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freedomlover said:
My wife sleeps every day until 3 pm, so if I try to pay a company to serve her, it is impossible. She doesnt work and she doesnt go outside, nor does she answer the door. I called my friend over and let him in the door in order to get her served.
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My ex was very similar, and it turned out she was talking to some guy all night on her computer (on the fucking $2,700 PC I bought her). She would go to sleep at 11 am and not wake up until who knows when... She didn't do shit around the house... She kept asking me for $20k and I figured out later she was planning to go meet this dude in Australia... So glad I never gave it to her.

We used to have awesome sex, suddenly she never wanted to anymore. It was really strange. Anyways after a few years of that shit, and finding out what she was up to, I GTFO. I was always loyal to her and never fucked around though i flirted a bit here and there, that was it. After I left I started seeing SPs.

I would suggest to you, GTFO. Go stay at a friends house for a bit. Cut her the fuck off from $. Than see what happens.
 
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SillyGirl said:
Major depression? Agoraphobic?
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I was trying to figure out what was wrong with my ex also. Anytime I breached the subject she would shut down. No interest in talking about working things out, no interest in seeing a doctor, no interest in see someone to talk to like a therapist...
 
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She is not agoraphobic. She is just so selfish. She comes from ALOT of money (typical FOB chinese girl who came here to study) and I think it is the money that allows her to do nothing with her life. If we were poor, I think she would cooperate with me.
 
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GPIDEAL said:
That if not what mtm2011 said in post #22.
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Could be both as I think was the case with my ex. There was much more going on her than simply talking to this guy. I know my ex had hard times in her life and I myself have battled depression but I went and got help for it and now I am doing well. To see someone you love just become someone you can't stand to be around and want to be free off... it sucks. Sad thing is, I still think of her daily and love her.
 
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mtm2011 said:
I was trying to figure out what was wrong with my ex also. Anytime I breached the subject she would shut down. No interest in talking about working things out, no interest in seeing a doctor, no interest in see someone to talk to like a therapist...
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Then the solution is to GTFO like you say. Tougher if there's kids involved.
 
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She is not agoraphobic. She is just so selfish. She comes from ALOT of money (typical FOB chinese girl who came here to study) and I think it is the money that allows her to do nothing with her life. If we were poor, I think she would cooperate with me.
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Just tell her you want to seek help to save your marriage and if she refuses just GTFO man. Trust me, I stuck around with my ex for about 2 years of bullshit hoping things would change. It just made me miserable as well and ended up on two different anti-depressants.
 
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mtm2011 said:
Could be both as I think was the case with my ex. There was much more going on her than simply talking to this guy. I know my ex had hard times in her life and I myself have battled depression but I went and got help for it and now I am doing well. To see someone you love just become someone you can't stand to be around and want to be free off... it sucks. Sad thing is, I still think of her daily and love her.
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You are a compassionate man.
 
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Freedomlover, I'm so sorry to learn this.

I presume that you have already sought professional assistance?
 
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GPIDEAL said:
You are a compassionate man.
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Thank you. She really was a great person, we had so many great times together and I miss them. Just even doing odd little things like cooking, shopping together, watching TV on the sofa, when we used to meet for lunch almost every other day, etc. And of course all the sweet, sweet love we made. To this day if I could work things out and it would be like old times I would get back with her in an instant. And I'm still super tight with her family.

Of course she has the guy from Australia with her now.
 
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mtm2011 said:
Thank you. She really was a great person, we had so many great times together and I miss them. Just even doing odd little things like cooking, shopping together, watching TV on the sofa, when we used to meet for lunch almost every other day, etc. And of course all the sweet, sweet love we made. To this day if I could work things out and it would be like old times I would get back with her in an instant. And I'm still super tight with her family.

Of course she has the guy from Australia with her now.
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Don't dwell in the past or have those good memories make you soft. She didn't want to make the first move, and did her own thing, especially with the pursuit of this other guy from Australia. Seek out someone new to make you happy. You don't deserve to be treated like this.
 
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freedomlover said:
She threw a fit and started hitting me the last time I tried to have her served. She is very aggressive, very angy and if i strike her back, I will go to jail.
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"freedomlover" is a rather ironic name based on your circumstances...some guys like crazy chics. Is she hot at least?
 
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mtm2011 said:
My ex was very similar, and it turned out she was talking to some guy all night on her computer (on the fucking $2,700 PC I bought her). She would go to sleep at 11 am and not wake up until who knows when... She didn't do shit around the house... She kept asking me for $20k and I figured out later she was planning to go meet this dude in Australia... So glad I never gave it to her.

We used to have awesome sex, suddenly she never wanted to anymore. It was really strange. Anyways after a few years of that shit, and finding out what she was up to, I GTFO. I was always loyal to her and never fucked around though i flirted a bit here and there, that was it. After I left I started seeing SPs.

I would suggest to you, GTFO. Go stay at a friends house for a bit. Cut her the fuck off from $. Than see what happens.
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too bad you didnt give her an entry level dell..you would have felt better i guess
 
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A fob?!? bro fobs are more likely to be a typical housewife that cooks and cleans.. i guess you just let her have too much power and she took advantage of it
 
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freedomlover said:
She is not agoraphobic. She is just so selfish. She comes from ALOT of money (typical FOB chinese girl who came here to study) and I think it is the money that allows her to do nothing with her life. If we were poor, I think she would cooperate with me.
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When you said she doesn't go outside, did you mean she never does?

Is it possible she has a drug or alcohol addiction?

Have you suggested she might benefit from some counseling? I mean suggested in a "I'm worried about you" kind of way, not a "you're a crazy bitch who needs a therapy team" way. If so, how did she react?
 
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