You mention a number of inconsistencies and contradiction in the bible and many of them i have also mentioned previously. The passages in the bible are presented as the Word when the argument suits it and as parables when the inconsistencies are pointed out. This one of the problems of taking the message of the Bible to close to heart. There is some good stuff though, as in the Golden Rule. Not many would say that it was not good advice.To me the important issue is what these laws say about God, irregardless of who they are/were addressed to. They paint a picture of a God that is not at all just, fair, or ethical...by any standard other than the believer standard (which is if it is in the Bible and God said it, or did it, it must, by definition, be good). Believers have no defense, in my opinion, against the Biblical picture of the character and nature of the God they worship. And in my mind this says that these are all man made rules, laws, "words of God"...and there is probably no such God, at least I hope not because if so there is no need for a devil.
I don't hold it up higher than many of the great religious texts or writings and try to take the stories, advise, and accounts in stride. it's the people who look down on you because you don't believe the Word and think ogf you as incomplete because of that, who really get my goat.
.... and then there's CM and Woodie.