I agree that "Wince" is probably considered soft and doesn't have the respect of many in the league.I don't think Vince has much respect in the league. I would say he's thought of as a modern day Dominique Wilkins or Reggie Theus. Guys who can light it up consistently but they won't pay the price especially on defense to ever lead a team to a championship. I would say he's perceived as soft.
Reggie Theus - perhaps, but he was never a superstar.
Dominique Wilkins? You're way off base. He was never perceived as soft, played hard, won at least four playoff series, but had didn't have a lot of support in Atlanta to go all the way in the Celtics (Bird, et al), Pistons (Zeke, et al) and Bulls (MJ et al) dynasty eras.
Better comparisons: Penny Hardaway, Cousin Tracy McGrady, Grant Hill (pre-injuries with Detroit he was considered "soft.")