SP's emotionally attached to their clients
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I've had an ' emotional attachment ' to an sp for about 3 years now.
I see her regularly, often there is not money involved, as we enjoy each others company.
I've been wanting to ' stop ' but it is even more difficult with the attachment.
She's not gf material, but given other circumstances, she would be.
too bad really.
I see her regularly, often there is not money involved, as we enjoy each others company.
I've been wanting to ' stop ' but it is even more difficult with the attachment.
She's not gf material, but given other circumstances, she would be.
too bad really.
SPs (or any industry gal, be it MPA or ED) also have their hearts broken, and get manipulated or used by guys too.
Whether it would be difficult to be in a relationship with her due to her job (and how others might judge you), or if she has some bad habits that you couldn't tolerate, it's best to stay as a close customer. At least you can enjoy each other's company that way and not hurt each other, and manage to maintain the 'relationship'.
I didn't read through this whole thread because it's a little long (and realize it's a couple weeks old) so sorry if I repeat what's already been said.
Yes, SPs can sometimes fall for clients but I also agree it's probably much more common the other way around. I have had to stop seeing certain clients in the past because I felt they were becoming too emotionally attached and 'clingy'. Maybe they weren't and I misread them but I'd rather err on the side of caution than end up going too far and having it turn into a big mess. I honestly feel that some clients are looking for a girlfriend and turn to SPs to try and find one. Yes, it could happen and if it does great! But it's probably not the best place to look. And then if the feeling is not reciprocated by the lady, the guy tends to think it's because we're just mean and evil 'whores' with no feelings. It's not fair....
Yes, SPs can sometimes fall for clients but I also agree it's probably much more common the other way around. I have had to stop seeing certain clients in the past because I felt they were becoming too emotionally attached and 'clingy'. Maybe they weren't and I misread them but I'd rather err on the side of caution than end up going too far and having it turn into a big mess. I honestly feel that some clients are looking for a girlfriend and turn to SPs to try and find one. Yes, it could happen and if it does great! But it's probably not the best place to look. And then if the feeling is not reciprocated by the lady, the guy tends to think it's because we're just mean and evil 'whores' with no feelings. It's not fair....
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