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What's the worst thing an ex has done to you ?

shack

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we were planning our wedding, we got in another massive fight on wednesday when she came home from the bar drunk again. it had become a daily thing, so that wednesday she told me to get out, friday i left, saturday i came to get some more of my shit and the new guy had already moved in and my daughter was telling me about "new daddy". they got engaged on sunday. she spent the 15k loan i got for her for our business on him in the first month together, maxed out the 2 business credit cards and killed the business that was making about 8k a month. found out after we split she fucked all of my friends and was spending 40$ every 2 days on morning after pills.
Combined with this thread, it seems that you have an incredible amount of volatility/confrontation in your life, especially with the people you are closest with.

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fmahovalich

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Rick... She put the cat shit in your clothes.....not the cat silly !

And are the girls Bitches.... Or in some cases, are the boys stupid?
 

simon482

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Combined with this thread, it seems that you have an incredible amount of volatility/confrontation in your life, especially with the people you are closest with.

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...ly.-how-would-you-handle-it.&highlight=family
actually i am very close with my mother, very close with my step brother. i have no patience or tolerance in my life for people that talk behind backs, back stab or any other sort of shit. two faced people have no place in my world. it`s not that i am volatile, i just have little or no patience for ignorance.
 

K Douglas

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Wow I guess I'm lucky my breakups have been pretty amicable. When I was younger and dating in university a girlfriend decided to move out west on a whim and didn't even tell me. I called her and her roommate told me she moved out that morning. That was probably the worst thing that's happened but hey that's university right..........not a really serious relationship.
 

shack

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actually i am very close with my mother, very close with my step brother. i have no patience or tolerance in my life for people that talk behind backs, back stab or any other sort of shit. two faced people have no place in my world. it's not that i am volatile, i just have little or no patience for ignorance.
I wasn't implying that you are volatile, but that you are in many volatile situations and with people who you would expect to be close with and trust.

Maybe time to try and figure out why this happens (if there is a common element) so as to avoid these nasty incidents. Nobody needs shit like that.
 

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Franchises in this country pay employees underneath the table. The CRA do not bother to nail them because employees want it this way and plus the money will go back into the economy anyways because he or she has to spend it for daily provisions. Most of the blue collar work force do not want to a hire or pay for an accountant to avoid the paper. It is too costly and time consuming. So fuck it all, let's do it this way.

Anyways, I believe having a good reputation and connections shall set you free and of course, stay away from psycho bitches. This seems to be more dangerous than a partner seeking revenge. A former partner(s) will have to hurt themselves in order to hurt you.

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I take it you have not met the CRAs Trident task force.

as for the partner...yes, it may well be a situation of mutual self destruction, but not always. the smart ones will cover their own ass. it's always good to hold a chip when you're playing poker.
 

simon482

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I wasn't implying that you are volatile, but that you are in many volatile situations and with people who you would expect to be close with and trust.

Maybe time to try and figure out why this happens (if there is a common element) so as to avoid these nasty incidents. Nobody needs shit like that.
i have ended a lot of friendships over the years. i can count on 2 hands the people in my life i interact with and give a fuck about. new people can fuck off, old friends that i already cut off can fuck off. i am happy with what i got, don't need more.
 

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One ex broke up with me via email after 6 years together! Didn't even have the courtesy to do it in person. I guess it's not as bad as some stories here but it still bothered me.
 

simon482

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One ex broke up with me via email after 6 years together! Didn't even have the courtesy to do it in person. I guess it's not as bad as some stories here but it still bothered me.
that is kind of a cowardly chickenshit way to go.
 

lamgos

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The crazy shit typically happens to good looking guys, their ex knows they can do better and it drives them crazy, never heard of anything like that happening to the george constanza types.
 

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I had my Ex Fiancee accused me of rape, and she called CAS , on 3 of my family members. Lucky no one believed her stories, both were just bold faced lies. Then 6 years later she gets in touch with me thru facebook, and shes a lesbian now, and she asks me to father a child for her and her gf. I just blocked her.
 

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I had my Ex Fiancee accused me of rape, and she called CAS , on 3 of my family members. Lucky no one believed her stories, both were just bold faced lies. Then 6 years later she gets in touch with me thru facebook, and shes a lesbian now, and she asks me to father a child for her and her gf. I just blocked her.
C'mon! You stole that scenario from "friends Carol-the ex wife, Susan her lesbian lover" asked Ross to donate sperm.
 

Don Draper

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The crazy shit typically happens to good looking guys, their ex knows they can do better and it drives them crazy, never heard of anything like that happening to the george constanza types.

The George Constanza types have to live with the fact that they are the George Constanza type.

That is by far a worse fate than whatever it is a vengeful spouse will do to you.
 

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I had an ex-girlfriend in college suck off 2 guys at a party in front of me and everybody else less than a week after she dumped me (we'd been dating for 6 months). That was pleasant..
 

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Takes me to the cleaners. Lost everything but my truck year later calls me back. Whatnots to make up. We get together. Convince me that needs to renovate the house. Stupid me. I do it. final inspection done kicks me out again. Month later calls me : '' thanks for the house and by the way I'm pregnant again with your third child. Thanks no I have everything I wanted. Oh your. Hold support will increase once the kid is born''
I'm a sucker
You should give her one more chance.
 
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