Everyone would like to consider themselves exceptional but I would never assume that I am. I would honestly have a hard time answering your question factually because while SPs talk, there isn't quite open exchange that would allow this kind of information to be shared. I do find it more common in older SPs but have crossed paths with a couple of younger ones that fit the bill. I base my insight on how they talk about their clients. If they constantly complain about the little stuff then they probably don't "get it" and can't truly connect on a physical level. If there is a real connection then the little annoyances don't factor in as important. An example of this for me is beards. For years I detested going to see a client with facial hair because it left me with burn on my face and lady bits. Now I have several guests with beards and I don't even notice the burn because I'm glowing when they leave.thanks Cat for your input. In your opinion, is your attitude towards the business common or exceptional? I presume that sexual maturity plays an important part?
Speaking from experience, it's her hormones. Get her in to have them checked by a doctor that specializes in BHRT (NOT SYNTHETIC!). You may have to travel to TO, mine is in Thunder Bay. I've seen women get their hormones straightened out in their 60's and life gets interesting!Wow..CAT thanks for that insight...I do believe that ..as a woman gets older her sex drive only goes 2 ways...either yeah i love sex..as yours did...or the other way ...I dont have time,need.or whatever....and I suspect the later is the reason some of the guys here.....are here.!!(thats my reason)
As I said earlier...some of the ladies I talked to between shots....were very business savvy and had the master plan...all worked out ..some just starting out....but had an exit plan ....and others were just trying to make ends meet ...for various reasons.
I just find that my partners can't keep up as time goes on; it's a huge responsibility for one man to carry.
I love that comment....during my S/O sexual awakening(which the only way i can describe it as)...It was her continous need to Fuck 2-3 times a day.....and I was always pushed to bring my ''A'' game constantly...then as quick as it came(pardon the pun)..it went...now we're both in our 50's..my drive is hitting an ebb again( although i'm on the shelf for a bit for medical reasons) and hers is non existent...go figure!!
You need to eat to live but you don't need to see SPs/MPAs to live.Yep, but I enjoy eating too and sometimes don`t remember what I had for lunch.
speak for yourself man! lolYou need to eat to live but you don't need to see SPs/MPAs to live.
Yikes...that's not a good stat, sadly, you're probably very close. Thanks for sharing Vitto... But I see that most of these girls specially the younger croud sadly they just spent their money n drugs and party (I must say a vast majority, not all of them but yes I can almost say 95% or more...)
Thanks for sharing dude. I feel ya on some of that. As fucked as this sounds.. sometimes its better to rub one out.. (cuz before that is when you're hot and bothered and willing to do anything stupid) soon as that's done you're like. ok. that saved me 200bucks. and the time going/coming and finding someone.. so call it 300-400 depending on your hourly wage rate.I know I have an addiction. I first tried an SP out of frustration with a long term gf that wouldn't put out. One time thing, didn't do it for years, until a girl I dated cheated with a good friend. Had some anger sex. At that time had some more disposable income, and I liked the guaranteed sex, without drama. Sure not every girl was stellar. At first I was satisfied with simple encounters, but then I started wanting for extensive menus. At first would only go to sp that looked like magazine models, but little by little standards came down on looks and went more for performance.
Then I was in a relationship, with a very attractive girl who outperformed any sp I found. I started thinking I didn't know why I was going, since I was paying for something inferior to what I get at home. Maybe variety. I felt guilty after encounters. Sometimes I would go and not have too much fun. I've tried to cut down. I have a new gf who's even pretier than the last, and puts most sp' PSE experience to shame. And I have managed to go long periods without seeing sp's, and become pickier again. But I still get the urge and go sometimes. 70% of time don't have fun when I go. The rest that I do enjoy, but once I cum I feel guilty and don't enjoy as much. Whereas before I would enjoy the company of the girl after, or want another shot. And to think of the cost. Now sometimes when I get the urge to go, I grab the money I was going to spend and buy something for myself or my gf with it. Sometimes works.
So the fact that I keep doing something I no longer enjoy and know it's bad for me, means it's an addiction.
I guess we have different priorities.speak for yourself man! lol
the break should be helpful... if you can ditch the email.. tryDidn't think I could get addicted to any facet of this hobby. Thought I had seen and tried it all, from soapy massages in Bangkok to sex clubs in Prague, with everything in between (the world out there has alot more to offer than Ottawa's boring scene gentlemen, get travelling) So far I had always been able to stop cold turkey while in a relationship, and didnt consider myself addicted in any way. Recently got engaged to a beautiful chinese girl, have a great sex life at home, so put all this away for what I thought was the last time. That is until I met a stripper, of all things. Each guy has an image in his head of the perfect girl... When I met her I realized mine had been all wrong. Now I find myself living a messed up double life planning a wedding at home during the day and spending my nights in a strip club hoping to manage to catch this girl's attention. Not to mention I also see her outside the club frequently.
Addiction is a messed up thing, and I have ao much to lose if caught. Spend my days feeling guilty but can't help heading back out every chance I get. The money isnt an issue for me, but everything else is. She's leaving town soon for an extended period of time, thought I saw a light at the end of the tunnel, but she insisted we keep in touch by email while she is gone, and I dont think I have the willpower to resist that.
LOL...true!!!
I have talked to a few ...about why...and they were pretty honest about it....although i have yet to hear one say ...cus I love it!!
LOL.. I remember mine being three girls in Amsterdam .. wait London as well. But never four.. good for you =D lol. You must have started early in the day.I believe I am totally addictive to this hobby. I generally see a girl each month but lately it's one per week. It's probably because of the high improvement in talent for ottawa the past years. Ten or so years ago it was so bad I had to go Montreal and when I was there I just go wild. Everytime I was there I would see at least two girls back to back. My record is four girls in one day and it was one of my the happiest day in my life. Thinking about those Montreal days still gives me good feeling. Well, we only have one life and so make the best of it. That's what money is for.
so if the repeats are as little as they are, I'm guessing you're disappointed often? I'm finding I'm winding down a bit, as the experiences are downers.yup, I started at 9am and by 9 pm I was sleeping like a baby and with a big smile.
I repeat if I like the girl. Lately I repeated once with Emily of PK and Elle of EH. I did repeat five times with Jessy of PK. The most repeat is Alison of PK about two years ago. It must be something like eight times. It's just too bad she had to leave town for good. I would have kept seeing her if she's still around. Damn, she's the best!