SP's emotionally attached to their clients

hinz

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^^^ I wonder if he is talking about Sunny Leone.

She's fucking gorgeous and only did girl/girl porn till a while back.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunny_Leone
She's above average looking (can't say she's really hot looking like those in Bollywood) before getting her cup size upgraded to DD, kinda like chanting "booby, booby, one more size". :rolleyes:

Having said that, if there was indeed a relationship between Russell and Sunny, the roadblock would be too much for both since Russell is an Anglo Indian (half white, half Indian) who is a Christian, while Karen is a Sikh and in porn industry banging black or white or Hispanic dudes for a living.

And I didn't mention the clashes between the families.

Needless to say, I am not surprised Russell married to his gf Monica Diaz since Monica sounds like somebody who is a half Indian, half Portuguese.
 

hinz

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If you wouldn't have told me she was Sikh I wouldn't have known.
She probably had all kinds of surgery to remove any trace of something ethnic that wasn't "All-American" looking and she now looks like any other girl.
Aren't they all look-a-like in that industry?

Sooner or later the really hot, good natural looking ladies are pressured to "mutilate" themselves and get enhanced to the point of absurdity IMHO.

Simply put, not many of them could hold their own under the pervasive incentives of all kinds, say from "interest free loan/incentives" from the studios to have the plastic surgeries (can't tell for sure whether the plastic surgeons, overwhelming male would get a kickback/rebate) to giving those physically enhanced female "talents" priorities on "lead/title role", ie more $$$$.

Pretty, but unremarkable. Welcome to the age of botox, plastic surgery and boob jobs.
LOL, ka ching, ka ching. There are no boundaries between civilian and pros, young and old, even skin color. :rolleyes:

http://www.allergan.com/index.htm
 

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If you wouldn't have told me she was Sikh I wouldn't have known.
She probably had all kinds of surgery to remove any trace of something ethnic or unique that wasn't "All-American" looking and she now looks like any other girl.
Pretty, but unremarkable. Welcome to the age of botox, plastic surgery and boob jobs.
Article says her dad was born in Tibet and raised in New Delhi but her mother is from Padesh. So perhaps, she's not purebred?

It also says her parents put her through a Catholic school (Catholic girls do it best).
 

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Sexual lust does not equate to emotional warmth.
I agree. Pure lust gives you a physical high that emotional warmth does not, although emotional warmth can give you an endorphin buzz too (apart from the satisfaction of pure love).

Dudes fall for SP's all the time. That's because they're not looking for sex with an SP, they're looking for companionship, something that you can't buy. If you're a guy falling for your SP you need to re-evaluate your motives as to why you are pooning. Even the whole "i'm friend with my SP". Define friends? I have friends. We go for wings, we have coffee together, we hit the pub, we watch sports, etc. If you're SP is your friend it's got to be more than just during a session.
There are select GFE-service girls that I have a soft spot for - some more than others. I admit to some kind of infatuation for those girls whose beauty is more than skin deep but it's tempered by the fact that it's a working association. My attraction for them is not purely physical. I wouldn't call it mutual-romantic love, but I suppose compassion and respect come to play. If we have a coffee or a pizza off the clock, or if I give a gal a lift, it's not a date. We're not friends like the true or normal sense of the word. It's a working association just like a customer has with a supplier. So I would agree with you there.

As for companionship though, you CAN buy it for a few hours. Ever go on a dinner date with an SP and see a show for a mutually-fun night, only to have their dessert later? ;)
 

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I became very close with one of my clients and we've been good friends for a while now, he's met my family and has come to family functions and my family loves him as well. Anything I truely need I know I can always ask him. I know it goes againt the rules and boundaries of some people but I believe I make my own. He has and will always be special to me and was there for me when no one was.. He's always helped boast my confidence and always treats me like a princess and I will love him for the rest of my life :) XOXO
 

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I became very close with one of my clients and we've been good friends for a while now, he's met my family and has come to family functions and my family loves him as well. Anything I truely need I know I can always ask him. I know it goes againt the rules and boundaries of some people but I believe I make my own. He has and will always be special to me and was there for me when no one was.. He's always helped boast my confidence and always treats me like a princess and I will love him for the rest of my life :) XOXO
Does he still pay for play?
 

