very good, it would be interesting to hear what other girls would have to say about this but i am sure they are all sleeping. unlike us little night birds all awake and awesome.
SP's emotionally attached to their clients
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i'm awake because i am not feeling very well ... i woke up with my stomach hurting... anyways about the emotional attachment.. I never fell in love with a client or wanted to date them it was more like enjoying their company and looking forward to see them because they were such nice gentlemen
would you date a guy that knew what you did for a living or would just assume he is trying to get something for free?
I keep in touch with alot of my clients. We do alot of emailing or texting. I'm very blessed to have wonderful friendships with these people.
Yes that is great business relations but its not being in love with them.
Then again it might be what many guys are looking for
Hey I hope that I leave a good impression and that the few I see on a regular basis have some typer of feeling for me. I have been lucky where there are a couple of regular SP's that I see that I am very fond of and hope they are fond of me. That is where my feelings stop or go which ever way you look at it. I would be sad if they did not profess there fondness for me besides us doing the deed, I talk to them by some form or another on a semi regular basis but I would never expect or want the relationship to go anywhere else
And get USED. Not all SP do cut it off, some play up on it to get more out of the guy or they give less thinking its enough to hang on.
I'm lucky in a way being far enough away not to be trap in their webs, ha ha.
If I feel a client is getting "to attached" I will tell them we should take a break.. I have great friendships but thats as far as it goes for me...
Obviously, a lot of clients either fall for SPs just because SPs are so hot and the sex is so intense, and some clients will scheme to try to get discounts and freebies, so there are pretty much guaranteed to be a lot of clients pestering SPs about dating/relationships in situations where the SP has no return interest. And so a lot of SPs will try to pre-empt such annoyance by saying they just don't do things like that, either in person, or in their posts to threads like this. But if you pay attention to threads like this, you'll see a lot of SPs saying that getting involved with clients is a mistake they won't make again. Obviously, anybody who says that has made the mistake, and people are often not good at sticking to their commitment to avoid repeating mistakes.
But, again, just because SPs sometimes fall for clients doesn't mean the SP you're currently hung up on will ever feel anything for you. She almost certainly won't. And if she does, the relationship probably won't work out (though, honestly, I'd still say go for it if there ever is mutual interest; most relationships don't work out, after all).
But, again, just because SPs sometimes fall for clients doesn't mean the SP you're currently hung up on will ever feel anything for you. She almost certainly won't. And if she does, the relationship probably won't work out (though, honestly, I'd still say go for it if there ever is mutual interest; most relationships don't work out, after all).
It's because women can get what they want in a relationship very easily - if they are willing to open their legs. Men on the other hand constantly have to work for what we get from the opposite sex, so when we do get treats, it is more valuable to us.Yep. And they say that women can't separate sex and love.
Whether you really want to or not, that is good business ettiquette. If you make it a little more intimate than an exchange for consideration, you will get many repeat customers.
Well I can see some major problems if the guy gets too attached and gets used--like violence against the SP. So yes its best to end it--like tell him you are moving away or just its gone on too long, we need a break.
I found myself being the other way and now can not get hook-fall in love, easily. Had some slip away cause I shown not enough interest or moved too slow. Don't really care but would had been nice I guess. Last thing I want is to hurt somebody feelings but sometimes I still do.
I found myself being the other way and now can not get hook-fall in love, easily. Had some slip away cause I shown not enough interest or moved too slow. Don't really care but would had been nice I guess. Last thing I want is to hurt somebody feelings but sometimes I still do.
I'm not a pooner at all (I have but it's years back) but I never found the sex that intense or great. The sex reminded me of porn type sex which I found rather functional and boring. No mutual desire, lust or need. Just sex. The third shot it was so bad I faked blowing my load and left before the session was over lest I get soft during the ordeal (and an ordeal it was). My SO is an retiring SP so I have a decent understanding of the trade & the general consensus of how the women tend to think. SP's can and do develop emotional bonds with their clients but I'd honestly say it's more about a level of comfort and trust during a session than real emotional attachment. A guy that's clean, polite and you know on a first name basis sure beats Deadbeat Dan that calls at 2 AM, wasted and wants "my cock in your pussy baby". One thing I have noted about some SP's is they do have a twisted sense of belief in themselves. I've heard a few times how they say that since becoming an SP men notice them more. I just shake my head at that one. Sexual lust does not equate to emotional warmth.
Dudes fall for SP's all the time. That's because they're not looking for sex with an SP, they're looking for companionship, something that you can't buy. If you're a guy falling for your SP you need to re-evaluate your motives as to why you are pooning. Even the whole "i'm friend with my SP". Define friends? I have friends. We go for wings, we have coffee together, we hit the pub, we watch sports, etc. If you're SP is your friend it's got to be more than just during a session.
You clearly saw the wrong SPs (or you were doing something wrong that ruined the sessions). Biased sampling may be involved in some of your other conclusions as well, but this one stood out as especially obviously a case where your experience shouldn't be taken to be representative.
