved with sex work and how outing someone could have SERIOUS CONSEQUENCES. Listen to the sex workers in this thread telling you this. Even if you don't like it.
You have to be kidding me. Where did I say that all sex workers share my opinion? I said to LISTEN TO THE ONES IN THIS THREAD.Allison, please also don't be so sure that all working girls share your opinion, because it is clearly not the case. Getting some pm's from well known board girls, giving me great advice on how to approach the 'reveal' if you will.
No its definitely you. when you suggested OP was a hypocrite for simply looking at BP you made this clear. her enjoyment of the sex irrelevant. dont act like she is being raped. you fuck someone behind your SO's back while she is under the belief that she is in a monogamous relationship its still cheating even if the sex was bad. whether OP found her profile on BP or in the fuck me section on POF its the exact same issue.