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Does he still pay for play?
Probably not, but he gives her a lot of other benefits to offset that. Look at it as friends with benefits, lol. It's an arrangement between two adults and it's none of our business whether he pays or not frankly.
 

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Probably not, but he gives her a lot of other benefits to offset that. Look at it as friends with benefits, lol. It's an arrangement between two adults and it's none of our business whether he pays or not frankly.
Actually my question is very relevant. ie. Can an SP be emotionally involved with a client and STILL charge for services, or once there is an emotionalal attachment, no more pay for play.
It wou;d be interesting to hear from the SP's perspective. Not trying to be nosy.
 

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Actually my question is very relevant. ie. Can an SP be emotionally involved with a client and STILL charge for services, or once there is an emotionalal attachment, no more pay for play.
It wou;d be interesting to hear from the SP's perspective. Not trying to be nosy.
I still don't know why you want to know, you keep saying you're interested and that's a weak reason in my book so I conclude you're nosy, lol, unless you're contemplating doing it and want to know what others are doing so you can plan for it. Let's agree to disagree about its relevancy, I still don't think it's none of yours, or mine, or anyone else's business if she gives freebies or gets paid.

Besides, you've been on here long enough to know that you'll not always read the truth, guys and dolls make up things on this board continually, use your own common sense.
 

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Sorry to break the news but if she won't see U without the payment, its not love
 

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I'm sure this thread has been brought up before but I still wonder if SP's get some emotional attachment to their clients. I personally had emotional attachment to a few regular SP's, the same feelings you would have for your friends. I don't mean stalking them but care about them as you would care for your friends. Your glad when you see them and you guy's talk about each others personal life instead of just sex. Mind you that has only happen to a few SP's I've seen in my 20's years of hobbying..
It seems to happen all the time. I had two different FOBs ask me to marry them last year.
 

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I still don't know why you want to know, you keep saying you're interested and that's a weak reason in my book so I conclude you're nosy, lol, unless you're contemplating doing it and want to know what others are doing so you can plan for it. Let's agree to disagree about its relevancy, I still don't think it's none of yours, or mine, or anyone else's business if she gives freebies or gets paid.

Besides, you've been on here long enough to know that you'll not always read the truth, guys and dolls make up things on this board continually, use your own common sense.
The subject in question is about SP's emotionally attached to clients and what happens when this occurs. An SP gave her scenario about her feelings about a particular client who is annonymous. Obviously the thread is inquiring as to how an SP feels when this happens. My question is SP specific. Can you be emotionally involved with a client and still charge for service? An SP's perspective is what I'm interested in. No offence, but I'm not inerested in your perspective per se.
 

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Does your lawyer or accountant charge you for their services even if they are good friends?

This is business. Love don't pay the bills.
 

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but I'm not inerested in your perspective per se.
Then who's perspective are you interested in???? Do tell.


Considering I've been there, done that many times, I think I would have a pretty good perspective, but if you want speculation listen to others.
 

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I'm sure this thread has been brought up before but I still wonder if SP's get some emotional attachment to their clients. I personally had emotional attachment to a few regular SP's, the same feelings you would have for your friends. I don't mean stalking them but care about them as you would care for your friends. Your glad when you see them and you guy's talk about each others personal life instead of just sex. Mind you that has only happen to a few SP's I've seen in my 20's years of hobbying..
I have a client that keeps my picture beside his bed, calls me everyday, tells his friends/his family...MY family* (he walked in when I was skyping with my mom-Don't even ask) that he's my boyfriend and that he's in love with me.....

There is some emotional attachment yes...especially if you have been seeing them for a long time.
 
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