SP's emotionally attached to their clients
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Emotionally attached to me?
Do you mean emotionally involved like women sort of smile at ugly dogs on the street corner or like a pair of old slippers she would die of embarrassment to be seen with? You bet!
Do you mean like they would with a man who was not cheating on his wife or was not so un-appealing he can pick up pretty girls at bars and laundry rooms in their buildings? (I like double negatives) You must be joking!
I think there are simple test s
#1. Go out to a local event. Approach five girls at least as young and attractive as the SP you want. If you get 3 or more phone numbers, yes an escort might become emotionally involved with you.
#2. Have you given her money in the last 3 months? If you have stop asking silly questions.
#3. Ask her to lend you a couple of hundred.
The vast majority of the time, for me, it's pretty blatant how "business-like" my dates are. Then there are those rare occasions where I'll click with the SP either physically/emotionally, sometimes both, and it becomes a lot more passionate. These usually become my regular/repeat SP's.
Then there's the extremely rare times, I'll actually care about the SP to the point I think about them often and want to see them outside the bedroom. This happened once. We had so much in common and the chemistry was apparent from the first time she appeared behind that door
The sparks flew and I would get butterflies everytime I thought about her. But no relationship materialized beyond the bedroom.
Similar to what Sydney said, but from the client's perspective, it's difficult to care about someone, come here and read reviews about her, and not feel like just some random client. I stopped seeing this SP cause these feelings for her were getting to the point of being unhealthy. As I said, we have lots in common, so perhaps we'll cross paths again but in a more relationship-conducive environment.
Then there's the extremely rare times, I'll actually care about the SP to the point I think about them often and want to see them outside the bedroom. This happened once. We had so much in common and the chemistry was apparent from the first time she appeared behind that door
The sparks flew and I would get butterflies everytime I thought about her. But no relationship materialized beyond the bedroom. Similar to what Sydney said, but from the client's perspective, it's difficult to care about someone, come here and read reviews about her, and not feel like just some random client. I stopped seeing this SP cause these feelings for her were getting to the point of being unhealthy. As I said, we have lots in common, so perhaps we'll cross paths again but in a more relationship-conducive environment.
Sydney, either he was just saying that in the afterglow, or was indecisive or too scared later to take up your offer (not that there's anything wrong with you darling).
There's one SP that I'd date (maybe two more lol).
I know that you didn't ask him to date you, per se. I think he was very lucky for you to be okay to meet off the clock for ice cream or wherever. C'est la vie. I'm sure there are plenty of guys (client or not) who would like to hang with you.lol it's not like I was saying I wanted to date him - he had mentioned the idea of hanging out with me over the many months he had been seeing me. I'm not looking for a bf at this point in my life, just very selectively keeping a few good friends nearby to battle the boredom of lonely days
Oh well, as they say: you win some you lose some!
Don't get the wrong message as to whether it is serious or just hanging out. Been there on both - both are fine. Was in a serious one only once, and it was a long once (rarely happens, I think) - it was positive - and hung out many a time.
My advice is to think realistically and just to enjoy anything for what it is. Make the best out of what is happening now.
My advice is to think realistically and just to enjoy anything for what it is. Make the best out of what is happening now.
If you want a happy ending..... you have to know where to stop the story.
If I find her amazing..... first encounter.... 2 hours.... next encounter is a dinner date. The end.
Even if she would try to establish some sort of contact a few weeks/months and even a year or two later, not going to reply.
Personally this hobby for me is about inspiration and not to find some happy ending. It is to end things when they are great and not when things start to go stale. I wouldn't want that.
Only problem is that sometimes I do this to the civilian women that have come into my life. Just that this takes place in months and not in one/two encounters.
Oh well. Some folks I guess are meant to be alone.
If I find her amazing..... first encounter.... 2 hours.... next encounter is a dinner date. The end.
Even if she would try to establish some sort of contact a few weeks/months and even a year or two later, not going to reply.
Personally this hobby for me is about inspiration and not to find some happy ending. It is to end things when they are great and not when things start to go stale. I wouldn't want that.
Only problem is that sometimes I do this to the civilian women that have come into my life. Just that this takes place in months and not in one/two encounters.
Oh well. Some folks I guess are meant to be alone.
I'm going to be honest with you here (SINCE YOU ASKED, lol), Mr. Doggystyle
with all due respect, MY opinion of the differences are...a "slut" would sleep with everybody and to go along with that would more than likely have "daddy issues", have low self esteem, not protecting themselves (not that I am putting down, GOD loves us all. NO offense to those people)..and in the SP world, it's not ALWAYS about sex hun. There are plenty of people who would rather just enjoy the companionship over anything else. I have never pushed for anything although I am very open minded :-D
AND I take precautions. ...the difference with me is...this "business" isn't all about business for me, although it hELPS. But this is not a full time thing for me, I am a professional in other areas. This to me is a balance of sorts
The perks of this is I get to choose who I want to see also. Having many ex's doesn't necessarily mean they have SLEPT with all of them..it doesn't necessarily mean anything, except that they are not willing to settle for just anybody....or it could mean a fear of commitment?...or possibly just experimenting a bit before they settle down??...I don't know about your family, but mINE? lmao...they see through all the lies. Italians are quite nosy OHHH madonna!! I hear ya! I have seen a particular client for 7 years now? I can honestly say Yes I fell in love and yes I fell out of love when he opened his big mouth with the sharp sword tongue of his...then the same cycle over again...for 7 years now
I can tell he felt the same periodically...We have been close, lol...but yet for REAL? not in our cards.Italians & Chinese ain't that far part when it comes to traditional & nosy. It just depends on how smart you are and keeping that poker face with your storiesI'm going to be honest with you here (SINCE YOU ASKED, lol), Mr. Doggystyle
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AND I take precautions. ...the difference with me is...this "business" isn't all about business for me, although it hELPS. But this is not a full time thing for me, I am a professional in other areas. This to me is a balance of sorts
lolI agree your point, but what I'm saying from your previous post is..will it stuck in the back of my mind that she's a....well yes to some extend, but I believe that when you really in love with that someone, I don't think it will bother you (especially the "honeymoon" period), but once it turns ugly, SP or not everything always come crashing down hard.
And as long you capable to map a well decent story, I'm pretty sure your family will buy it. If you need help let me know. We'll talk privately lol
Unless you're over 5'10"... they fall for tall clients all the time.
agree. i am 6 ft 1.
ANytime hunItalians & Chinese ain't that far part when it comes to traditional & nosy. It just depends on how smart you are and keeping that poker face with your stories
I agree your point, but what I'm saying from your previous post is..will it stuck in the back of my mind that she's a....well yes to some extend, but I believe that when you really in love with that someone, I don't think it will bother you (especially the "honeymoon" period), but once it turns ugly, SP or not everything always come crashing down hard.
And as long you capable to map a well decent story, I'm pretty sure your family will buy it. If you need help let me know. We'll talk privately lol
as for the P-P-P-Poker FAce, lmao Actually, no they don't.
I've done several friends free favours over the years and some (not all - but that's another thread) return the favour.
In any event, you're basically talking about honesty and openness as the best way to approach such a relationship. You have to empathize as well.
It would also help if the guy was turned on by it - not necessarily as a cuckold, but knowing he has this hot & sexy gal as his personal trophy.
